Guys what did your first feel like?

The first time you saw a breast? touched it? The first time you touched a vagina? felt the hair/the wetness? The first time you fingered a girl? how much did it turn you on? The first time a woman had an orgasm with you? was it sex or above? The first time you had sex? was it an overwhelming sensation? When your first love broke your heart? or did you break hers? do you still think about your feelings for her? which one left the biggest impression on you? Us girls love to hear your feelings on this type thing and I know for some of you details aren't your thing but details are a girls bread and butter of life so DETAILS men DETAILS lol
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  • -the first time I saw breasts was in 7th grade math lol, this girl said, "wanna see my titty?" me and my friend were the only ones who heard lol. she had red "braille nipples." first time I touched one was in 6th grade, the girl was in 7th so she was fairly developed for my young 6th grader hands and BOY WAS I SURPRISED! we went to her house with my friends older sister who was in the same grade, she was leaving and I grabbed her from behind and got a nice handfull. like the size of a tennis ball(that was huge back then lol) they felt nothing like I thought they would, so soft n, just great..

    -first time I felt a vagina, I was confused at how slick and moist it was because I never felt skin become so wet, I thought it be dry like my penis was. all this yet I was pleased and enjoyed the feeling of the wettness on my fingers. made me want to smell it(I never knew what it smelled like lmao)

    -the first time I fingered a girl was with a girl I liked and I wanted sex immediately! we were sharing a chair while on the computer and she moved my hand off the mouse and it fell on her knee. she slowly hinted me by pushing my hand closer to her. as she sat in my lap, I played with her breasts and her vagina untill she ruined her panties. it was warm and I couldn't wait to get Big D in there. then we started having sex and my parents came home 5 min into it >:'(

    -first time a girl had an orgasm with me I didn't notice it because I couldn't really tell the difference in her moans and I didn't see anything come out. go figure...

    -first time I had sex wasn't special at all. I was a freshmen in hs, so having sex was either lied about or for most, non existant. I didn't know her at all besides she rode my school bus(no pun intended) and afterward we never spoke nor did I want to see her again... at least I wasn't a virgin anymore:) and I got to do it with someone I actually knew and liked shortly after

    my first love broke my heart when she broke up with me through a text. we had been going through a serious sex issue. she was raped when she was younger and I wasn't understanding enough. we've been through so much and were still together and happy today

    my biggest impression came from the first time I felt a breast because the girl happened to be my older bros ex girlfriend. so I told him I grabbed her breast and he must hav got jealous or something because he told me the next day tht she was mad at me(back then I didn't understand what this actually meant) and she was gonna tell her stepdad(big and scary) so I sweated every time the doorbell rang for 2 months thinking she was gonna be standing there at the door with her monster father waiting to kick my ass. I avoided talking to her untill hs when my bro told me he was just kidding abt the whole thing.



    ill never get those two months of peace back...

    • so your still with the girl friend who was raped? nd it worked out fine? I only ask because me nd my boyfriend are in the same situation

    • yes were still together and doin great, yu kno yu could message me lol

  • I will address my first time on the breast, finger and intercourse questions. It happened all in one night at the age of 15. All of them were good, but I didn't know a whole lot of what I was doing. The inside of her felt like (with my finger) the inside of the cheek / mouth but softer. It was very warm I remember.

    Her breasts weren't real large, but I remember them feeling a little like balloons filled with jello or similiar heavy liquid. They didn't feel like water balloons - a bit more solid. As I sucked on the nipple, I thought it was awesome the way the nipple hardened up.

    As for having sex, I had a condom on, so it didn't not give me complete sessation of what she felt like on the inside, I remember putting just the head in and her asking me to go slow. I did shallow strokes only not wanting to hurt her. I remember that I did 'plunge deep' one time. She sucked in her breath and said something about "that hurt". It felt good on my end actually feeling my penis slide the full legnth in. I think I popped her cherry at that moment. It was the only time I went deep in her as I did not want to hurt her. It felt real good like being in a warm, wool lined glove.

    Does that explain it pretty well?

    • yep! :) and wow you moved fast all that in one night.

    • No one was more surprised than me. Yes, it all happened in one night. Wasn't planned. Wasn't even a girlfriend. Honestly, if I had to do it all over again, I would have waited until I was older or married.

    • yeah it sounds like the hormones were in charge that night. Yeah I mean I know a lot of guys would have loved that but it seems like it would have been more special if it had been at least a girlfriend or someone you cared about but very nice description anyway ;)

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  • Alright I'm a girl on all of this. This is gonna be weird to share but here we go.

    - I saw a breast when me and my best friend took a shower together. Yes together. We had been painting earlier and we decided to paint each other with all the left over paint. Not the smartest idea. So we took a shower together and had to scrub the paint off of eachother! Yes sir'y I said eachother! We were both naked and it was amost 11 PM when my mom would come home from work. scary, but we got it all off and dry before my mom walked into the door.

    - I've touched my own boob plenty of times, to see if I could feel how a guy felt it. My boyfriend touched mine tho, me being very self concious, it was under covers. It felt amazing.

    <3 That's all I"m answering and No I'm not bi-sexual.

  • i guess you could say I was an earlybloomer. The first time I found out about masturbation, I was in kindergarten. I distinctly remember telling my brother "if you do this (shows him) it feels really good." Since then I would have orgasms. Haha I remember I was in my first grade class sitting at a table and she was teaching us...of course I was masturbating and had an orgasm. She said "Amber are you ok" and it was embarrasing. I tell people this story when their like "yeah I'm better than all of you guys! I started masturbating when I was 10!" and I'm just like yeahhhh OK sure

  • I'll be 19 in a couple of months and I have yet to experience these things from a guy :) I'm saving these experiences for someone meaningful and worthy of them

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  • its an old post, but I am new here. Can I say that it was Heaven on earth. I wish I could be as attractive to women as yall are to me. You all are amazing and sharing a womans body is such a wonderfull experience. It was so hard not to reach an orgasm before I even got in.haha If all men were like me,there would be no post with women worried about body image. The worst I ever had was almost a religious experience. As an old man now-I wish I could go back and do a better job. I was to nervous to do a good job, but I still think of all my encounters with a smile.

  • Great question!

    First time I saw a breast was a Truth or Dare game flash. It was by a moonlit lake with a bunch of friends. It was both erotic and fun. She had large breasts and a very cute smile.

    My first breast was my first high school girlfriend. I was into doing more, but she wasn't. Eventually I learned to appreciate the subtle differences in her nipple when aroused and not and the cute way her chest would get flushed when we made out for a long time.

    The first time a felt a vagina was the first time I fingered a girl. Ah, the stupidity of youth. First girlfriend, parents home, under a blanket, so my hand nearly fell off from the angle and all the effort. All I was concerned with was her orgasm. I asked if she'd had one, she said yes, and that was the end of it...haha, only to learn later that girls have more than one sometimes, I did not think to even ask. It was wetter than I expected, but not unpleasant.

    First time I had sex was in college. She was older and we'd been dating for awhile. I wasn't sure I was ready, but I wasn't going to pass it up. I was surprised at how good it felt. I was surprised at the warmth, the wetness. I was also surprised at the responses of vaginal wall muscles, that was fantastic, I hadn't ever heard/known about that. I guess it's something you have to experience to know.

    My first love and I never had much sexual contact. Again, in college, and her friend was a total bitch. Always cockblocking and so on. I was way too clingy and too into her. It just felt like a game that I could always make it to the final round, but never win in all aspects, not just the bedroom. She broke up with me just before finals...I was devastated. We're still friends, and I've jokingly/seriously told her I still totally have feelings for her and probably always will.

  • My most important experience is a day when I tried all of the above. But I guess the one that turned me on the most was probably my first time going down on a girl, I never saw a girls face turn that red before or hear moan in front me either. It was like a great experience for me at the time to know I can please another woman very well =). I would use my tongue all around the area and id look up at her occasionally to see her expression, from nibbling on the clit, to licking up and down like a lollipop or the sticking my tongue inside and swirling it around in circles. I never knew that my tongue could do so much pleasure to another person other then french kissing ( which by the way I'm terrible at for some reason).

    • crap! I forgot to mention that one. Very nice description of your first time with oral. I love how much guys love to please their women that's a turn on for a woman to know that it's so important to you. :)

    • of course its important, I like the opportunity to go down on someone, I think of it as a challenge to be better then before =)

    • practice does make perfect ya know :D

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  • Aww this question is so intimate and lovely. Brilliant idea! :)

  • All when I was 17, Meh my goal is her pleasure more than my own... so if she has an orgasm great. Was it overwhelming, it was passionate, but I didn't come my first time... I rarely do, and when I do, yea it feels good, but meh it's still an over rated experience for me. My first love broke my heart as has all other girls I loved, I have never broken up with a girl. Do I still have feelings for her? Moreso than a girl I'm just attracted to or a friend yes, this is the same with all my exs, which is why I'm seeing an ex of mine yet again, for about the fourth or fifth time. Which girl has left the biggest impression on me? Probably my second girlfriend, she opened me up to a lot of things, like long distance relationships, love, sex etc... I don't rate any girl on how she is in bed, because I don't see any difference in a girls performance in bed, sure my orgasms vary, but that's more to do with my diet and sexual frequency rather than her 'technique', because lets face it making a guy ejaculate is one simple movement... Don't know how it is for girls, but since their anatomy is more complicated I do think that guys need to know where everything is, how to find it and how it should be stimulated. Which is why a lot of guys don't complain when they get laid, and more girls do... Usually the only thing a guy says if a girl 'is bad' in bed, it's oh she just lay there, or she was too quiet. Personally I think she'd just be like that because he isn't helping her enjoy it.

    • so all those things you did for the first time...were you just thinking about getting to the next thing or were you thinking what other ways can I please her because THAT turned you on the most?

    • Nah, I did them because I wanted her to be happy and if she wants sex then fair enough, if she doesn't want sex that's fine by me. I don't really care whether I'm getting laid or not. I don't really care about turn ons because oral has never made me orgasm and sex rarely does so it's often pointless exercise with me.

  • I haven't had sex, but have done everything but. The first, enad every, time I fingered my Girlfriend WAS AMAZING! It was erotic for me too, & seeing the pleasure I gave her made it all the more exciting. I didn't even know what I was doing, but I learned fast. The first time I truly had my heart broken was by a girl (different one who's never let me so much as kiss her, or even hug her except at arm's length) who at the time only wanted friendship, and was my best friend, but I wanted to spend the rest of my life with her. Someone she was seeing told her I called his work & spread a rumor that she was suicidal, and though she didn't believe it she shut me out of her life and didn't even explain this or give ANY explanation! W e reconnected but in the 20 years since she's popped in & out of y life for one BS excuse or another like a Jack-In-The-Box. Some of the time we were "just friends" and more recently she was really my girlfriend. She also took great pleasure in telling me she was in love with my GAY uncle & admitted she did it to hurt me & see my reaction! It nearly killed me every time but the last, and I believe after all the pain she caused me I'm numb & immune to it. I'll always love her on some level, but if she leaves my life again, even permanently, I'm not sure I'd care anymore, and I NEVER thought I could say that... LOL xP

    • I've since discovered she does that to ALL of her "friends" and she now "hangs out" with my uncle more than me! If she hadn't begged me not to & threatened to hurt herself I would have cut her out permanently by now...

    • PS The LOL xP was supposed to follow I learned fast, as I added to my answer & started in the wrong place I just now saw the mistake... LOL

  • -Well besides when I was little, the first time I saw one was most likely in a R rated movie when I was entering puberty. As for real life, I remember going on vacation when I was around grade 7 (dominican republic) and some women didn't have their bikini tops on trying to get a even tan. Oh gosh, it was extacy for a young teenage boy entering puberty o.O I couldn't stop staring, it wasn't my fault >:( I even remember looking at an older woman (what we guys now classify as milfs, I was unknown to this word at that age) for a couple of minutes with my jaw dropped :O She knew I was staring and just smiled as she put a top on and walked back to the resort.

    -Hard to explain what they feel like (it depends on the girl). Some can be really perky and firm and others a bit more tender like someones but cheeks :O But it would depend on a few things like genetics and weight ect. The first pair I touched felt kind of squishy like spongy-ish? and warm but at the same time slightly firm.

    -As for the rest, I'm still waiting for it to happen. Wish me luck :)

    • yes I can imagine seeing all the boobs at that age would be quite exciting LOL! Did the angels sing when you touched them? did you feel all doped up on hormones or was it just fascinating to feel them after thinking about feeling them for so long? oh and...good luck! ;)

    • Yes it was really a new and exciting experience seeing all those boobs for the first time. LOL! I wish angels with halos over their heads sung when I touched them O:) I think it would be all of those above things when I touched them for the first time. Exciting, adrenalin rush, horney-ness, fascination ect. By the way, you forgot first kiss and first blowjob :D

    • I know :X when Phoenix mentioned oral I was like DAMN! can't believe I forgot that one, thankfully he's on the ball lol someone else asked about first kiss earlier that one gets asked about a lot but hopefully people will mention the one first they really liked the most and why and I'm sure that'll come up ;)

  • Havent done any of that yet :/

    • good for you :)

  • I was 17 and my girlfriend was 16. We were making out in the car and I started feeling her breasts. I could tell she was really turned on. I worked my way slowly down her pants, then she pulled them down. I started fingering her and she stated humping my hand. Soon she was moaning and had an orgasm. It was so awesome!!! My first time to experience that!! It was so hot. I loved the smell of her, the feel of her climaxing. We just had our 50th wedding anniversary.

  • My first pussy experience was at 16 with a lovely girl who I met on a walking holiday. We were in a group and we sort off hung back from the rest and settled in the log grass for a kiss. Well, I just had to explore down he front and was greeted by a warm, wet and lightly hairy pussy. It was a real coming of age thing and the best bit was the wonderful aroma it left on my finger for the next few hours.

  • It was during a long car ride, I was fingering and OMG did I get blueballs something terrible.

    • how long did you finger her or just the act turned you on and you couldn't masturbate to take care of the pressure?

    • I was fingering her for quite a while and I had never gotten it before, so I didn't know to masturbate. Very uncomfortable!

    • how old were you?