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Guys, difference in hand vs vagina vs mouth?

which one is better to you and why? what's the difference in the feeling on your d**k? what are the advantages of each one?
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  • Good - handjob

    This fits easily into Quikies lack of time or even foreplay when absent from sex in awhile and we don't want to be rushed by male hormones seeking immediate satisfaction later. Good positions are bending over sink looking into mirror, she's behind with full access; he's on all 4s; she's on top of him.

    Better - mouth

    Actually, this is mouth assisted with hands on shaft & balls. Improved sensations, various techniques & positions, even 69 horizontal & vertical. Advanced users might try prostate massage or just a little anal if he's taking too long. Works great for a 2nd cumming.

    Best - vagina

    Just Google sex positions fro all the various sensations this offers. Not every women has a perfect match, texture & thrill but those that do make this #1, so I want it to last. Things will never get dull if she is active and in pursuit of her own orgasm. Most gals do not a reverse vagina, so (if they clean their ass well) the sensations for both are popular (survey says). Since my lover has a reverse & heavy hangers, I prefer cowgirl - playing with her jugs while she actively moves toward a controlled orgasm.

    Rare - anal

    Cleanliness & lube are key. This is employed best when he just won't or can't come anymore but the desire is still whipping him for one more. Not so intimate as it is tight and "dirty", even close to imaginary "forced/reluctant sex" ideas, roleplay.

    best answer? ;)

    • pretty good but I was looking for more the difference in the feeling for the you guys and to explain why not so much sexual techniques or how it feels for the woman but you did OK ;)

    • I'd like to read how a guy describes it myself, to copycat it in answer to the next question. They are to me indescribable, unlike food, etc. Whereas a massage can be felt locally, sex also goes to the brain like on of those carnival "ring the bell" hammer games.

  • The hand seems like the most impersonal of the three, I suppose like a "warm up" before the main event. It can feel good and exciting to have a woman using her hand on you, but to be honest she probably isn't as good as the guy is with his own hand because he's had so much more practice. Not knocking anything, but I don't think most guys are craving hand jobs once they get older and are used to having sex/blow jobs.

    The mouth is perhaps the most exciting because it's the most like a show that you get to watch. Depending on the technique/skill of the woman the mouth can be anywhere from good to insanely great. What makes it even better is if it's not involved in every sexual encounter (although it seems silly for a guy to be saying that).

    The vagina, in my opinion, is the best of the three. It feels the best and you have the most interaction/closest experience when using it.

    • So I've been blowing the guy I'm seeing for a bit pretty much every time before we have sex. Do you think it would be better not to ("What makes it even better is if it's not involved in every sexual encounter")?

    • yeah I think the intimacy with the hand would be when you're younger that would be very exciting for a guy I'm sure and it would wane after you've had the others.

    • @catcall: It really depends on your guy. I had a partner that gave me a blow job every time before we had sex and I found that I stopped finding it as exciting. Don't get me wrong, it was still great and I enjoyed it, but it had lost a little of the luster because it was to the point where I knew it was going to always happen.

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  • Well with the hand you get to control how much and fast you want it to feel like. The Vagina it is soft and moist and you are with some one that you care about or love. the mouth well its to me just a way of getting off and then doing more to the vagina. the feelings that you are asking for are about the same it all depends on what the guy is wanting at that time.

  • Hand is lots of friction and pressure, which feels amazing.

    Vagina is slick (once you get going and depending on the girl) and intimate.

    Mouth is slicker and you get the friction/pressure closer to her hand, which feels best.

  • First of all why is 'vs arse' not a part of the question? ;) ?

    Hand (bronze medal) - Advantages... your 'solo' so your in full control (decide the pace, what your watching) can be done if your tired (can't be bothered 'visiting' someone, I've turned down sex when I just can't be bothered going out/having someone round) and at your convieniance but that's about it! Disadvantages... your 'solo' :), not anywhere near as satisfying mentally as your d***'s in your hand not a woman, it's dry, it isn't particulary nice washing come of your hand!

    I'm unable to call on Vagina and Mouth as you has asked for the the difference in feeling (in which case a good mouth would win) but then asked for the advantages of each one (in which case the winner would be vagina... your having sex) The overall advantages with vagina would overule the overall advantage of the mouth? (do you follow me?) Also when you say mouth you've got to remember that unless she's a master of deepthroat, lets you f*** her throat (that feeling cannot be compared to anything else, ultimate winner) she's going to be using her hands aswell!.. mouth involves hand

    • you're more than welcome to comment on the vs ass if you wish I'm sure some women would be interested in knowing the answer to that :)

    • Well arse would beat the 3! Tighter, more friction, more 'naughty' than intimate (there's never an intimate feeling when your knocking a woman's arse :) hahaha) and you can't beat the 'low pitched moans' from anal, that's the most arousing part ;) hahaha

  • Straight up...

    Handjobs suck unless your girl's 16 and that's about the only thing she'll do.

  • Vagina! A womens vagina is made to make a guy orgasm, it contreacts automatically on the co** and...it feels the best

  • All I can say is the hand is very underrated -- but the girl must be into it and jack hard.

  • Excluding visual and psychological factors and basing the comparision of the attributes of each on physical sensation alone, I would rank them this way:

    1) Mouth:

    -Because of the sheer range of sensations available - Impenetrably tight to loose and sloppy.

    Hard suction or none and everything between. Tongue ( could fill a book). Teeth - or not.

    Deep, shallow, hard thrusting or lay back and let her take control.

    2. Ass

    - Tight, warm and if you go deep, you don't punch her in the cervix and bring things to a

    Standstill.

    3. Vagina

    -Warm, soft, slippery. Snug (at least to start out with), tasty and fun! Yum!

    4. Hand

    - Whose? Mine or hers? Mine? I know what to do with it, but YAWN!

    Hers? Not likely to get her mojo in synch with mine.

    • I always figured hang jobs were kinda frustrating for guys...since they can do it better and we aren't mind readers LOL I think that's more of a thing that teenage boys would appreciate when they aren't getting sex yet because it's better than nothing and a girl is touching their penis...would I be right?

    • Spot on.

  • All depends on the guy. I don't care for bjs but I love a soft female hand. Vagina is best of course.

  • Back pussy.

  • Hands<Vagina<mouth

    Hands is like jerking of , only its her who do the job

    Vagina , a lot of effort but still feels goooddd

    Mouth , it doesn't happen every day ! and its so warm and Wet, LOL !

  • The vagina is by far the best feeling for the penis, followed by the mouth, then the hand, the advantage of vagina is the woman gets pleasure to

  • Well like the last answer to me the hand is good but again as a guy we have a bit more practice with it, on the other hand I think the mouth is the best because of the "feeling" but this all depends on the technique does the girl use a bit of toung or does she just tries to get it over with now the vagina, it is the most personal you get a better feeling because your so close.

  • Vaginal Sex < Blowjob (no hands) < Blowjob with hands

    Being sucked while simultaneously stroked is without doubt the most intense feeling.

  • If a girl is really talented with oral, it's hard to top that. Has the same moistness and sensitivity of a vagina, but she's able to use her tongue and lips to really create an incredible experience. Tonguing the frenulum. . . MMMMMMMM!

  • Stoma?

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