My roommate wants to do me, should I let her, is it risky?

[Anonymous]

Me and my roommate are exactly opposites. I am white, thin and sexy as they tell me, with long hair and blue eyes. She is black and overweight, with very short hair like a guy. I am extrovert and outgoing with many friends and admirers and she's introvert, doesn't have many friends and she's a virgin though she's several years older than me. Why do we share the same room? By chance. I didn't even speak to her for a long time. Until she admitted she was in love with me. I was shocked and told her she was crazy. Then one night I came home very late, went to bed, I usually sleep topless with a string only, and fell asleep. Suddenly in the middle of the night I woke up and felt smb caressing me and kissing me, I was shocked to find my roommate was in my bed, completely naked. I was about to shout but she put her hand on my mouth and told me she had been waiting for me the whole night, that she can no longer suppress her passion for me. I told her to turn the lights on and the view was not very pleasant- she was so fat and ugly but I must admit her touch was very pleasant, as if she knew how to touch me. Then she climbed on top of me and began kissing my boobs, it was so strange. I don't know how I let her do this. The next day she gave me a present- a golden necklace and told me she wants to explore me further, meaning she wants to f*** me doggy with a strap on. And this is my question, do I let her or no. I'm quite confused about it. On one hand I wanna let her cause I am curious how it feels and also I pity her cause she's so lonely and hungry for love. On the other hand I am afraid of this, is it risky. And I'm not sure about what I feel. Why does she want this from me, is it physical attraction as she tells me or smth else.

[lovelylife]

If you want to explore out of curiosity, that's okay. The problem is that you are not at all attracted to her. It's tricky because she has already invaded you, and your personal space. She may think that it will always be okay for her to do this. You on the other hand just wants to know how it feels, as in just an experience.

If you decide to go along with it, you have to be totally upfront with her. If you don't she may get the impression that its okay for her to do this all the time. Lets say you do go along with it then feel repulse by her, or your just NOT interested. How do you think she will handle that?

Can you continue to be roommates?

I don't know how well you know her or if you can even trust her.

If it was a guy that did this to you and you didn't want it, it would have been a lot worse, he also may have gotten in serious trouble for it. No one should ever force themselves on someone, because its a girl doesn't make it okay.

I think this can be very risky. Good luck

[Miss2Fabulous]

What the HELL is going on in the world today, girl RUN that crazy bitch is comin' after you! Am I the ONLY one who's watched "Roommate"? come on GOOOOOOOOO! I'm sorry but your dumb if you stay anywhere near Madame creepzalot! If you enjoyed her touching you its probably due to the fact that she's a GIRL...girls KNOW how they want to be touched and handled, she's probably had a lot of practice with herself or her other victims. ANd if your confused its probably due to that your at a point in life where exploring is all you can do (its apart of growing up & being young), take on new experiences but that girl is WEIRD so if you want to explore new things whether their freaky or not, sure explore them but with people who won't try to rape or possibly kill you!

[Rubzie]

eeeww... yu just let her? man if it was me iwud have batter the sh*t out of her. Atleast knoo where you stand. Just let her walk all over yu. But, if you enjoy it then let her. If you don't but want to experienment then do it with a different GIRL! not her, she sounds werid!

[TrailOfTears]

I get the feeling she kinda wants to "experiment" but that would really not be the time or the person to do it with. To many strings attached. She should be looking for a one night stand or something at a gay bar.

[Asker]

Hey I'm a straight girl. I never think of women. But I accept her more as a guy than a girl. She looks this way. and that's starnge

[Rubzie]

yeh but she's still a girl. its either you want to or you don't. so you need to think abwt if yu think she justs wants you 4 one night... &+ if yu wnt 2 aswell.

[WaleedHassanien]

yup

[TrailOfTears]

To be honest... she is VERY creepy I think. Not only does she own a strapon (!?) but she molest you in the middle of the night like a pervert. I would not try to get involved with her if possible. Sure good things might come out of it but its not very certain. What is certain is that it will create complications.

Also having sex because you pity someone... Not the best logic in my opinion. I think she would be better off trying to find a girl who likes her for real instead of trying to court someone who is not interested.

[islands7]

I'm sure she's done this to others and you are the latest roommate that has not yet bolted out to find another room/mate. Those feelings & adventures you would like to explore can be had with a snap of your fingers from most anyone you choose. I assume you are over 18 and would want a man older, wiser, experienced to show you these pleasures.

[WaleedHassanien]

please Dont!she has no respect for u, I am a guy and if I liked a girl I never just put my hands on her...

[Mahtaazh]

I say NO! she's mentally sick and lacks love

She might get dangerous for you in the future

I say ignore her and change your room

[Asker]

do you she can harm me in any way, I'm thnking about that, then may be I should change room immediately

[Mahtaazh]

I think It's for the best. she's totally a sick person, It'sthe best to stay away from her

[WaleedHassanien]

please listen to Mahtaazh adivece

[prettymuscle]

wow, it seems like when she was touching you and all , you like it but your afarid to have sex with her, its either you wanna have sex or you don't and I know you want to, your body is telling you to and your head is saying no, plus if she was a better looking black girl as in thin and with real long hair down to her back, you would have had sex with her and I can promise you that

[Brandan_Cromartie]

Do it. Get a restraining order after. Win/Win

[diamond3]

Wow! Girl I say let her do it! You liked her touch so y noe explore? Trying new stuff is a good thing. I would of been better if you were atracted to her tho.

[sylar]

Ever seen Single White Female? or that crappy knock-off they just made where it's the same thing but only in college? If you haven't, watch them. Then beat your roommate down.

[thoronmegil]

Don't feed the troll, kids.

[Relax17]

Bhahahahahahaha that's awesome! I agree!

[jacquesvol]

She's crossing the usual limits.

Point is : are you interested in it, did you enjoy it? Having sex with her because you like it or because you want to try it out is ok.

Having sex because you pity her is a bad idea.

[kyleharris]

if you don't get ouT of there she will rape you GOGOGOGOGOGOG!

[Alpha93]

Id get out of there.

[Stahl]

oh my god. this is so gross! no. this person sounds horribly weird! change your room NOW! what if people find out about this. would you be embarassed?

[Anonymous]

What happened with this? Did you end up doing her? How did you find her as a roommate?

[Anonymous]

Haha

hilarious!

Please...give us a break...

[Anonymous]

troll

[Anonymous]

um sounds like rape to me even if you did enjoy some of it ..explore with some one else not with some random girl who threw herself on you and covered YOUR MOUTH how could you even consider going any further with that

[Anonymous]

What she did was WRONG! I know your just experimenting and are curious but she is not.

Sounds like trouble to me. I say if you want to try, then do it with someone else.

Sounds like she's not wrapped to tight, so you may just want to be careful with her.

What she did was not cool.