Roommate heard me and my boyfriend having sex. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

So I had no idea my roommate was in the room and could hear us in the living room but she texts me and she's like omg, you guys have been going on for like 3 hours. I can hear you guys making noises and banging. I was so embarrassed and then she wrote on her facebook like OMG, really? Yeah, so embarrassing. I thought she was in her room sleep or something and I was trying not to make so much noise but it didn't work. Urgh, the awkwardness. What should I do?

[pretty_times2]

you need to apologize. its never good manners to have sex while your roomate is present even if you think she asleep. go to her personally, apologize and say that from now on it won't happen that way. (besides if your guys not a good guy he may think having sex with someone else present is kinda hot or something ew!) instead I know this sounds weird but let her know next time so she can crash with a friend. She could go somewhere for the night and just say that you are sick and need some space or something. no big deal. Or you could get a room next time or go to his house instead. try to schedulae your sexecapades when she WILL not be present or you may have a fight on your hands. trust me when this happens regularly its annoying and become a big fight over. you don't want that do you?

[Asker]

she's always there so I know that won't work

[Mahtaazh]

Just Let it go, nothing imortant happened. You can apolagize if you want to but she did not have any right to talk to you about that.

[haake]

Tell her you're sorry she wasn't getting any, but maybe she'll have better luck next time.

[clovisx]

I would tell her to not post things about your personal life on FB and then let it go. If she has a problem with it, she needs to work it out. You were in your room with the door closed, not going at it on the couch between her and the TV. The alternative would be to tell her ahead of time that you "need some privacy" and give her warning that things could get frisky later so she might want to go out or hang out in her room if it bothers her.

[dave216]

Laugh about it and forget it. If you want to be really polite, apologize for disturbing her, but really, you are entitled to use your space aren't you?

[dave216]

thank you :)

[malekoniky]

Nothing. It's all right. It happens. And it is normal.

[Marty]

lol. there's no use crying over spilled milled.. charge it to experience

[Marty]

*spilled milk

[katiesmuff]

It's pretty much been done! Offer her a chance to join in next time.

[Belgie]

Laugh about it, and ignore it.

Or you could f*** with her head. Tell her she should have come out to complain, wearing a small silk thing, and she could have joined in.

Or tell her that you never complain about her making noises when she masturbates. (Most women do, so she might just assume she's louder than she thought when she's jillin' the ol' bean)

[Thiezz]

> Or tell her that you never complain about her making noises when she masturbates. That's brilliant!

[AmberChick]

Next time just ask her if she wants to join.

[jacquesvol]

next time, suggest a threesome: your boyfriend will love it.

[MikeK]

Yep, include her next time. Why not?

[LetsFIFA1]

umm? moan louder? doesn't really matter

[Anonymous]

I think someones jealous that they weren't getting any action! You did nothing wrong - don't act awkward in front of her as you will be showing her you feel bad. You are room-mates, what else does she expect?