Guys? what's is your definition of a girls that are "Easy"?

[dailyday]

I always hear guys say "I like girls that are a challenge, girls that are hard to get"...But then when you are playing hard to get most guys are like "forget it" me personally have been called easy by my Ex because I had sex with him the second time we hung out...which is something I wouldn't normally do, but I explained to him that I had been broken up with my previous ex before him and hadn't had sex in over 6months...and he was the "one" he was the "perfect candidate"...However eventually it came out that he had in his head that I was easy he couldn't trust me Because I would have sex with any guy that easy because I did that with him, so that ended up being the cause of our break up. my question is why do guys automatically snap judgment like isn't there a such thing as choice...Female, like males have sexual attractions there are some men I would have sex with and some I wouldn't even give a minute of my time...basically I know what I want, but I also have boundaries...something most guys do not have when it comes to sex...so what is EASY to you P.S. I am very laid back, homebody, keep to myself, not wild and "out there", book smart...Caring, and Nice, is all of that not taken into consideration

[DonMichelle]

I agree with Artistbboy's 'f*** other people's opions' view but not with his view of what easy is...

Remember girls enjoy sex just as much as men do so when you offer and they say yes... are they not getting something for themselves? Why must it be seen as them 'providing a service' almost, they have needs just as we do

In the view of society an 'easy girl' is someone who's easy to have sex with. Could be the first time you approach them or a week after knoing them... it's whoever is having sex with deems them easy or not by what they class as easy. If I saw a girl every day for a week and on the seventh day she agreed to have sex... I'd say she's got will. If a girl agrees to have sex the first time I meet her... she wants sex for herself, not for any1 else! I couldn't really say she's easy yet I'm relaxed and open minded/ Easy is an insult!

And finally...

E) Someone who "flaunts" her attributes in an attempt to tease men... this is teasing! How can a persom who teases be easy? Massive contradiction!

G) Anyone who directly or indirectly asks a stranger for sex... direct request from a girl, I'd say this is attractive... but that's me ;) hahaa

C) Actively seeks sex on a weekly basis from anyone other than her spouse... weekly... why not daily? And it's adultery and she may have good reason. What if her 'spouse' is a twat?!?!

The others?!?! I can't be arsed writing about, my food's ready haha. You decide for yourself, don't let it worry/bother you :)

[meowdoo]

I concur.

[DonMichelle]

The 'easy girl' is the type of girl who lets herself be a victim, lets herself be a 'cheap joke'. The difference between an easy girl and a girl who likes to have sex is the easy girl has sex with multiple people in the hope of finding someone that will like them and put an end to 'thier search'. A lot of lads fail to realize that a girl's 'sleeping around' is often a desperate search for a lad that cares, they're needy, wheras a girl who likes sex only needs sex to satisfy, she's not a victim!

[ArtistBboy]

Honestly, f*** the judgments.. Enjoy your own life and stop letting people dictate how you do what you want to do.

If you really want me to answer the question:

- An easy woman is someone who either:

A) Sleeps around with many men

B) Sleeps with any man after a short period of time (anything before 3 months of a relationship)

C) Actively seeks sex on a weekly basis from anyone other than her spouse

D) Goes to places like bars, etc.. Hoping to find an ideal mate to have sex with that night.

E) Someone who "flaunts" her attributes in an attempt to tease men

F) Someone who changed from "themselves" to a "slobbering romantic idiot" after sex

G) Anyone who directly or indirectly asks a stranger for sex

H) Anyone who uses sex for monetary gain

... Look, this list can go on forever.. I'll leave it to your imagination.

In short, judgments aren't worth your time. Enjoy your youth, have fun, get an education and other "structures" for your future, and tell the haters to have a nice day.

~ ArtistBBoy

[meowdoo]

Oh please, it's a girl choice to sleep with as many as she wants. 3 months relationship before sex? What if I don't want a relationship? I want just that, having fun in bed? Oh, it's just ridiculous.

[ArtistBboy]

Look, I'm sorry it's offending to hear my opinion on the topic. But please realize that I wasn't attempting to "target" you or any other woman.

[b61983]

i am in love with your answer. its nice to hear a guy saying to enjoy your life. F**K, finally.

[Honeybaby]

Your ex doesn't make sense! You slept with him - not his friends, you were in a relationship with him. Doesn't it make him easy sleeping with you? I suppose he going to move onto female after female and say the same words to them and by him doing that makes him a slag!

[b61983]

he just doing the regular guy thing and talkin trash to lower your self esteem. do it back, tell him he sux in bed or is a loser kuz he lives with mommy or can BBQ. something stupid like that. its fun

[sigsauer45]

girl you can sleep how ever you what it up to you win you sleep with a guy and to hell with you ex what your ex said about if you what to have sex with a guy and you know that what you what then go for it that dose not make you easy just because he said so. Life is short do what you please us guys know that most girls don,t jump in to bed with ever guy they meet and same for us guy

[armyguy176]

first of all, girls don't understand how much guys hate games. they think if they play hard to get the guy will be attracted even more, but the truth is, that just pisses most guys off and they are more than happy to find someone more sensible.

And if you had sex with me the second time we hung out, I would consider you "easy", but when you say that that really isn't your style at all, I would probably take it back.

[Malcom_Reynolds]

To me a girl is easy if she goes and has sex with a guy, not because she wants to, but because she thinks it's the only way for her to get any attention from him.

Me personally, I don't care if a girl does on the first date. I don't think she should have to worry about being labelled easy if she does assuming she wants to, he wants to, both are single, and both are of age. Also, the idea of guys wanting a challenge, for some it's true, for me and many others out there, it's not.

[Anonymous]

Had sex with a guy on the same day she met him, or within 3 days

Ever cheated or had a threesome

Casual sex more than once

Been with over 4 men

Mostly it's easy to tell who the ho's are. Easy women usually have a reputation among men as the town bicycle, especially on a college campus.

[meowdoo]

Cheating is a complex issue, a girl would never cheat if she were happy in the relationship. Cheating means the current relationship doesn't work. And I don't see the problem in having sex with a person you just met. What difference does it make? Sometimes I just want to f*** them once and have nothing to do with them, sometimes it's in a different country and you feel adventurous. And what? 4 more is all right 5 isn't? Can I ask you why?

[Opinion Owner]

Cheating shows a few things about a person, first and foremost is that they're dishonest. Second is that they are concerned with their own pleasure over other people's feelings. Not being happy in a relationship is still a sh*tty reason to cheat, and it's still the cheater's fault. F***ing someone you just met shows a lack of self control and poor judgment. Afterall, how do you really know someone in one day? Shows she's easy and will sleep with about any guy if he has enough game.

[Opinion Owner]

More than 4 is higher than the average, but more importantly it shows she is the type that has casual sex. Women that have casual sex are usually pretty easy.

[DonMichelle]

Casual sex more than once Been with over 4 men... You haven't lived have you?

[toulouse]

lo been with 4 men? you can do that in one year & be in committed relationships with all of them, gimme a break Guy.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah I'm kind of a d***, but it says something far more sinister about a personality to have been in that many failed 'committed' relationships. Usually poor judgment. It's a big ivory tower up n'here

[Anonymous]

Don't blame yourself for your breakup with your ex. Just don't tell them next time when was the last time you had sex.