How can you tell if you are making love or just having sex?

I would like to know, how can you tell if the guy is making love with you or just having sex? Can you tell by the way he moves while you are together? Please answer as detailed as possible for better understanding.


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  • I'd say you can tell a lot more by how much you love each other when no sex is involved. I don't think anyone is ever having sex and is thinking, "Oh I'm making love to you", or thinking, 'I'm just having sex." I think it all has to do with how much you love each other because if you truly love a person you'll always be making love. Having sex is more like what happens on hook ups or when people have sex when they hardly even really know the per person yet. Like you can't make love if you don't love the person. Where that is lacking, it will always be just having sex.