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Would you marry an ex slut?

seems like lots of women don't think you should judged them on their sexual past.

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  • Men value sexual purity extremely high for deciding to fully commit to a woman. It is somewhere between the #1 priority - #3 priority. However, from my personal experience, women, even virgins or non-virgins that are very pure, do not have much concerns over the man's sexual history. Psychologically, it is not as important for woman (Imo) and I have never experienced it coming up as a concern with a female.

    However, as a man, I would have no interest in the woman's financial state, or their income potential; but I have noted this being a concern for many women I have been involved with in a serious relationship, and I feel that this is a very fair and relevant concern for a woman to have.

    I say that to say this, some attributes are important to one sex and totally irrelevant to the other, and vice versa.

  • I think most of this whole thing comes from a mentality of "Girl that has a lot of sex with a lot of guys is more likely to cheat on me or have STDs." In and of itself, that's probably not untrue for the most part, though I'm sure there's plenty of exceptions to the rule.

    Also, I think going even farther than that, marrying a woman who slept around when she was younger might encourage a future daughter to sleep around, which I don't think any father wants.

    • definitely not

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  • Seriously...say you get married at 28-33. Do you really expect a girl to just sit around the house waiting on her husband and not have sex just so her future husband will think she's PURE and not judge her? As long as you don't have any STDs, wide pussy, kids or slept with anyone he knows I don't think it should matter. I don't have much of a sexual past but if I did I would just lie about it. It's crazy for men to expect women to not live in the present because of what their future husband may think. I mean I'm sure the man I marry isn't at home preserving his v-card for me, he's probably a current slut and by the time I get him he'll be an ex-slut, but I'm supposed to not do what I want in fear of his judgment? pshh

    • ok see the person I want to marry is not like this this would just be a difference in lifestyles and charector to be honest so its whatever if you lie about stuff and hide things you will probably end for other reasons then the things you lied about it just shows incompatability

    • Most men who are 28 and want to marry a girl who is pure, would date women in their early twenty. And when we say pure, this does not have to be a virgin per say... It could be a girl who was divorced, or a girl who only had sex with a couple very long term boyfriends in the past

    • The vast majority of men today don't want a virgin. They just don't want some one who has been with an embarrassing amount of guys. Normal women would have been in at least a few, long term relationships before they got married. Not going home with a new guy from the bar every week or once a month. Who wants to marry that? There is a behavioral pattern there that is bound to come back around. Most sluts I ever knew moved far from home at some point and got all new friends. They need to hide their past and marry a well to do beta male with low self esteem.

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  • Guys complain all the time that girls for bad boys for sex & relationships and want a nice guy after she's used up.

    Why don't they realize they do this too?

    Guys go after sluts for sex and put up with hot bitches for relationships until they get bored. Then for a serious relationship they want a girl with a sexual past that's lower than theirs.

    Pretty much all girls get a guy who's used up. Most guys are lucky and get a virgin, an inexperienced girl, a girl with a low number, or a monogamous relationship sex only girl.

    If the guy a girl is with has a low number of partners or is a virgin unlike a girl it's not because he chose to be but it was involuntary. Most guys want to be a player.

    • Everyone deserves what they are. If a guy is a player, he deserves no better. The double standard that for both sexes should be for both to honour their future wives/husbands, and not to sleep around with anything that walks. At least for those who want to get married.

  • you would be surprised how many currently married women have been seen as sluts at some point in their lives. men might not WANT to marry an ex-slut, but if you did you wouldn't know anyway.

    • You would know it definitely comes out. U can tell the good ones from the bad

    • That is true.. And that's the guys fault for being a sucker. Similar to a woman who is married to a guy who cheats, but never knew that he did, married him, and now has a cheating husband that she is not aware of.

    • and how does it turns out for them? Not so good i assume.

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  • Sure, they are an EX slut.
    It means that they are now retired.

    Shit... We all have to retire sometime...

  • Yes, I would.

  • Yes. I don't care about a woman's sexual history. If I loved her enough, I'd marry her.

    • Easy guy there’s no Eagle Scout badge for that

  • You're marrying a woman that has a passionate love of cock, remind me why that's a bad thing again? If you like having sex once every two months, then by all means, merry the virgin, she's good at suppressing her carnal desires.

    • lol who says being a virgin makes you a prude they are not the same thing you must be bad at math

    • no I think she will stay get f***ed by another men like me

    • "You're marrying a woman that has a passionate love of cock, remind me why that's a bad thing again?" She has a passionate love for MANY cocks.

  • LOL'd at that song. F***in' lejjj.

    Anyway, on paper, no. I would only want to marry one girl in particular, and she is by no means an 'ex slut'. But, hypothetically, yeah, I'd marry a girl with a well tasted sexual history. I also don't see any good reason why a girl should be judged on her sexual past.

  • Depends.
    If she used to be very promiscuous, I could look past that, provided she had changed.

    But if she had ever cheated, it doesn't matter what kind of transformation she had gone through.
    I'm not down.

    • Whats the difference

    • If she had been characteristically easy to sleep with throughout her years when she was single, but had never stepped outside of a relationship she was in, I could potentially look past it. But if she was the kind of girl who had ever stepped outside of her relationship, forget it.

  • an ex slut can learn from her mistakes, but that's only if she realizes they were mistakes.

    but I probably wouldn't marry one.

  • If I were to get married again, I would definitely want her to be a slut and I would want her to continue being a slut after the wedding

  • These posts make me sick.

  • Hell no I wouldn't even date an ex slut unless I was using them to just f***! I learned that the hard way

    • So who's the slut and who isn't?

    • Common sense bro it ain't that hard to see what girls respect themselves and which ones dont.

    • so a guy can respect himself and still f*** a ton of women but a girl can't? I agree that its harder for a girl to do that because of our society but its not impossible. I think its more important WHY she's been with many guys much more than the actual number.

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  • probably. it's not ideal.

  • I would not marry an ex slut because that would she is ashamed if her past promiscuity. I want a woman who is proud of owning her sexuality and i definitely want her to keep being all of who she is. Sexual repression is bad for mental and physical health and bad for truly loving relationships.

  • I would only marry a promiscuously honest slut

  • Yes.. i would

  • Like Pac said, "can't turn a ho into a housewife". So not a chance.

  • No, it turns me off when I find out that the girl has had sex with a bunch of other people. They choose to have a partner that doesn't question their sexual past, and I choose to have a partner that hasn't had sex with too many people. We'd have to find what we want elsewhere.

  • When someone wants to get married, it's because s/he likes the other person. I don't think it has much to do with sexual history, unless the person used to be a p*rn star or has an unusually high number, like 50.

  • Virgins don't know how to F*CK yet. I like my women experienced not some dead fish who's timid and afraid and can't move right and so tight my stuff can't even fit so she's complaining about how much it hurts. I like a woman that can take my thick C*CK and can take it deep.

    • she could learn at least she didn't have other cocks in her

    • I think guys that want virgins must have small d*cks and can't f*ck.

    • lol I can tell you you're wrong

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  • The past is the best indicator of the future. Most men don't want a wife who is slutty other then for them. I know that for me I'd rather train my wife to be slutty rather than have her learn from others especially since most sluts learn bad behavior from their indiscrimanant partners. They feel less safe and secure being "slutty" with their husband because of how they've been treated in the past. If they don't/can't associate bad experiences with sex they are much more likely to experiment with a safe and secure partner without feeling like they are doing something bad or are something bad (e.g. a slut).

    • it would also be nice to know that the kid is yours without doubts or a dna test

    • Don't know what kind of women you date...But if you can't trust your woman to not mess around on you then you shouldn't be marrying her and she is not YOUR woman. Its a bigger issue than sex dude.

    • hahaha agree with both of you

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  • most guys seem to like virgin like girls to marrry and sluts to play around with

    and that this is right, but just saying

    • yeah its true anon they do

    • "and that this is right, but just saying" should be not that this is right...

    • "most guys seem to like virgin like girls" This is completely false. We aren't in the 1950s.

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