How can I get my wife to be more freaky and less boring in bed?

Shes boring when it comes to anything sex. we used to have fun she would try new things.Now she's scared to do anything but lay there.

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  • She's "scared"? What changed? Are the two of you having problems? Is she stressed? Is she experiencing self-esteem issues? Maybe gained weight? Had a baby recently?

    • no baby she wants one she's always had low self esteem I compliment her all the time doesn't work. she's scared of what my reaction might be I tell her she want know unless she tries that I won't be mean

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    • Well, unfortunately, unless she is willing to figure out what the problem is and talk to you about it, I don't know if you'll be able to "fix" this.

    • I agree