Why Is He ALWAYS Hard? This Guy Never Takes a Break!

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend is ALWAYS hard, even after we have crazy sex multiple times. When I finally think that he's had enough, I simply go to cuddle with him, and he gets hard again! It is so funny, but yet so frustrating all at the same time. I get very sensitive down there if we do it too much, and then I have to refuse him for a few days till it doesn't hurt anymore. He says he used to have a hard time getting it up in past relationships, but it is very hard for me to believe. Do you think he's lying? And why is he always hard when he's with me!

[RipperMetal]

if you do tht it will honestly make things worse... It'll make him imagine y' know... us guys are confusing and as complex as girls are... We are portrayed like these bug meaty head pigs but not all guys are like tht... for example, there are lots of slutty girl nd stuff out there and there are lots of girls out there tht save their virginity til marriage y' know... just talk thing out. In a relationship you need to work things out and talk to each other and have fun... the more you do it he better you'll feel and less painful... unless you stay up til like 3 in the moring doing it Lolz... it'll hurt for both of you, I know O.O... Lolz, wear a condom

[Phoenix52]

Always hard because he's so attracted to you.

He used to have a hard time getting it up in past relationships = the girls he was with were not as attractive as you.

His hormones are raging out of control. And the more times you have sex, the more horny he may be. That testosterone needs to be refilled at a quick rate, and in the process of the testicles going to work in making more, he gets easily erect.

Gotta slow it down and get sex out of his mind. Once a week is OK. Any more than that is too frequent, according to doctors.

[toulouse]

really ? why? but people f*** multiple times a day.. and is that true -making testosterone make you hard?

[toulouse]

so are you saying you can't just cuddle with him without him wanting sex?

[Asker]

He's great for cuddling for a little bit and as long as I'm massaging his scalp of tickling his arm or face he'll keep cuddling till. But basically yes, he always ends up wanting it when we cuddle, and he always gets hard.

[toulouse]

so how little bit do you mean? minutes? thanks btw:)

[RipperMetal]

Maybe he just thinks you're hot y'know and really enjoys doing it with you... but I understand what you are saying, my gfs like tht but she keeps going because she likes the feeling even if there's pain... just gotta get used to it.. probably also just teenage hormones raging... I'm like tht lol... just understand and hell feel better or talk to him and try not confusing him

[toulouse]

was it hard for you to just be close physically without it leading to sex?

[Asker]

I used to try and tough it out, but it was way to painful to the point were I seriously thought my part was going to fall off.

[toulouse]

wow really? so what did you do to solve that. and how kong can you hold out before its painful- I mean per time. like OK you're aroused.. how long how many minutes pr hours does it take beforr you gotta wank or f***?

[Asker]

I have to say no to him often, I don't do it every time he wants it now because its just way more than I can take because my tissues are sensitive. if it gets to the point were it hurts too much, I just resist my urges after and I have to be firm with him and say no.

[RipperMetal]

It's not hard for me to be close to her without feeling sexually but sometimes I have to admit tht I have my really bad days like if I'm holding her I just want to take her to a room and strip her bare but a girls vagina is usually very sensitve... Think of the pain as pleasure y' know. another thing could be tht your p**** could be too tight and his d*** could be big at the same time p,us the length of time you go at it (my girlfriend nd I for example Lolz) Just try to talk to him or go through with it

[1supernova]

try to connect as friends too so that isn't all you have together. plus you may be a very sexy girl too

[Asker]

I try having conversations with him but he has a very short attention span. We do other things than sex tho, when we first started dating I was waiting till marriage.

[Anonymous]

How long have you been together? In the early days the need for sex is pretty high.

[Asker]

We have been together for 16 months...

[Opinion Owner]

Wow! That's impressive! In that case, he just has a high sex drive and is clearly very attracted to you. You two are very lucky! I understand that you can't have endless sex without getting sore, but there are a couple things you can do. First, use lube--it'll cut down on friction and enable you to go longer. Next, use your mouth and hands to get him off too. Mix it up. Don't shy away from cuddling and closeness--just lend a hand. Haha!

[Asker]

I do mix it up. I suppose the lube could work tho. Thanks!.. I still wish he wouldn't be so much work tho lol... Like if he wasn't so hard all the time I wouldn't be needing to give him so many blow/hand jobs when I'm sore.

[Opinion Owner]

Hand jobs should be easy enough, no? And yeah, definitely use lube. When I haven't seen my girlfriend for awhile we pretty much expect well spend the first day together just having sex. The lube makes it possible! Haha! But yeah, a sexually giving partner is a freaking goldmine, so if you're excited about stroking and sucking him, that's awesome.

[Opinion Owner]

One other thing you can do if you get tired is tell him you want to watch him jack off. Maybe have him jack off on your or stroke him between your boobs (if you're busty). I went out with a girl who did that and I LOVED it! LOL!

[Asker]

Ahaha we do everything, the boob thing too.

[Opinion Owner]

Sounds like you've got the situation well in hand then (so to speak). What the most times in a day he's gotten off? It sounds like you're having no problems handling it given you're using several different techniques.

[Asker]

Well, everything except for anal...Just seems much too painful.

[Opinion Owner]

Fair enough. Still sounds pretty sweet!

[Asker]

Sorry one more question. If I already produce lots of lube naturally, why does it still hurt easily?

[Opinion Owner]

How long are you having sex? How hard are you two thrusting and how big is he? All of those things will contribute to soreness.

[Opinion Owner]

Hey! How are things going? You still having crazy sex with this guy?