Girls do you ever compare current sex to a previous partner?

For example how big he is, how long he last, how good it is? Do you, or have you ever fantasized about sex with an ex while being in a relationship? Feel free to answer anonymously if you'd like.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • i guess its hard not to ever make a comparison of some kind though its not something I consciously think about doing.

    i can say I definitely don't fantasise about any ex and I'm very much over all my ex's and I'm glad not to be with them anymore.

    the sex with my current partner is way better than any I had before, so from early on I just didn't need or want to think about my ex.

  • Compare, yes...I think that's just human nature to think about this is different than that, etc. But I've never looked back. Meaning, I don't fantasize about the ex. I couldn't move on if I had those kind of feelings for the ex. So, no problem moving on and focus is on the here & now.

  • maybe it's unfair but I do tend to compare how good it is...although I don't ever compare size and how long it lasts... I don't really fantasize about someone else in bed either

Most Helpful Guys

  • I enjoy knowing my exes think about how good the sex with me was. I know it's an ego thing but it makes me feel good to have heard from a couple how they miss the sex with me even though we moved on and they had other guys in their lives. I think guys like competition and to me it's very flattering to hear something like that from girls I had been with.

  • have you ever not? I mean really if a girl goes from a 8"er to a 4"er you think she won't notice that she's only getting have the usual? people compare acbolutly everything its human nature

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  • I think everyone compares but for me it is not really in a bad way. I don't usually think well his penis is smaller so that makes him worse it is just something I will notice. And, yes I have thought of an ex while with someone else.

  • I couldn't describe how my ex was without generalizations. I doubt many women can do that either.

  • yes I do compare. all the time

    • how long between each guy do you normally wait

    • months.. a while.. sometimes it has been a year

  • Only if the currnet sex is bad. Otherwise I'm focusing on the man I'm with.

  • of course. but it doesn't mean anything. you can't help it

  • Yes...it's hard not to. I have fantasized about my ex during sex with my current boyfriend. My ex was wild in bed and my current boyfriend is kinda boring.

  • It is difficult to not notice differences. I would think that it would the same for guys noticing the differences say in the breast size of current vs. past relationships. I do not fantasize about exes at all. Generally by the time they have reached "ex" status I do not have a thought left for them.

    • how long do you normally wait between each guy