In what sexual position does a VIRGIN wish to be taken the most?

These questions are for virgins or recently de-virginized (or those who can remember their mindset as a virgin.) 1)Are you a virgin? If not, how old were you when you lost it? 2)In what sexual position do you (or did you) WISH to lose your virginity? 3)Non-virgins: What WAS your first sexual position (may or may not have been the position you wished for in question 2)? 3)In what position and what environment do you fantasize about having sex the most, not necessarily just for the first time (for non-virgins answer the way you thought as a virgin)? 4)After you lose your virginity, what position do you think you will enjoy the most (or in the case of non-virgins, what position DID you think you WOULD enjoy the most before you lost it, and is it the same as the one that you actually DO enjoy the most now?) 5)As a virgin, do you/did you lust for more aggressive wild sex or softer sex? 6) For non-virgins, has your answer to question 5 changed since then? 7) Virgins: In what environment do you think about having sex the most -- or did you think about having sex the most when you WERE a virgin (example: in your bedroom, another room of the house, outside in a field, on a beach, private, public, wherever)? 8)Do you prefer to lose it on a bed, on a chair, on the ground/floor, or something else (this question pertains more to the furniture you wish to lose it on than the room itself). 9)For non-virgins, on what type of furniture did you lose it? Please answer with complete DISREGARD for the preferences or wishes of your first sexual partner and with complete DISREGARD for what you think are sexual norms. This series of questions is completely about your own wishes in your ideal world. For the poll, please answer question #2 above.
Standing rear entry
Vote A
Standing front facing
Vote B
Doggy (her on knees)
Vote C
Woman on top
Vote D
Missionary
Vote E
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  • 1. Yes

    2)In what sexual position do you (or did you) WISH to lose your virginity?

    - Missionary

    3)Non-virgins: What WAS your first sexual position (may or may not have been the position you wished for in question 2)

    -Im a virgin

    3)In what position and what environment do you fantasize about having sex the most, not necessarily just for the first time (for non-virgins answer the way you thought as a virgin)?

    -Missionary, in a bed

    4)After you lose your virginity, what position do you think you will enjoy the most (or in the case of non-virgins, what position DID you think you WOULD enjoy the most before you lost it, and is it the same as the one that you actually DO enjoy the most now?)

    -Woman on Top/Cow girl

    5)As a virgin, do you/did you lust for more aggressive wild sex or softer sex?

    -Softer sex

    6) For non-virgins, has your answer to question 5 changed since then?

    -Im a virgin

    7) Virgins: In what environment do you think about having sex the most -- or did you think about having sex the most when you WERE a virgin (example: in your bedroom, another room of the house, outside in a field, on a beach, private, public, wherever)?

    -Bedroom, in a bed

    8)Do you prefer to lose it on a bed, on a chair, on the ground/floor, or something else (this question pertains more to the furniture you wish to lose it on than the room itself).

    -On a bed

    9)For non-virgins, on what type of furniture did you lose it?

  • I'm not a virgin, I lost my virginity fairly recently. I wanted to lose it in missionary, I did lose it in missionary, and I'm glad I did. at this point though it's not the position I enjoy most, partly because a lot of positions (including missionary) can be uncomfortable to me because of the spots they put pressure on. As a virgin I fantasized about both aggressive and softer sex, and I enjoy both equally (or a mixture). The only thing I would change if I re-did losing my virginity is that I wish I had lost it in a bed. My boyfriend and I were on a mat on the floor of his dad's work shop lol. It is what it is though, and I try not to regret it. The rest was beautiful.

  • 1) Yes, still a virgin.

    2) missionary, from there I don't care what position. I'm flexible.

    3) n/a

    4) standing in front facing, pounded against a wall.

    5) I lust more aggressive sex, but soft to begin with.

    6) n/a

    7) I prefer a bedroom, or a beach or park

    8) I don't care where I lose it.. who thinks about that? I just want to lose it.

    9) n/a

Most Helpful Guys

  • I've read somewhere that:

    * most virgins prefer girl on top as they are more in control, and normally it works out the best

    * if the male partner is patient, observant, and knows what he is doing, anatomically doggie style would hurt the least, as the genitals are really well aligned and there are no unexpected pressure points. on the flip side doggie style is not perceived as very romantic but durn it it feels great. it's the way most terrestrial mammals are supposed to have sex. although I once saw two cats (literally) going at it missionary and seemingly doing a fairly good job of it

  • misonary for me, although her on top would of been better. she could control the speed depth angle to suit.

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  • 1) I am a Virgin

    2) Missionary, I want the guy to be the one thrusting

    3) In a car, in My bed

    4) riding a guy

    5) most of the times I want rough sex

    7) bedroom or car

    8) on a bed for the first time

    • hey~ are you looking for friends by any chance? if you are maybe we could be friends (but no pressure though) I'm a virgin too by the way

  • 1. No, I am not ... lost it at 17.

    2. Me on the bottom.

    3. On the bottom, than on top.

    4. I always wanted to do it at his parents house ... I don't know why lol

    5. On top.

    6. Softer.

    7. Nope.

    8. A bed.

    9. A bed.

  • 1: Yes
    2: I don't know. Possibly doggy or missionary. I'd love to have her on top but I feel like that'd be so fucking incredibly hot to me that I'd probably climax way too quick and if I'm comfortable enough with her then I probably wouldn't need too much guidance for the first go around so I feel like doggy or missionary would probably be best to kinda ease myself into my fledgling sex life. Plus with missionary I could look her in the eyes and explore her but with doggy I could really fuck her and probably be as rough as she probably wants (I'm assuming I'd be with someone already experienced just based on my age and it'd likely be just another time for her just now with me instead of the baptism into sex it is for me).
    3: N/A.
    4: I really want to fuck the woman I end up with from the side. Like spooning, lying down together since it always looks so romantic and is always my favourite thing in porn and stuff and you can just hold her and caress her in different romantic ways and it's so intimate and yet still be the man to thrust into her like something more dominant (doggy or something).
    5: Both. Hence why I'm unsure if I'd want my first position ever to be doggy, side spooning or missionary. I'd want to fuck her hard and fast and wildly like a whore but at the same time I want to treat her tenderly and show how much I lover and respect her and care about her and be soft and romantic. At the end of the day I'm just gonna probably let her choose that and which one happens first and hope I can read the body enough to figure out what she wants first. If I had my choice? I'd probably fuck her wildly hard and rough first like some kind of slut doggystyle or something because I know I'm probably gonna climax fast in like 2 minutes... then start kissing, caressing, licking and getting her worked up for a much more romantic and intimate round two afterwards. All I know is for sure she can't be ontop of me the first time, otherwise I'd last like no time, that's like round 4 or 5 or something.
    6: N/A.
    7: Everywhere. Almost always the sanctity of my bedroom. But a beach would be romantic. Public would be hot and risky. Parent's house would just be plain sinful. On my motorcycle (when parked obviously) or the hood of my muscle car would make me feel powerful like a real man, in front of other men and women would be probably nerve-wracking and powerful.
    8: Probably a couch or a bed. Both are equally great in my mind. Possibly a couch slightly better I don't know, I feel like if and when I ever receive oral I'd want to be sitting on a couch just for the comfortability and power but when she's ontop both are great and when I'm doin' it both as well.
    9: N/A.

  • 1. Yes I am virgin
    2. Missionary
    3a. Still virgin
    3b. Missionary in bed or floor
    4. I am a virgin
    5. Yes I think so
    6. I am still a virgin
    7. Wherever
    8. I don't care I just want to loose my virginity

  • You’re spending far too much time thinking bout this stupid shit

  • 1) Yes, I am
    2) Probably missionary or her on top.
    3) My fantasies vary a lot
    4) No idea, I'd like to try everything to find out
    5) Wild. Soft at first.
    7) Private, somewhere in the house, mostly bedroom.
    8) Bed sounds good. Doesn't really matter.

  • Missionary, it was the only position I knew at the time.

  • A virgin doesn't know what sexual position they want so most likely they going to try the missionary first because it's the most common but if I was to take a virgin's virginity I would get her from all positions and make her feel every one of them all at once

  • 1) Are you a virgin? If not, how old were you when you lost it? 14

    2) In what sexual position do you (or did you) WISH to lose your virginity? cowboy

    3) Non-virgins: What WAS your first sexual position (may or may not have been the position you wished for in question 2)? cowboy... and then reverse cowboy

    3) In what position and what environment do you fantasize about having sex the most, not necessarily just for the first time (for non-virgins answer the way you thought as a virgin)? Honestly Doggystyle.. then scissor sex

    4) After you lose your virginity, what position do you think you will enjoy the most (or in the case of non-virgins, what position DID you think you WOULD enjoy the most before you lost it, and is it the same as the one that you actually DO enjoy the most now?) I was happy as fuck.. but it didn't last long.. and we continued right after

    5) As a virgin, do you/did you lust for more aggressive wild sex or softer sex? My first time " yes" like a lot.. I would push her against the wall.. and... you know

    6) For non-virgins, has your answer to question 5 changed since then?

    7) Virgins: In what environment do you think about having sex the most -- or did you think about having sex the most when you WERE a virgin (example: in your bedroom, another room of the house, outside in a field, on a beach, private, public, wherever)?

    8) Do you prefer to lose it on a bed, on a chair, on the ground/floor, or something else (this question pertains more to the furniture you wish to lose it on than the room itself).

    9) For non-virgins, on what type of furniture did you lose it?

  • For me, it was missionary.

  • Missionary.

  • First time was missionary, but I've done pretty much every position there is.

  • tied up and doggy

  • 1. I am a virgin 🤭
    2. I would want to loose my virginity with missionary, I for some reason i feel like its so romantic lol. I see this in movies and it must be so nice
    3. I would love to loose it during my honeymoon hehe
    4. I would still say missionary because I'm too shy to be facing his face. In missionary I can just close my eyes and cover my breasts with a pillow lol
    5. As a virgin I crave for soft sex 😇
    7. In a bedroom cause no one sees you lol
    8. In a bed is more comfy 🤣

  • 1) yes

    2) Missionary

    3a) N/A

    3b) cowgirl/reverse cowgirl

    4) doggy, spooning, stand and carry

    5) wild sex

    6) N/A

    7) bedroom, public areas, balcony, against the wall, bathroom, kitchen counter, floor, couch, car, park

    8) bed

    9) N/A

  • 1)21 and virgin

    2) Definitely NOT missionary. Either riding (woman on top) or prone bone.

    3) Fantasies go wild, tons of environments and scenarios I'd fantasize about.

    4) Same thing I'd want to go for for my first time. Maybe would like to try different things with time and the right partner.

    5) Soft sex. Not into agressive stuff in general I suppose.

    7) Same as 3. No limits to the imagination.

    8) As long as the furniture is comfortable enough lol.

  • I put girl on top because that's how I lost my virginity. I thought that was the best one because I had more control about how fast or slow or deep.

  • Ok I didn't read all of your questions but I would like to be on top first and somehow work my way to the bottom.

  • i'm still a virgin, I think I'd like to lose it in the missionary position, me on bottom, that way he has more control and can lead sort of, and preferably in a bed...