Why do some guys not want to lick p*ssy?

My ex boyfriend (whom I lost my virginity to) gave me cunnilingus without me even having to ask, and it felt awesome. But when I had sex for the first time with my new boyfriend, he would just kiss my labia majora twice and the rest was fingering. I didn't ask him to lick my p**** though; but I felt a bit flabbergasted. Why are girls irrefutably expected to give head before any sexual intercourse, whilst some guys are not keen on eating pussy? Do you find it gross, guys; or what?
I always do it.
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I would do it, but only if there is not a SINGLE hair down there.
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I find the taste... bleurgh. I wouldn't do it.
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  • I can only speak for myself.

    I was eating p**** like no tomorrow since the very 1st time I've had sex, much to the delight of my girlies. It just felt like the right thing to do. Eventually I got from awkward to mediocre to rather good. Now if a girl is nice and clean I would do ass even, but the "special" bar is higher for it. Eating p**** is pretty much par for the course.

    There was one girl I would not go down on, because her p**** smelled bad. Also if it tastes sour you may have an infection. I've otherwise been fortunate with excellent hygiene of all other girls I've been with.

    Some guys I suppose like the idea of having sex as that is what successful men get to do a lot, but they are not necessarily about pleasing women. I've learned to not put girls under pressure to have rabid orgasms with me right away and in every episode (which is a really good way, ironically, to help them start having those orgasms), but to me failing to make a girl feel really great for having been with me would really be time wasted.

  • Guys who don't want to eat p**** -- must be gay or something. I'm bisexual. I eat p****, I suck d***, always a nice light snack. And frankly the flavour of a woman is highly superior. If someone is so hung up on - excretion - well... get over it. It doesn't even have to play a part (but it can - and that's also exciting).

    But when you get down to it all, if you're dealing with dry skin - skin is skin and it tastes more or less the same no matter where it is on your body. Trust me on this. And if it's damp or moist - well, it's really not so bad. Unless she doesn't bathe the taste is so mild it's not that hard to tolerate at all.

    And when you're into golden showers and brown showers like I am, eating her out is rather like child's play. Nothing to fear at all. Oh. With one warning. She doesn't HAVE to be shaved. Really. But if she isn't, you sometimes risk a pubic hair caught in your throat. It's easy to fix though.

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  • Taste or odor. They normally expect oral sex, but won't give it.

    • That's too unfair. :/

    • NOT THIS BOY...

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  • I love giving oral, more than recieving. However, I understand guys that don't want to give oral.

    Some girls don't give oral either. It's just "gross", according to them. Can't blame them for their sexual taste, can I?

  • i love doing it...and I miost certainly don't ALWAYS get head before sex...sure there is foreplay, but not always head...hmmm where do you get your facts from!?

    • yeah maybe I'm lame but I can tell by your pathetic physique and your hair cut that you are a lame person

    • lol love it, all the trash over the internet! never surprises me either...all I said was I didn't agree with your statement, I never once made a comment on you as a human or what you looked like...its great to see America's downfall come true with people like you

    • nahh I'm holding the fort down your ruining culture and tradition

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  • Imagine if a guy was constantly ejaculating while you gave a blowjob instead of just ejaculating with orgasm.

    That's what going down on a girl is like. I do it because it pleases me girlfriend, but I don't enjoy it for any other reason.

  • I think it's the most erotic thing I can do with a woman. From my first sexual experience at age 14, I got her off by going down on her. I'm so much more adept at reacting to your wants with my tongue than with my d***. I can vary the pressure, do all sorts of different tings to see what she wants, french kiss her clit, nibble, suck, run my tongue over the hood of the clit and-every now and then, when she's not too sensitive just focus in her clit. I like doing it with her vibrator so she can feel the sensation of fullness as well as my ministrations to her engorged, sensitive parts of anatomy. I think a real turn on is kissing her deeply on the mouth after going down on her so she too can taste herself.

    Giving a girl head is so hot.

  • no idea, but I like doing it. her being pleased in a way pleases me. The one rule I have is that she has to keep her pubic hair trimmed or none at all. I prefer a landing strip but I don't want a jungle!

    • her being pleased in a way pleases me...BINGO...i feel the same way...i get off to the feeling of her or simply just by her being pleased...agreeddddddd

  • It's not always that the girl is expected to give head and the guy doesn't. With my EX, I always ate her, whether she tasted good or not, she only gave me head once or twice though in our entire relationship(7yrs). So, some guys do cater to their girls more than their girls cater to them.

  • He may be a little nervous if he's not experienced. You can be a little more forceful with the situation and tell him to do it, but wait until he's already down there, then tell him quietly "lick me!" ...and by the way - girls shouldn't be expected to give head if they have a problem with it.

  • I love it, seeing/hearing her moan and whatnot from it. It's hot. Though I guess it could be gross if girls don't take care/clean it.

  • IDK I loooovvvvveee eating that box.

  • I wish there were condoms for pussy, lol.

    • Femidom!

    • It's called a "dental dam: - check it out: link

      But why? I mean the taste is --- the best there is.

  • i love eating p**** and taking head! ;)

  • Don't care if I ever receive it...but I do expect to give it...

  • I personally am aware of std's. I would not force a woman to do it to me either, and I really find it a big warning for women who do it to guys without knowing them well, how healthy they are before doing it.

    • Yes!

  • i LOVE doing it, I love everything about it, the taste, texture, the knowledge of what its doing to her

  • i find going down on a women that's had sex with other men aside from myself to e disgusting and I just don't do it I actually don't even want to kiss them if they gave head either I also don't expect bjs

    • wow, that's nice to hear. :)

    • dude, what a gay answer...you won't even KISS a girl if she gave head...lmao toothpaste does wonders, its too bad your women don't use it if you won't even consider kissing them after giving another guy head...you need to be open with your sexuality, its not like you're gay because she sucked a guy off and then kissed you 4 months later...lmao...LAMEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

  • Why would I want to lick pussy? I don't even want my d*** in there for that long. ;)

    • hahah I think people have failed to see the humor in your words

  • Why a vagina should be licked as it is meant for sexual intercourse and passing urine. Some girls do not keep it very clean. Vagina will have more bacterias which spoil the life a person who lick it. To get pleasure it may be touched by hands as well or have fun with only penis not by anything else.

  • A vagina or a penis should never be licked or sucked as the parts will have bacterias which will spoil the health.

  • only submissive guys lick pussy. real men/manly men don't humiliate themselves.

    • your a dork

    • wtf you answer is dumb

    • Real connoisseurs eat p****. Wimps are afraid of getting that intimate.

  • If a girl don't want to give a bj to him,the guy would just assume that she don't like any sexual activities with mouth(xcept kissin)..So if you want him to 'eat your p*ssy' make it clear to him..but I think some guys may avoid that..personaly I don't think its gross..(but I may hesitate a little, to do that if its a beaver !)

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