My boyfriend fell asleep while we were having sex?

[Anonymous]

Rude or not ? He had just finished work so he said I could go on top because he was tired, then he closed his eyes to 'enjoy' it and fell asleep. He said he fell asleep because he was in 'heaven' and it felt so good. I know I give good sex, this was the first time it has ever happened and we've been dating for almost 2 years now. I couldn't help but feel offended and hurt... I just cried and went to shower leaving him there asleep. Boys, was it because I was under performing and do you fall asleep when it is boring? I was changing positions too.. reverse and side etc.. what was wrong? :( have you ever fallen asleep on a girl before? Or do you genuinely think it would have been because he was tired? I just don't know how someone could fall asleep while I akm thrusting ! And it was intense too WTF. And I'm hot ~! I don't mean to brag but I'm petite and a size 6 so I have a good body and all... WHY :( It's left me so sad :(

[MrOracle]

He told you up-front that he was tired, and he just got home from work. He might have had an especially difficult day that day, either physically or mentally, or maybe he didn't get enough sleep the night before.

The point is, from everything you've told us, he fell asleep because he was exhausted. It has NOTHING to do with his feelings towards you. It's a simple physical reaction. People who are tired sometimes fall asleep while driving and wreck their cars, and sometimes other people's cars too. It isn't something they wanted to do or tried to do or even thought would happen, but sometimes it does anyway. Same thing here.

Don't take it personally. It's likely that having sex with you is his favorite thing to do in the whole world. It's just, on that particular day, he was spent, and just wasn't up to it. At least he tried. This is something you should kind of laugh off. Don't take it too seriously, it doesn't mean anything.

[l-hedoniste]

Have you ever fallen asleep during the perfect massage? It's like that.

[nermalinda]

He was tired. When a person needs sleep bad enough, their body will just pass out NO MATTER WHAT. So don't take it personally. If he treats you good otherwise, then it's fine. But if there are other things that are wrong, then figure out what those are about.

[selfishstars]

Yeah, you're overreacting, he was probably just really tired. This is the first time it's happened and you've been together for 2 years---do you really think that all of a sudden he doesn't think you're hot and he thinks you're boring in bed? Calm down.

[ihatework]

you're overreacting. he was tired from work and passed out, it happens.

[darkhorn]

that is normal. all guys feel sleepy after sex

[Asker]

He didn't fall asleep after sex, but during sex

[darkhorn]

if you search on the web you will see that guys fall sleep. also, I think that it was during sex for you but at the end of the of the sex for him. link don't worry. it is really really normal.

[Anonymous]

Mine always falls asleep during or right before sex... I think he is on drugs and\or really bored of me :-(