Using a condom makes me limp

all my previous girlfriends were on the pill, so I just rawdogged it, feels great and I'm able to stay rock hard. but since I've been in college, I don't know if random girls are on it, or if they have stds etc. whenever I attempt to put one on, I go limp almost immediately. sometimes I can stay semi hard, and then I can feel basically nothing. its brutal. im not sure if its a mental thing or not, because when I don't use one I f*** like a champ and have no problems being really hard, but there's something about using a condom that makes me limp. my penis is bigger than normal, but not huge so condoms also don't really fit. normal is too small and magnums are too big. any guys have similar experience?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Would you like to have a chat with my husband LOL! Ah, man I'm not a guy but I've heard the same thing from ex boyfriends, best male friends, my husband, my male cousins, my co-workers...you name it. There are definitely condom sizes but if you don't like the sensation I don't think it will do you any good. Its definitely a sensation things PLUS a mental thing. But you need to keep safe right? Don't risk your life over pleasure cause you don't know the sexual history of these women you have sex with and women could lie! Even if they tell you "hey I'm clean, I'm on the pill" how do you know? I'm just mentioning this as a girl, because you sound really fed up and you might just think "what the hell, Ill just take the risk and go ahead and do it anyway"...you don't want ending up a dad right? Or worse. Id suggest you try out the new condoms by a brand very well known starting with a D. and ending in X (I think you know). Golden pack...my husband told me they are the best he's tried so far (we don't want kids and I can't be on the pill for medical reasons so we're stuck with condoms for now). Hope it works out for you. Really, really do!

  • You'll just have to get used to using a condom, you regret it if you get an std or get a girl pregnant. I'm sure birth control and all that prevent these things from happening but they are not guaranteed. And you never know, maybe one day some slut may lie about being on the pill or having sti's just to get in your pants.

    Its better to be safe then sorry.

    Practice safe and great sex.

Most Helpful Guys

  • It's a skill, and that means practice.

    Gain the habit of masturbating with a condom on. Not only will it get you adjusted to the sensation, but you can also figure out what works for you. A tip: you'll want to lube the condom inside and out. Just don't overlubricate the inside, you want it to keep its grip.

  • Practice on your own, until you can put it on quickly and maintain an erection.

    Get a thin one so you can still feel stuff. There are other sizes than normal and magnum.

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  • try the durex pleasuremax, elites, or ultimas. they are good if you are above average but magnums are too loose.

  • Bagging it sucks.

  • Get a larger size. You're cutting off your circulation. An erection is pure blood. No blood, no erection.

  • Dude right there with you

  • Dude same problem. They have a different size for being wide you gota look it up. the regs are too thin on me too. and honestly I've never got off with a condom I just f*** for a bit with them and have the chick suck me off or tit f*** her.

    Its college you have to wear condoms you don't know where these chicks have been. I would say find a girl that you know is clean keep her for a friends with benifits thing and master the pull out method.

    pz