Is it bad to just have mindless sex?

I know that I'm the type of person to like being in relationships, but I get hurt CONSTANTLY. So is it bad to just try to forget about it and have sex whenever? I don't want to lose my self respect, but at the same time, I'm tired of getting hurt, and I want to have that care-free attitude and have fun.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Mindless sex is bad, just because mindless anything is bad. Sex without romantic commitment, by contrast, is an excellent idea for some people. It isn't mindless, though; it takes focus to keep expectations clear should someone catch feelings, and to communicate, often and clearly, the boundaries of the relationship.

    I spend *more* time checking in during a purely sexual relationship, since feelings can change so rapidly.

  • mmmm I think you should do what you want nothing is wrong with it but if you do want to have a man commit to you and have a family then after doing this you will be hard pressed to find one of those to be with you

Most Helpful Girls

  • I think I would just feel empty and used afterward. Pointless and meaningless. But, that's just me. Plus there's always the risks that come with having sex.. Go dance with guys instead, go on dates. Nothing serious, just fun. Except if you end up liking the guy. You never know what you could gain. Anyway, be smart and look out for yourself.

  • it can be OK if you are OK with it.. as long as you can sleep at night then yes you can

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  • It's not what I'd want to do. Sex to me is about a bond with a person, and not about a feeling.

  • Unfortunately there are still:

    A: Religious people

    B: Sexists

    C: Old fashioned weirdos (For lack of a better name)

    Religious people don't think sex should be had before marriage or out of a committed relationship.

    Sexists believe that only men should be able to sleep around.

    Old fashioned weirdos believe that sex should only be had in a committed relationship.

    These people are all wrong. Go and ride as many cocks as you want.