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How much do guys care about breast size?

how big do they have to be for a guy to want to look at them? I'm asking this because I was talking to this guy a few days ago and we were talking about how it's weird that guys can walk around with their shirt off but girls can't and I could tell that he kept looking at my chest but I was just wondering what he was thinking, because I have really small boobs (size A cups) and I didn't know if he still thought it was attractive.. So, basically, can guys still enjoy looking at a girls breasts even if theyre pretty small?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • If a guy is attracted to a girl to begin with, then he will want to look at and think about her breasts.

    It's like, you see a pretty girl and you think to yourself, "I wonder what her boobs look like?" And the more you like her, the more you want to know.

    It doesn't matter so much what the size are, because when I'm looking at a girl's boobs, I'm not just thinking about the boobs like they are an independent entity. I'm thinking of the boobs in terms of the girl they belong to. So if that girl is really hot, then her boobs are also really hot. Do you see what I'm saying?

    Obviously, if a girl has really large breasts, then that may be the first thing that catches your eye when you look at her. But it doesn't mean that I'd necessarily rather look at her breasts than yours. If I think she's not that pretty but you are, then I'd rather look at your breasts than hers no matter how large her's are.

    I can't speak for every guy on the planet, but that's the way I feel. Some guys care more about the size than others but you're really young and it shouldn't matter to you.

    Also, I guess what makes boobs entertaining to look at is how they move. So if they're at least large enough to have a mind of their own, then that will keep our attention longer. Guys are entertained by boobs in the same way that kittens are entertained by balls of yarn. The more it looks like something that's fun to play with, the more it's going to occupy us. That should give you some idea.

    But still, generally if a guy likes you, he's going to like the thought of looking at your boobs.

  • Yeah, I'd say so. Even small ones still show that shape under the shirts, & it's so inherently feminine & sexy, the size isn't important, though big ones get notice because they stick out so far. I went to a mall with a group of work friends, one of which, Jennifer, was big boobed but I always saw her in things looser in the chest. That day, she considered tucking a tee shirt that said Gap Jeans into her jeans, (LOL) our friend Rachel persuaded her,N there was no imagination left in terms of the size. The shirt tucked in made them REALLY stand out N look big, almost huge! We stopped by a perfume counter N Jennifer asked this young guy a question. He turned , his mouth dropped & he said, "I, Uhh, Uhh, Uhh..." Rachel said, "Yeah, we're thinking of scratching out jeans N putting Gap Tits!" LOL I still notice bigger boobs, but not in the way I did when younger, N they're not as important. I think most guys outgrow it too...

Most Helpful Girls

  • It depends on the guy,

    I asked my most recent ex while we were still together what his thoughts where, and all he said was proportion mattered.

    Like, I'm really petite and short, he said he'd think I'd look really weird with a C cup, and I'm an A cup.

    He also commented that if a girl was quite large, that small breasts would be unattractive.

    I guess to a guy it depends on how you wear them for lack of a better way of saying it.

  • Some guys are boob guys, some guys are butt guys, most guys are just overall into naked girls. I had A cup breasts for most of my life. They were never a problem and I never felt lacking in sexiness. Only after I had my daughter and my breasts lost the volume they did have did I finally decide to have them augmented. I can tell you, my boobs may catch a guy's eye but they never caught anyone's heart. That came for everything else that is me.

  • I think most, if not all guys appreciate all breasts.

    Smaller breasts have there advantages, and I haven't met a guy who would turn down the chance to see any breasts.

    I would love to be a smaller cup size, wanna trade places lol?

    I have 3D's and they are just in the way.

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  • Breast size is not important to me.. Big or small..

    But every guy is diffrent..

    As to breast size id perfure... small but not flat.. But I don't notice that when I'm asking out girls.. Breast size isn't top the of my list..

  • Damn, this guy you were talking was looking at your breasts while talking to you?

    Get some manners, it's allright to look, but do it discretely, and not while talking directly to the girl! :-p

    But well, to the question.

    No, size dosn't matter for me at all, I would still look, no matter how small/big they are.

    And if I look, it's becouse I also like the rest of the girls body, and well, got to say, that I'm more of an ass-person ;-)

  • > So, basically, can guys still enjoy looking at a girls breasts even if theyre pretty small?

    Yes \o/

    Many guys find pretty much all breasts pleasing to look at. It's not that larger breasts are necessarily better, but they do tend to catch the eye more easily.

  • it depends on the guy- but most of the ones I know don't care about size at all. What they "care" about- or find nice- is the shape and "perkeness" of them.

  • Boobs are boobs. Guys will look whether they're A's or D's. Some guys prefer smaller boobs anyway

  • Guys generally just like boobs! Big or small, but if they like a girl I'm sure they won't mind the breast size, although guys generally like bigger, bolder curves. I'm a 36D, and I'd love be be smaller like... a B or something!

  • It depends on the season and what they wearing.. around this time of year you gotta let the 'hogs©' breathe in the back of the wrangler Jeep Sport on the way from and back those beach and pool parties like she was your 'boss©' looks good down the highway or the local bus lane.. the smaller sized matches with the outgoing male counterpart gives substance to the sub-genre.. walking around and behind closed doors with them are too different stories.. any women around then are who's carpet munching now.. staying indoors it wouldn't matter at all to me it depends.. a weekend a few hours I'll figure it all out then we could do hotel resort trip pull-ups or street fairs & parades if what you got is up to it..

  • I actually like small to average, and really a girl's attitude and the way she carries herself is the reason I'd be looking in the first place. So I'd say if he's looking, it's because he's curious, not because he's judging them.

  • not at all

    i will never get turned off looking at small boobs

    but gets disappointed if cheats by using fake bras

    not only boobs can make a guy on but also your bums can make a magic try with this

    • Which size do you consider small?

  • most guys don't care at all. as long as they get to see them then size doesn't make a difference. you might get a guy who prefers other body parts, legs, booty, thighs or whatever. all my girlfriends had boobs that were on the smaller size but that's OK cause I liked their booty haha. don't worry about size. the right guy will like you for you anyway. the same way most girls don't worry about the size of package a guy is rocking. its not the size of the boat, its the motion of the ocean.

  • I don't at all, it's just flesh, I only care about the person who they are inside

  • It's all in the ratio. As long as not you're flat like a board (meaning it has a slight curve), there will be someone who finds it attractive regardless of size.

  • Honestly its not a big deal for me. Size just doesn't matter, as long as they weren't completely flat chested it would be fine.

  • depends on the guy really, I look at the whole package. boobs are nice but not really important to me. big boobs are just a bonus. I pay attention to a pretty face, bum and legs.

  • Not a priority...prefer smaller tho...

  • The real answer is it depends on the guy, but I'm willing to bet most guys really don't care. I prefer flat-chested girls personally, but what's more important is what she has in between her ears.

    • I'll drink to that...

  • yes we do, well I do anyway, I love them small and even when they are flat, and I mean flat.

    Ultimately love and real love will override breast size preference and so even though I really like little breasts, I don't rule anything out and it may be that my desire for tiny breasts is lust and will not mean I have a significant long term relationship with someone built that way.

    So a long answer to your question, yes we care about breasts but real love will mean we would compromise on what we fantasize about very quickly.

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  • i think it depends on the guys, because I'm dating a guys that said its not the size it the way thay look on you

  • If you instill the idea a guy will automatically think about it. It works with any topic. For instance, if I say don't think of apples you automatically think of them and your eyes begin to wander to find an apple. Guys are naturally sec driven and will be drawn to what sends pleasing to them. You would be surprised to see how many times a guy is actually starting at your lips, eyes, hair or other features as well.

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