Why he came back to me after 3 weeks of no contact and all of a sudden this?

[Anonymous]

ya we didn't talk for like a little bit more then 3 weeks..i stopped talking to him everything was good till something bad happened and he calls me and says sh*t like he misses me and could see us having a relationship and stuff .some reason I feel like he had blue balls and wanted to have sex..i just don't know why he didn't go out and do it with other girls and sh*t.. now he's not talking..hes just no into me anymore.

[elin36]

I have a same problem, my guy left me for 3 month without saying goodbye (last time we met he was very angry with me because I didn't have sex with him) and then he came and talked over messenger and said he wanted to start it all over again, I forgave him BUT he came to see me just for 40 minutes, he said he would call back but he didn't I called him to know my position he made up some excuses and said we'll meet next week But he hasn't called yet. I'm tired and depressed, I can't forget him, He is surely with someone else but why did he come back after all, I feel so awful ... Dating other men make me worse ... Every Morning when I wake up he pops into my head and I feel empty under my stomach... What shall I do? Maybe I shouldn't forgive him so easily... I think he came back for having sex ... but if he has someone else why did he came back to me?! Please Help Me! What should I do know?

[jesshkah]

you were probably right then. he called you up probably because he was hoping that you still had feelings for him and would fall for the whole "i miss you come back to me" thing. but yea because you didn't give it up he isn't into you anymore.

[Asker]

i didn't give up what? I'm confused...my head hurts..and my heart. but wat?

[Asker]

because I felt for it again like I had any idea this was going to happen..i thought he sent it to me cause he really did miss me..but BECAUSE I talked to him..means he's not into me anymore that doesn't make sense. was I suppose to do the play hard to get bullsh*t thing.

[jesshkah]

didnt have sex with him or give him what he wanted. I mean I hope things have gotten better now, its been like a month right? how are you?

[Asker]

sh*ttttttttttttt! still not over him one inch..i got 3 texts from than and now..and they were pretty lame.. :( one the 1st he sent me a text saying: what's up girl I got the weed if your interested :) I said ha nice no longer cell ight...and he never asked for it...till this day now I still wounder and crazy over him..i tried moving on and sh*t but he just keeps popping in my head..i feel like he wants me too call..please help meeeeeeeeeeeeeee..

[jesshkah]

if you feel like he wants you to call, then CALL HIM!