OK this is an odd question, my husband wants me to swallow when giving him a BJ and I want to but I can't bring my self to do it. is there any position that might work best to help? or any thing he can do to help with out saying just do it.
I would just say try not to overthink it--it sounds like you may be doing that & that makes it worse than it really is, in my personal opinion. I do think it's nice you're trying to please your husband...you'll probably get some good tips below...but I say, just do it! The less you dwell on it, the less likely you'll be to get sick.
I personally feel uncomfortable if the guy pushes too far into my mouth as he cums. I just swallow it as fast as I can, so I don't have to hold it in my mouth for any length of time, for me it's easier than holding it all in my mouth until he's finished, esp. if he cums more than others... :o)
Just suck it and when he's about to come (ask him to let you know when he cums) just stick it in as far as you can take it and swallow as he's cumming. That way you're not left with a big load to swallow at one time and you won't even taste it if it's past your taste buds.
Sometimes I just open my mouth and let him shoot into it, then swallow. Other times I hold the head in my mouth and let it shoot in then swallow and other times I take him deep into my mouth and it just shoots down my throat. I just love it anyway I can get it.