Some of this is repetition
- lots of lube
- lick and suck his balls
- be sure to use both your hands AND your mouth (when you're co-ordinated about it and get into it, you can get one hand on his balls, one on his shaft and your mouth on his head)
- you can try some techniques to get him hotter that sometimes help get guys off faster like:
# wrap one hand on his shaft and one on his head then move them both circularly in opposite directions - one of the things about this move it that it is usually so explosive that guys can't do it to themselves for very long
- start off slowly and jump around but when he gets going keep the rhythm fast and steady - don't play around once he REALLY starts to get into it
- you could try incorporating things that will give him unusual sensations like warming your mouth with tea and rubbing ice on his nipples at the same time, or using a strong breath mint to make him tingle, or putting ice in your mouth. Edible massage oil also gives a different feeling. Feathers, pearls and scarves also all feel different.
- make him do some heavy exercise and then ask him not to masturbate for two days - you'll get a bigger load and sometimes the pent up sexual tension will make him come faster :)
For a while I had a problem with my boyfriend having to finish himself off - so I changed it up a little and didn't let him touch himself down there - suddenly I found that I could make him come by myself when I did that.
So I kept doing that. And then it happened again.
So I've learnt that keeping it fresh and changing things up every now and then helps :)
Hope this helps
Good luck girl
You can do a couple things: Don't neglect his balls. Pinch them lightly with one of your hands or better yet put them in your mouth whole. Then run your tongue under each side and then on top. The head of his junk is also very sensitive. You can lick it with the tip of your tongue or take your index finger and run it in circles. Try to do these things in combination with using your mouth.
Another good tactic...pleasure him and yourself at the same time. Touch yourself on your chest or glide your hand to your female anatomy and turn yourself on. Guys LOVE that too.
The tip is the most sensitive part. So licking that helps as well as sucking. make sure your teeth doesn't touch his d***. A good way to prevent that is by (hmmm...how do I explain it)...curling your lips over your teeth a bit so that skin rubs against skin (by the way the wetter the better). Playing with/sucking his balls might help but some guys are ticklish when you suck their balls. Some guys also like when a girl gags on it so that reflex might turn him on. Good luck
NOOOO! Don't give up!
Seriously! You can get him to blow from oral. Start out by teasing the hell out of him before you even put it in. Lavish attention on his thighs and balls and rub his ass. Anything that gets blood down in that region will get a good result. Make sure he's ROCK hard before you start blowing him in earnest.
THEN when you want to get him off, focus on the part on the underside where his head meets the shaft. One thing you can do is put firm pressure on it with the flat of your tongue while bobbing up and down. You can flick the tip of your tongue across it which usually works well on me.
The other thing is, keep the flat of your tongue on the underside, open the sides of your mouth so you can breath in and loosen the pressure of your tongue so some air comes between his c0ck and your tongue. You want to go for a "slurping" effect like you're eating hot soup. This will cause your tongue to vibrate against the underside of his c0ck at the most sensitive point. Tap and/or carress his balls while you do this and he's pretty likey to blow.
be sure to vary your technique...the rocking chair, deep throat and tip play. move your mouth clockwise, while twisting your tongue counter-clockwise. stimulate the frenulum area with your tongue...thats the spot where the skin comes together under the head of his penis. the key to sensual blow job is keep him warm and keep him wet. be sure to hum with absolute pleasure, it shows him that you are enjoying it and the vibrations stimulate him. don't be afraid to take your time...long sensual blow jobs are very artful and passionate. stimulate his testacle region with your hand...carefully and gently.
These are just a few general thoughts. Contact me if you want more detailed info. I am very experienced at giving great blow jobs. And I've never slurped on a guy that did not cum.
also a valid point
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Get him going with some amount of oral first.
Then use you hand for some time, giving a hand job.
Then again back to oral (with all the techniques described by others).
This way he may take as much time, but you will not get tired since youare alternating between HJ and BJ.
"He says no one has ever made him come orally without him helping. What should I do?"
Take him at his word and don't worry about it.
I agree with most the answers here, also you can use baby oil, it taste nasty but it makes everything super sensitive,
teasing really helps that situation, my ex was like that until he met me
you could let him smash first then finish him off with oral
this is the right idea!
I do everything but nothing works.
I do everything and in 12 years only got him off once!!! I deep throat him suck his balls, lick his shaft, use hands, superlubed up with saliva, I mean every thing and he does not get off, He just lays there quiet? He don't grab my head or get into it at all? be he never wants me to stop, he says its the best!!! I'm confused.
How can I make my man blow less than 7s? ?
Use lubricants... a lot of it. but maybe put whipped cream on his d*** and lick it all off
Put just the tip of him in your mouth and use your hand on his shaft. Wrap your hand tight and jerk him as fast as you can while moaning and humming on his head to let him know you're caught up in the moment. If that doesn't work then just take his word that it doesn't get him off and don't feel bad about it because it's his body not you.
thats very true. This works too. make sure you are moving your hand in a circular motion. That drives them wild.
well nothing I do seems to get him off. So I give up
-Use lots of saliva
-Set a good pace and go far enough down for him
-Make noise to let him know you're enjoying yourself (look up and smile etc.)
-Incorporate a hand job in to it
-Talk dirty to him. Things like, "I want you to come in my mouth, baby." "I can't wait to taste your cum."
-If this doesn't do the trick, buy a hitachi magic wand and use it on the shaft while blowing him
Well I can tell you what makes me come real fast during oral but I LOOOOOVE it...and that's when my balls are played with, juggled between her fingers, all while she still does the other deed. It gets me going real quick, so if we're running short on time because we're going out or have friends coming over...that's her secret to success. So, give that a try if you haven't already...Remember, play with them, as well as still blowing him. I think this will work on almost every guy, as the massaging motion of the scrotum really gets it going faster as it's where the juices flow from initially. Good luck
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