Girls: What Do You Think of Male Virgins?

[Anonymous]

What would women think of a 30 year old virgin? I guess everyone has a different answer for this question, but I want to know some women's opinions. I'm a little nervous and embarrassed about having only a bit of physical experience with women, and some specific advice might help me, especially from women who've been with older virgins.

[oxymoronica]

i think it's kind of neat. I'm not all too experienced myself, but I know that if I'm with a guy who knows all the ropes already I feel really intimidated, like I might be doing something wrong. or, like he's mentally comparing me to someone else he's been with. also, guys who have been with a lot of women tend to treat every woman's body the same way, instead of taking the time to get to know what pleases the specific woman they're with.

so, whatever your reason for not having done it yet, don't feel embarrassed; use it to your advantage. you've not yet learned all the bad habits. :)

[coolgirl81]

Regardless what anyone else says, I think it's admirable that you've managed to control yourself to the age of 30. Thirty year old virgin men are extremely rare, but I definately respect them for it, especially if it's for moral or religious reasons. If I were you, I wouldn't let the pressure to have sex get to me (which is me too). I mean, you've waited this long right, so why give in now? When you decide to go for it, I hope the girl you choose is the one you really wanted to share it with, preferably your wife not a fling or one night stand. Anyway, kudos to you! :)

[karenk]

Haha well I haven't really been with older virgins or older guys or virgins my age lol hmm or with someone haha lol but um I think that its cute and you shouldn't feel embarrassed because I mean really I would probably like you more because it shows you like respect women more or wanted to save it a while. One thing I definitely wouldn't think is eww gross what a loser lol. SO ya its not a bad thing just be proud of it lol haha its really not that big of a deal lol so don't sweat it mmk. =]

[jaylow]

i think if its through choice then I respect you completely. People say guys have to wait untill the girl is ready to have sex but really what is actually wrong with the girl waitin on the guy. Just make sure you do it with the right person who loves you and respects you for waiting.

[iamranga]

Ladies, I don't think he's a virgin because of his self-control, principles or respect for women.

He just hasn't been able to get any. Sorry for being so hard.

[qwertydoosoe]

You're mean. aha.

[iamranga]

I call it as I see it.

[Captain-Sarah]

He is being truthful. It is rare for a man to be a virgin at the age of 30 because men in general have such a strong urge to have sex. If it wasn't rare he wouldn't be asking this question. The question didn't state that he was saving himself or anything to that affect so the most obvious conclusion is he hasn't had opportunity. Not mean just honest and logical.

[iamranga]

I am in your debt Captain-Sarah

[Little-Hippie]

Yea, I was kinda wondering when someone was gonna stand up and point this out. props

[Asker]

You're mostly correct, Iamranga. I'd like to have had sex before now, but it's not worked out. I don't think you were hard or mean at all. Truth is, I haven't really dated much until the past year or so. Problems with severe depression and baggage from sexual abuse were the main issues. But now that I'm dating a bit more, my sexual inexperience is going to eventually be an issue. I was simply curious what some girls would think.

[iamranga]

I probably could have been a bit more diplomatic. Sorry about the problems you have experienced in life and if another question like this comes up again I'll be a bit more sensitive. I apologise unequivocally.

[Asker]

Thanks for the apology. But I didn't think you were mean or cruel. Like Captain Sarah said, the obvious conclusion was I hadn't had opportunity, and it was an honest and logical conclusion. You weren't insulting, and you were actually fairly accurate. It's not a question of religion, or morals. I'd really (_really_) liked to have had more sexual experience, but only in the last few years have I been ready to deal with the baggage.

[beachtexasgirl89]

to be honest, I'd think he was gay or had intimacy issues. Unless of course he was very religious and waiting for marriage.

[adat1408]

*claps hands* I salute you