Lots of people engage in rape roleplay. I can't say how your boyfriend will react to the idea, since I don't know him.
There's no rules on how you should roleplay this. It's whatever the two of you want. If you want to act like you don't like it (which I assume you would. since its rape roleplay), than go for it. My only advice is to choose a safe word. A safe word is a word that, if you say it, all play comes to a stop. Choose something other than "no" or "stop", because those are words you're probably going to use as part of the roleplay. Some people use a "stop light" system (red means stop, yellow means slow down or be gentler), other people will just choose a silly word, like "turnip" or something that you are unlikely to say during sex. If he might be gagging you or tying you up, think of some sort of gesture you can do to let him know if you want things to stop (since you won't be able to say your safe word). If the safeword is said, everything stops and then it might be a good idea to take some time to cuddle or talk and come back to a safe place.
It might also be a good idea to take some time talking about your limits/boundaries beforehand. If there's something you wouldn't be comfortable with him doing, let him know before you start playing.
I just want to add that... I read somewhere that 42% of women(believe it was the UK) have a rape fantasy without obviously wanting to be raped. besides that I support selfish's wise words on the safe word/talking about it beforehand
Very nice thank you (: !
Your roleplaying rape fantasy is completely normal and very common and it's not weird to ask him if he wants to try it at all.
-Have a code word for when you truly do want to stop or are in pain, like "cookie" or "barbie" or "facebook" or whatever y'all want
Yes, you are suppose to like it, it's only your fantasy & really, you can either plan it out or just let things happen naturally.
Thanks for your advice(:
I am girl, obviously. I too like that fantasy, unfortunatly I haven't met a guy who is into trying new things, I love my hair pulled. And the occasional choke. What can I say I like it rough. ;]
Your fine. But I think having a serious conversation with your boyfriend would be helpful
I feel what your saying girl! (: ty
LOL. 'Am I not supposed to like it or what?' classic, haha.
Roleplaying isn't far at all, its almost entry-level. Rape roleplay isn't entry-level though but it seems fun. Tell you fantasise about being raped, an ask him if he'd do some rape roleplay with you. He might be into it. If he is, level two;
Its roleplaying, so you just pretend not to enjoy it. Struggle and try and get away from him, but obviously don't let yourself, let him take you, but pretend you don't want to, you know. Act it out. And scream no and stuff, you know, what ever you'd probably do while being raped. This rapist happens to be wearing a condom, or something, if you's practice safe sex, LOL.
Enjoy =]
Best answer so far, Made me laugh. Thank you! (:
Hehe. Thanks muchly ^_^
It's not ridiculous, people have been doing that forever. You need at the very minimum a safe word - a word you pick so that he knows to stop if you say it like "chocolate" or something. That way you can really get into it and yell out whatever you want to and he'll keep going as long as you don't say "chocolate" or whatever the word is.
Very good point! Thanks so much! (:
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!nothing wrong with that. my ex was exactly like that. so one day I pretended to be someone else. she was napping and I pretended to be someone else and tied her up/blind folded her and literally ownd her haha.
she found out tho. because I totally messed up and used my original voice haha...
but it was funny and great... just pretend to not like it. role play! that's the point
hf
Lol Nice story (: Im glad it turned out well.!
Umm... that's a little weird. Not to mention, even though he is your boyfriend and you guys are role playing, it could have potential legal consequences for him should this ever get out. But hey do what you want
Be as specific as you can about what you want and don't want, to give some guidance and set some boundaries, then see if it works.
Actually that isn't weird I've heard from girl friends that they have had a similar controlled "rape" fantasy. I agree with what Quad said you need a safe word so he knows when to stop. Overall a lot of women have a fantasy about being dominated like that by their boyfriends. Just the feeling that he can't control himself in your presence I've heard is a major turn on for girls.
Anyways I say go for it we only live once!
Thanks (:
well... not much to add on this. I thinks its because of being dominated. you usally have all the control when it comes to almost everthing. so I'm guessing its nice to just let go and let someone else take control.
This is just sick that people think stuff like this is OK rape is a very serious thing and should not be made in to playtime.
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