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I can't enter my girlfriend's vagina!

Hi, we're both virgins and we've tried this more than 8 times. WE DO foreplay and I rub her clitoris for more than 20 minutes and she does get wet. Only problem? I can't enter her; not just my penis, even my finger. When I try to push it in anyways, it feels like as if I'm pushing into a hard wall, and she complains of extreme pain. I've seen her vagina, and I do see the hole, except incredible small. hard to see. When this continued, about two months ago her vaginal opening DID OPEN and I was able to get my middle finger inside her. I know that that means she doesn't have perforate hymen or whatever those things are, but the intercourse after that day, I just can't seem to do it right! Help :(
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Keep in mind that vaginas sometimes aren't perfectly straight, some have a tilt or curve. Go in slowly so you can feel around. Or better yet, try to have her put it in for you.

    Maybe have her finger herself sometime (in private) to see if she can get something in. Do tampons hurt her? If not, that probably means she should put your penis in for you as she knows her body better.

    If all else fails, have her see a gynecologist to see what's up.

  • You have to be really gentle and slow and she has to try to relax (which will be difficult especially since it realllyyy hurts for her). Talk to her and tell her how beautiful, that will help her relax.

  • maybe you're hitting the wrong hole? you know where her urethra is?

Most Helpful Guys

  • Its your relationship, she isn't ready for this with you. If she can't get wet for you than you need to stop...

    • she does get wet lol

  • Perhaps a case of link ?

    • yep, QA maybe youd should ask her if she can insert tampons?

    • Six other replies, I can't believe I'm the only one who mentioned vaginismus lol.

    • I don't think it's vaginismus because I was able to enter my finger one day. If she had vaginismus I don't think that would be possible at all? hm

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  • How old is she, if I may ask?

    • she's 18, I'm 19

    • If I were her I'd go see my doc for a “well woman” exam. Her doc can help her with this. :)

  • Her vagina **** blocked you!

  • Maybe she can ask her OB/GYN doctor about it. That's the person to ask.

    Theres only one hole down there besides the anus (no mistaking that small round one).

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