I just found out my girlfriend is more sexually experienced then me, help?

[Stifler99]

I have been dating this girl for 5 months who got out of a 3 year relationship after she dumped him. She is the type of girl who is cute and nice and everyone assumed was completely innocent. This guy was her first, and I know she slept with some guys in between our relationship. Me and her have been having sex regularly for 3 months but it's always in the worst places while trying to be stealth because we go to a Christian university. Normally this would be no issue because I have had sex with around 12 girls and she has had sex with 5 guys. I always thought I had the upper hand because of this but then we started talking about the kinkiest stuff we have done. Turns out that she has had 2 threesomes with her exboyfriend and they have done a bunch of other stuff while my kinkiest thing wasn't even remotely close to hers. Now I am scared sh*tless because she has done all this crazy stuff and I have just done the basics with a bunch of people and were only 18. What the hell should I do now? I know that her and her boyfriend had good sex and she could orgasm with him because we used to be good friends. I know that this isn't a competition but I'm always used to being more experienced with her and now I found out I'm not even close. my confidence is shot and I can't make her orgasm. I can last a long time but I think that's insignificant, she's not big into getting head either. Any tips would be appreciated! I wanna knock her out of this worl

[Anonymous]

Extremely kinky sex is something that's good every now and again. Don't worry about it. My boyfriend is a bit on the vanilla side, and is slow to come around to the kinky stuff.. he found out some of the stuff I've done in my past, and he was much like you. Just because our sex isn't off the wall kinky, doesn't mean it isn't good. Just because your buddy said he could make her orgasm her brains out doesn't mean it's true. A lot of guys will say that trying to sound macho and whatever, but it isn't even remotely close to true. Try out something new. Something you've never done. Also, just because it's kinky sex doesn't mean it's good sex. But if you really have that many issues with your ego concerning this matter, go out on a limb and just try something different. Use your imagination.

[thesedeadorchids]

My boyfriend has been slow to make me come (with his hands and mouth, never mind whether it's during sex or not). Try getting her to masturbate to orgasm for the time being, so at least she feels that pleasure when you have sex. Gradually you can take over the touching; fingers inside her while she touches herself, and letting her get really close and then taking over entirely so it's you who makes her come.

We've got to this point, and by the sounds of it, it might be a good aim for you and your girlfriend. And definitely talk to her about it if you feel uncertain and left behind experience wise. She is not going to bite your head off, and will appreciate that you care about her pleasure.

[Anonymous]

How about trying out some of the things she has done. At least that way you would be even. But I don't think she really cares. I mean if she hasn't said anything about your sex life then maybe you are more pleasing in other ways in bed.

[Anonymous]

Chicks need basically two things to cum...SIZE and Stamina. You've got stamina so you must have a little pecker. Get a vibe or use a big dildo to do her.