I only date virgins. I'd never date a girl who had sex before. Am I strange?

[Anonymous]

Look, girls who aren't virgins are cheap in my opinion. I can't be with a girl who f***ed another guy before. It's too disgusting and makes her look less attractive (no matter how beautiful she is). Unfortunately it's hard to find special/classy girls, but I won't give up.

[Anonymous]

You're you and that's it. We all have our own different morals and values.

I am very promiscuous and I love sex. I don't really care if some people don't like it, or find it less attractive, because I'm happy with myself in everything that I do. When I doubt my actions or feel uneasy, then I know I need to sit back and rethink things. At the end of the day, you have to live with yourself. If you can look in the mirror and feel proud of who you are and content with your decisions in life, then you know something is right, there's a calm and peace within you. That's how I feel and this guides how I view myself, not whether or not other people approve. That's how you should be. Who really cares if you're strange or not? If you are happy and satisfied with your life and your beliefs then go with it. Just don't hurt anyone.

Do I personally agree with you? Obviously, not. In fact, I think it's beyond pathetic to not consider a girl just because she isn't a virgin. And I'm not saying you have to date girls like me, who have been around the block, around the corner, across the park, and back again, but you're excluding girls who could have possibly been in long term relationships searching for love, and gave themselves up because they felt it was right and wanted to be closer. You're excluding girls who may have been raped or molested and had no choice in the matter. I find this to be stupid, idiotic, pathetic, ridiculous, etc. Not to mention just the mentality behind it is kind of disgusting in my opinion, but that's just me. Like bum holes, we all have opinions.

To reassure you though, I know some virgins. My best friend since middle school is the complete opposite of me sexually - she is a complete virgin and we're both 21. She hasn't ever even touched a penis. The most she has ever done is make out and she's cut that short once because he started feeling her up and she didn't like it. I don't know if she would like what you are saying, but my point is that there are girls out there like that. She's definitely what people would consider pure.

[magnoliacrush]

"And I'm not saying you have to date girls like me, who have been around the block, around the corner, across the park, and back again..." <--- love it lol

[Opinion Owner]

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[Asker]

"I am very promiscuous and I love sex. I don't really care if some people don't like it, or find it less attractive, because I'm happy with myself in everything that I do. if that was the case, you wouldn't post anonymously. you just owned yourself, girl. you obviously don't like who you are. you're ashamed of being a whore and I don't blame you. you love sex? so do i, but that doesn't mean you need to f*** as many guys as possible. that's just cheap, weak and very unattractive.

[Opinion Owner]

well you're anonymous..does that mean you're ashamed of who you are? I post anonymous on everything, and even if I didnt, a little cute screen name is still anonymous unless I give out my personal information, picture, facebook profile, etc. online which I don't intend on doing. I'm not ashamed of anything, but if that's your conclusion then by all means buy into your own sh*t. I can see you have a lot of anger built up, and I hope you get that sorted out someday.

[Opinion Owner]

And you say you love sex? Can we then assume you are not a virgin, and therefore that much more hypocritical and pathetic? If I'm wrong, and you are a virgin who simply thinks he might enjoy sex, then please say so. ;)

[Asker]

lol princess, I hit a nerve. "I post anonymous on everything, and even if I didnt, a little cute screen name is still anonymous" so why do you hide your "anonymous cute screen name"? lmfao, it doesn't make sense. I post anonymously because I want girls to answer my other questions. gag-girls tend to hate on me, you know? i'm not mad at you for being a whore. it's your life. I'm just angry and frustrated. for some strange reason I'm only able to attract non-virgins.

[Opinion Owner]

lol There are no nerves hit here babe. I was just pointing out how it makes no sense to accuse me of being ashamed for doing the exact same thing you're doing. And it still doesn't make sense, but as I said before, it doesn't bother me if you choose to believe in what you want. It's just not that big of a deal to me to be frank. I'm not an unreasonable woman though, so I 'll give you my reasons for posting under Anon...

[Opinion Owner]

1. I can avoid being blocked. People block for stupid reasons, and then you can't answer and comment as you please. Censorship is overrated. So I dodge that bullet. 2. Guys like to send out pervy little messages, some people like to send hate mail, not that I've ever gotten any, and spammer messages. 3. Avoid pointless conversations, also usually of a pervy, desperate nature from guys who want to jack off on chat or some sh*t based on their assumption that I'll entertain that. That's all.

[Opinion Owner]

And I know you're angry, I already addressed that. So I get why you think it's fine to lash out at me and call me names. It's pretty much typical. Stranger things have happened. Like I said, I hope you get your anger sorted out. It's not something that you should hold on to.There's enough in this world to be pissed and angry about, and this doesn't seem like one of the things that should really be f***ing with your head to this extent. Again, just my opinion.

[magnoliacrush]

I don't blame you. I was once told that let's say a girl is like a feast. But if someone comes by and takes a bite out of every dinner entree... would you still want it?

Personally... I'm not a virgin, the guy I was with for 6 years didn't work out. But girls who have been with other guys aren't all whores. But if you can't find them attractive then oh well. That's just something you're going to have to deal with. It's your preference and there's nothing wrong with it. But don't call every girl who had lost their virginity cheap. We still have our morals and values. We all don't sell ourselves short and sleep with any guy who could buy us drinks. Given, some do, but not every one of us. It's fair to say that you don't find us attractive, but don't make it seem like we're not human beings.

[Anonymous]

No you are not strange. you are high class.! you want a girl who is pure and there is nothing wrong with that at all. I respect you for that.

[Hit_by_Pitch]

I feel the same as you. I was with only one person in my whole life, for 14 years before she left me... Sadly now, I also am not a virgin since I have been with one person so i dont think its fair to ask others to be. As a result I will forfeit finding companionship and accept my miserable life. Because I, like you, cannot stand the thought of being with someone who was with someone else before.

[flatironguy]

You better hope when you fall in love that you get it right. No one will want your cheap self once you have sex.

[peace-love-couture]

If you aren't a virgin then you're simply a hypocrite and should know you aren't worth jack in virgin girls eyes.

[Hymenowner]

what if the virgin wants an experienced man like him?

[LuvBiddy]

Are you a virgin?

[Yukey]

Not strange unless you're a player (like to do virgins then dump them)

I have the same preferece (unfortunately fell in love with a guy who isn't though...)

I just wish there were more guys like you, then maybe girls would have more self respect and not just do the first guy they meet :/

[Girlygirl120]

Well everyone has thier turn ons yours are virgins WOOT we found the kinky side of you

[G-Daz]

Nothing wrong with that IF you are also a virgin, its a bit hypocritical to expect someone to give you their virginity if your not able to give your own.

[evelyn]

i totally agree with you. esp on the hypocritical bit, spot on ;)

[Wildgirl07]

Ok imma be honest with you. What your doing is just plain stupid! If all us girls did that, and you had sex with one of us and broke up later, no girl would ever date you again just because you had sex ONCE so my advice is simple... GIVE IT UP! And having sex does not make you less classy or special. And tell me "are you a virgin?" if not then would you say that makes you cheap?

[virgin_guy]

Or you know you could wait until marriage instead of being a complete f***ing slut. Just putting that out there.

[sexiswork18]

I want the same thing brto

[Anonymous]

Its a preference, it isn't strange.

However, assuming any girl who isn't a virgin is cheap is a very rude thing to say. I saw in the comments you said you liked sex, which would mean you are not a virgin, so I suppose that makes you cheap. And if it doesn't make you cheap, how dare you say it makes a woman cheap. Women have just as much right to have sex as men do.

[Anonymous]

haha I'm a virgin, and 99% of my female frens are. so no worries, oyu are just looking in the wrong places perhaps. they are a lot of classy, virgin girls out there who are saving themselves for that one person. and I personally respect men like you, you have morales and class, unlike a huge chunk of society, dying to lose their virginity to anyone and everyone. so I do hope you meet your classy equivalent who shares the same morales like you do, they are out there somewhere :)