What's with girls being disappointed/sad/mad/furious with "Average"?

[Anonymous]

All over this site, search around if you want... There's a search bar! There's hundr- Thousands of questions about penis sizes. Each one amusing. Though over a *long* period of time I *have* found some legit questions. Amazingly getting tons of answers of pretty much all the same thing... That the girls would actually be disappointed. Why? Seriously. Is every single girl expecting every single guy to have a monster cock? That's insane! It's called average for a reason! It's average! Not below average. Average! These girls - they're talking like an average penis is a micropenis! Like it's from some 650LB over weight guy that's having trouble FINDING IT! My question: What's with the girls mind frame of average (5 to 6 inches) being (Holy sh*t, I need to grab my stuff and get out of here it's so tiny!) small?

[selfishstars]

I see tons of girls saying that they don't care. I also imagine that there are a lot of girls who don't care, but have stopped replying to those types of questions because.. despite the fact that we say we don't really care, the questions persist, including ones like this.

Here's my take on penis size:

Most of the pleasure I experience through intercourse comes from the pressure and friction of his penis on my vaginal walls. In that sense, it's more about girth than length. For me, it isn't "the thicker, the better", it's about a partner who is a "good fit" for me. Just as penises vary in size, vaginas do as well. A snug fit is preferable---and I imagine that's true for both my pleasure and his pleasure, since I can't imagine it being as pleasurable for him if my vagina isn't a snug fit for him. If his penis is too thick for me, it can be uncomfortable and sometimes a little painful because I can feel it stretching me (a little stretch is okay, but not too much). Also keep in mind that position can affect the tightness of the vagina, and if a girl has good control over her muscles, she can squeeze her vagina around his penis for a closer "fit".

The second thing to consider is length. Length is only important to me in the sense that sometimes when a guy is on the shorter side, it can be easier for him to "fall out" during sex, which can be a little frustrating because you have to pause for a second to put it back in. If a girl is very close to orgasming, that pause can sometimes mean "losing" her orgasm. On the other hand, being too long can be painful because, personally, it hurts when a guy is hitting my cervix. My vagina is only about 5 inches deep, so it's not necessary for a guy to be above average for him to "fill" my vagina.

Even if a guy is the "perfect fit" for me, that doesn't guarantee great sex; nor does it mean bad sex if the guy is smaller or bigger than my perfect fit. I find that sexual chemistry, enthusiasm, open-mindedness, confidence, good communication, and my own mindset have a lot bigger impact on my sexual pleasure than penis size.

[mobbie32]

So is 6 inches enough

[Elisha22]

I've went through a lot of penis questions on here and I saw the girls that don't seem like huge bitches don't care about a guys size. I mean I've seen all sorts of sizes and I really don't care.

Same as guys and my t*ts. Most of the guys I date physically like me because I have big t*ts and the ones I date that like small t*ts (and say that they rather I had small t*ts) I tell them I could say something about your d*** but I don't and none of it bothers me because him saying it means he is insecure.

Guys and girls are shallow sometimes. We can't change it, so all you can do is live with what you have just like the rest of us. If you date a girl who likes you but thinks your d*** is to small then F*** HER! She is obviously a shallow bitch. If someone really likes you then they wouldn't care.

[Elisha22]

vote me down if you want...everyone you doesn't say we are all shallow bitches will get voted down.

[Anonymous]

Have you ever considered that a lot of people posting may be 12 year old girls who giggle about penises without ever actually seeing one? They would think bigger is better because guys always brag about having a big penis or insult each other. Most real women know it doesn't matter.

[eldamien]

I've said this over and over on all these questions - from a guys perspective, I've never had a problem. I'm actually (I discovered) below average. I always thought the average was between 4.2 and 4.5 inches, but I just read that it's actually 5. So, at 4.5 I'm under the national average. However, I've NEVER had anyone complain or even mention it. I had one girl mention size and all she said is once she saw me with the lights on, she was surprised at the size because she thought it felt bigger.

All except for that one girl also said that the sex itself was just sex - they valued the non-physical feelings far more than just the physical act.

Really though, if a girl that you're with has a problem with your size, just move on. There are thousands of other, more well-adjusted girls out there that you could be spending your evenings with. Those girls can't control their attractions any more than you could suddenly "decide" you're attracted to guys. If that's what they're into, more power to them. For example, I'm into redheads...and no amount of logic or debate or argument will convince me that redheads aren't "hotter" than other girls - I know in my head that it's just a hair color and it has nothing to do with the person inside (it's literally a genetic accident, just like penis size), but it's another thing entirely to tell myself that when a hot redhead walks by. I'm sure girls that care about penis size, it's something similar. They don't conciously sit at home and think about it anymore than us guys think about things.

[Belgie]

My results differ from yours. I have also seen a TON of questions. And by FAR the most common response is "We don't give a sh*t. Why do guys care so f***ing much?"

There are a TON of questions like yours, bitching about something which (from what I can see) doesn't exist... this vapid cloud of women who only love monster cocks.

If it's STILL a problem, then, I dunno... f*** her in the ass. See if she still complains that you're too small. Somehow, I doubt she will.

[lananoel]

Idk.. Big is nice but the sh*t hurts. My new boyfriend is smaller and I like it more. I guess it is the same as guys and t*ts tho.. Most like em big.

[davet1244]

actually more guys here prefer average or smaller breasts than girls do average penis

[Asker]

What Dave said. Large breasts are actually kind of unattractive...

[lananoel]

Dude.. wth? I didn't say all.. I said most.. geez..

[lananoel]

so.. I got downed for that? I've been called tiny t*ts most my life ( not that I care ) In my experience they like em big. W.e Today ain't my day.. lol

[Elisha22]

I'll give you +1 because you were just being honest and having DDs most guys seems to like the t*ts average to a little bigger, so I get what you mean.

[Slugworth99]

Large breasts are eye catching, but they also don't stay up and perky for the entire life of the woman.

[Heelturn]

Smaller? Like average? If you don't mind me asking.

[Cypher17]

Dude you need to chill because getting angry about it won't change anything because its all instinct .

the same way we're attracted to boobs , just wait and you might find a girl that likes small features haaha

[G_GTom]

Because women are just as shallow as men even though they don't like to consider themselves as such.

[Shaun]

Because it's so much easier for women to choose among a variety of potential partners, they get it into their head that they are ordering off a menu. They fall in love with the big **** and then are upset that they can't (of course) lock it down, then they take it out on the regular sized men in their life.

It's a control issue.

[Anonymous]

if it makes you feel better, since I started reading some of the stuff on this forum, I have started worrying about my own size. like what if I'm too big? like what if there is too much room in there? it's not like I can help it! I've had big guys. it felt great. but right now I love a smaller guy, and now I'm freaked out cause maybe he won't like me cause he needs a smaller area to play with! kill me!

[christian2724]

You'll be fine. You can keep your legs together and it'll tighten you up. But honestly, don't assume anything is wrong. Interesting comment though.

[Anonymous]

If you spend some time on this website you would notice that a majority of girls here have only (magically) slept with big penises and they think those are average.