My boyfriend wants to give me oral but I am way too shy, should I just let him?

We are both virgins but I have given him a bj before and he keeps asking if he can lick me but I'm so nervous I don't think I can. I'm scared he won't like how I taste or smell, even though to me it tastes sweet but I'm scared he might think differently. Should I just let him already ?
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  • If you can just wrap you mind around the idea that what's likely offensive to you (smell, taste, etc) is likely a turn-on for him. I personally love a girl to have something "extra"totally clean, and sanitized is boring, and uninviting to me.

    Think of it this way: Even after all your no-saying, and pushing him away, he still wants to go down on you... well, just let him.
    Your NOT letting him do what he clearly wants to do is going to drive a wedge between you.
    If you truly don't like that and aren't comfortable with it, that's fine, no one has to force you; however, find someone you're compatable with.
    If, on the other hand, you're saying no because of some crazy notions you have over what HE IS THINKING, then that's ridiculous, because he's already made his will clear: he wants to eat your luscious pussy.
    Think of it also that if you don't let him try your sweet box, then you're depriving him of a wonderful experience that he my very well be actually very good at.
    For me, I'd rather give oral than get it. I want to go down on a woman, and will be very disappointed if she says no, because it's that important.

  • I think you are a lucky girl. My guess is that he wants you to enjoy the experience more. Does he get you off an other ways? If not, he probably wants to. Simple cleanliness is all that's necessary-though a touch-a touch, of perfume on the inside of your thigh would probably make him nuts.

    To bring a woman to orgasm is quite a turn on. It's natural to be a little uptight about doing anything new, especially something that makes you emotionally, physically vulnerable. I have never met a woman who didn't love getting head.

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  • YES let him all your worries will go away once he starts licking you. If he wants to do it I say go for it as long as you're comfortable with it though because if you're not comfortable with him going down on you, it might not be as enjoyable for you...I was the same way before I had my first oral sex experience worried about how I would taste and smell to him but then after it happend I was like why was I worried in the first place...as long as you're clean down there then there's nothing to worry about. If you're worried about the taste pineapple juice will make it taste sweeter for him. (:

    You don't know what you're missing it's so amazing, amazing is an understatement though :)

    good luck (~:

  • Let him, trust me it will feel really good and all of you and all of your inhibitions will just melt away. If you are worried about smelling or tasting bad then take a shower before you guys get together. Besides he probably won't think it tastes bad, since he is a virgin and probably doesn't know what a vagina is supposed to taste like. Just lie back and have fun. You'll enjoy it.

  • Dont ever do something your not comfortable with because you will regret it, if he really cares he won't push the subject.

    If you want to just be for warned oral sex is gateway sex, be prepaired just incase things get to racy!

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  • Definitely let him do it! You can guide him to do you just the right way and it's the most selfless way to love another person, I think. It will bring you closer!

  • The easiest solution for you is to adopt a position of trust & non-participation. This would normally be one where you are blindfolded & loosely tied (scarves?) to the bed. Of course, you would agree on a "safe word" that would guaranty release & stop actions.

    You might want to think about setting a mood similar to massage rooms to settle down, e.g. lighting, scents, music, etc. for comfort.

    We would love a report on how it turned out.

  • yeah you should let him, you will both love it

  • When you are ready do it.

    We were all afraid of our first kiss, right? Is my breath bad? Does my mouth taste bad.

    Same principal here.

    If you think that you are going to do it. Go into the washroom 1st & wash that area a little.

  • Hell yeah you should let him,just lay back spread your legs and let him experiment,since he is a virgin he might need some verbal cuing don't be shy spread it for him and show him the way..

  • its an amazing feeling. I say let him do it. you won't have any regrets ;)

  • If you think you will like it in the end... give it a good thought... you should go for it.

  • yeah, but only if your comfortable, guide him to your spots let him know if he's doing something that you like that will make you both more comfortable.

  • Yes, I think you should let him do it. I think most girls worry about how they'll taste and smell to a guy. I've never gone down on a girl I thought tasted or smelled bad. The taste and smell are actually a major turn-on for me. Plus, it feels really good for a girl to receive oral.

  • yes

  • no. on't do something you're not comfortable with, you won't ejoy it

  • give him the chance if you want to..just don't force yourself if it's not really what you want

  • Keep just giving him BJ's... you'll be fine without being licked.