Is it weird if I like getting abused during sex?

I love the feeling of being raped and being abused. Is that a little too much for a guy?
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  • LOTS OF GIRLS LIKE THIS STUFF!

    (Warning: the following description uses sexually graphic language, is Rated R and maybe considered offensive to some readers)

    Actually, I've dated lots and lots of girls that have a rape fantasy. One girl liked to role play and told me that she gets turned on by being held down, tied up, blind folded, and hand cuffed while she tried (pretended) to "fight me away" like trying to push me away with her legs or push my hands away and moaning, but of course she would be "defeated" and give up and then tell me to get rougher and f*** her harder. I always shrugged my shoulders and played along even using my creativity to spice it up even more in the bedroom. (Example: Ginger root on the clitoris...) Anyways, some girls I dated liked being stimulated down under with electric/violet wands and dildos while being ball gagged. And many girls I've met actually had these items hidden in their underwear drawers (handcuffs, sex dice, etc.)

    Yo, I don't know why but I think submission is a common theme with girls. Maybe its evolutionary or maybe its just society. I always thought it was just the girls I've been with that liked this kinda sh*t but I figured it was too much of a coincidence, but after being on this site I found its' more common then I think it is. Personally, I'm not very fond making girls "rape fantasies" come alive, but I'm down for whatever as long as it ain't too crazy. I'll put a paper bag on your head and call you a filthy whore but I won't cut or bruise you lol, I'd tell you to get some help if that was the case!

    • calling you a filthy whore...if you wanted me to...otherwise no, same goes with the paper bag

  • real rape is disgusting. its the worst crime in the world besides murder. however, role play is quite normal in the bed room. it really spices up the sex life. one of my ex gf's and I were into it as well. not rape, but the dom/sub thing. I'd abuse her a little and talk dirty during sex. she liked being man-handeled, tied up and spanked etc. the sex was really hot no doubt. so there's nothing wrong with you for wanting the guy to initiate sex, pulling your hair and having rough sex with you. As long as you cuddle afterward. But don't go overboard and encourage any tpye of rape

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  • Real rape is painful, demoralizing, the guy laughing the entire time, ending with blood draining out of your holes, diseases, pregnancy, a probable slight unwanted orgasm, an ugly broken nose and missing teeth. Trust me, no girl wants that.

    What you're aiming for is what many of my girlfriends call "seduction". Some guy you know and trust just pins you against the wall surprisingly, says how much he finds you gorgeous and irresistible, says he can't wait til after dinner, lubes his penis and then drills himself up inside you for the next minute. When it's over, he kisses you 'thank you' then returns to the TV to watch sports. Most guys would do that to just any girl if they could get away with it, but since I also like flirting with the thought of being raped and used, I find that arousing from time to time.

    • Thanks for best answer :)

    • Ur welcome :)

    • I thought you were asking for GUYS opinions. SOME PEOPLE!

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  • First of all, there is a huge difference between being raped in reality (as in by a stranger or unwelcome) and by your boyfriend being rough with you and role-playing. Likewise, as far as being 'abused', it depends on what your definition of this is and how painful it is. People, men and women, have many different fantasies. It isn't weird if you enjoy some dominance and role-play in the bedroom and if you like some light rough-housing, but that involves a lot of mutual trust with a partner. If this is something much more severe, it could be an underlying sign that you haven't dealt with a past trauma of such nature and should talk to someone about it.

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  • The question is WHY you want to be abused or raped. And I have a feeling you already know the answer. Most people who want to to be physically abused during sex have experienced some sort of abuse or trauma during their child hood, so they are attracted to the same experience later in life, that's how the human brain works... so I reccomend that you seek professional help. DO NOT listen to these screwballs, the only reason they don't have a problem with it is because they watch so much p*rn that it seems completetly "normal" to be physically abusive towards women during sex which is the most common form of p*rnography today. Like I said seek professional help.

  • no that's called roleplay

  • Meh, it's a common fantasy for girls from what I've experienced... Personally I only worry about being too rough. Otherwise nah it doesn't bother me...

  • nope. its called a fetish. normal

  • Kinda creepy to be honest.

  • not at all for me we can try it, jk hahha no but that's not a deal breaker for me I have a fantasy were that happens I've always wanted to try it if you want to talk more then friend me

  • sounds alright to me

  • Sounds hot, as long at it's consensual.

  • Everyone has there fetish if you like that kind of thing then go for it just dont take it to a point where he does it outside the bedroom

  • not at all as long as its not reel rape but ruff sex is hot

  • not at all. difforent things turn difforent people on. it sounds just about OK to me too