According to my boyfriend I suck at blow jobs- help me to get better please!

[Anonymous]

i asked him if I was bad and he said "No, not bad, just not that good."- Guys tell me, that's pretty much just a nicer way of saying "You suck." right? It was the first blowjob I've ever given, but I don't wanna suck... (pun not intended). I really wanna get better, I don't enjoy doing them, but I wanna please my boyfriend who is 26 years old (i'm 18) so he's probably had loads of really great ones before and I DON'T wanna be the worst. So tell me what I'm doing wrong! he said I'm too soft, basically I try to cover my teeth with my lips and move my head up and down say 2-3 inches, and then I hold my hand around the base. I don't exactly suck it because I don't know how without my teeth getting in the way. but I try to rub my tongue along the underside of his penis. that's pretty much all I do... I know you're supposed to play with the balls aswell, but I couldn't tell where they were, it just looked like a sack and so I didn't go near it cos I was scared to get it wrong. well, sometimes he's pushed my hand away and held my head and pumped himself inside my mouth which I hated and it made me gag. What can I do to make it better so that he won't feel the need to do that anymore? just give me SIMPLE steps that I can do easily to make it better for him, I'm still trying just to get used to putting that in my mouth so I don't feel ready to do anything crazy yet... thank you :)

[cindys]

Ok, first, get your mind straight. Just because it’s called a “blow job” doesn’t mean you should view it as a job. He can see it on your face if you don’t enjoy sucking on his “friend” – and that’s NOT the attitude you want to convey. You have to love his cock.

It’s all about preparation. Make every blowjob one of a kind, unique, memorable. How do you prepare? Candles, good lights, music, some wine, fix up the atmosphere, spice it up. Look good. Make it special.

Throw him in the couch. Seductively, naughtily, with a sexy smile on your face. Look at him with fascination. You slowly get on your knees in front of him, unzip and take his pants off. Make a happy, surprised look – as if you just saw your favorite ice cream, and you are starving to death.

Men are visual. Pull your hair back, so that he can see you completely and enjoy the view. Massage his legs seductively, get closer to his cock. Before it grows large, put the entire thing in your warm, wet mouth – moan with pleasure. Slowly suck on his **** as it grows large in your dripping wet mouth.

A few “aaahs” and “mmms” are essential. There’s nothing better than the magic words when giving a blow job. No BJ is perfect without the right words entering his ear. Compliment him, tell him how much you love His **** in your mouth. Use your hands. Combine fast and slow strokes. Be his p*rn star, not a nun.

When you get tired, rest your mouth, stroke him. Be his “slut”, be dirty, sexual – free. Do whatever you want to do. He won’t think you’re a slut if you swallow, on the contrary – he’ll love you for it. So get dirty and slut it up.

Speed it up as you come to the finish. Involve his balls in the game. A perfect blowjob isn’t just with your mouth. Use your whole body. Let him see your sexy ass, thongs, a sexy necklace. The way to turn him on is by being turned on by yourself. You have to feel sexy in your body. It’s all about positioning.

Tickle his balls, lick them and suck on them gently. Use your sexy nails to drive him wild. Hold his shaft, lick it up and down sexily while looking him deep in the eyes.

Now you start pumping his **** faster. Fast, and short strokes. Pump, pump and pump some more. Moan louder, suck harder, stroke faster. And then – he starts shooting, and screaming, and popping his eyes out of his brain. Pull his **** out and pump it out gently. Open your mouth, show him what he gave you. Giggle. Then swallow all of it. Smile happily, give his **** a few more kisses and sucks – clean it up. ;) Of course – you can always get even better. I recommend you read Jack’s Blowjob Lessons, probably the best book ever written about satisfying your guy sexually, by clicking on the link

[a_man]

Holy sh*t. I am impressed !

[islands7]

You must have caught one hell of a Boyfriend with all that talent?

[Felynn]

You can put your thumb into your mounth and practise your "sucking" technique. You can check how hard you can suck and what is the best way to cover your teeth.

Also bring some more variation to it. Don't just move up and down and suck, but use your tongue on his head when coming up. Try to make number 8 figures (or something like it) since this exposes his head to both sides of your tongue and it they give slightly different sensations.

Keep one hand on his base and stroke him in the opposite directions as you suck and maybe even twist a LITTLE.

Also try moving your other hand to softly massage his balls and see how he reacts. You can also move a little lower, to massage the area right before his asshole.

Don't do all of it at once. Start by slowly touching him, add a little licking, then take him in your mouth, and gradually add some variety by additional touching/licking. You can immediately see how he reacts to each of them so you can stop doing them when he does not respond to them at all. He should moan a little louder or his penis should swell a little

Also, I'm pretty sure if you aks your guy:

"honey, I want to improve my blowjob skills, can we practise and will you tell me what to do?" he will be glad to help ;).

[xSweetestSinx]

Always breath through your nose.

Use lots of foreplay before you actually suck it...

kiss his balls

lick from where his ass is up to the start of his d***

such on his balls

kiss his d***, lick it, and his balls too, get everything all wet and then blow little puffs of air on it.

before you start sucking, lick where the little hole is with the tip of your tongue and blow on it and before you take it in your mouth, lick the under side of the head.

[Anonymous]

What Felynn said was good. Don't get carried away with the term "sucking" because its really more pressure from your lips than sucking. Variety is key, and he'll tell you to go back to something if you're doing too much variety. All I would add is, when you do it don't act like it is a difficult, frustrating chore. Act like you are really enjoying it, even if you aren't so much and make sounds if you feel comfortable doing that. If he's not patient and understanding with you, then he doesn't deserve you.

[islands7]

Begin with this

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[MarkMiller81]

I give my man incredible blowjobs now! To anybody who wants to learn how to give blowjobs the right way, BlowjobHelp. info is a really helpful guide and worth checking out. I learned it's really important to keep in mind that the harder you suck doesn't necessarily mean the better it feels! He's brutally honest but his tips are extremely helpful and work very well haha :) It's weird that many of these articles recommend using your teeth, but most guys cringe at just the thought of it. I think it's best to take advice from guys only on this subject... hopefully nobody uses teeth on their man after reading this. Ouch!

[Gregs]

I'll help, where do you live?

[oozie]

Listen to cindys and xSweetestSinx

I already want to marry them, lol.

[Anonymous]

I'll give you a free lesson. Just give me your phone number.