No matter what people say, stay a virgin. I've been close to losing it but people rarely find virgins anymore. But that may not be true, there are a lot of virgins out there more than it seems. Unless your environment is full of people that give their virginity right away. Many people regret it so I'm glad you're making that smart decision to save it, until the time comes. Because it's a special thing and sometimes it is even better if you save it for marriage, yet I know not everyone takes that road. It's a great thing that you are waiting for the right girl. It's not something to carelessly give away and as you will see people will have a range of opinions. From are you crazy? to good job and keep it up bro!
It is better for you to focus on yourself and become who you want to be so that you know one day you will meet that right girl and you will be confident in who you are and she will accept you as you are. That's why sex is really more important than what others describe it: simply just an action, like walking the dog... but no, it takes away the excitement and thrill that it's meant to be. That's why it's exclusive and you shouldn't spread yourself so thinly.
I'm glad that you have a lot of respect for yourself to believe that sex is an intimate connection and not just an action. Your whole person and soul is defined by the decisions you make and the person you shape yourself to be. Think of it this way; if you had a piece of tape you've never used then it's good to stick right? same as the chemistry you will have with you future partner. But if you keep using that tape to stick to any surface (many sexual partners) then you will lose the purpose of the tape and before you know it, no more magic and less excitement. That's why people are always pushing the boundaries to have sex because they need the next high and higher expectations. They've lost the magic and we're really lucky that we're going to save it and although it will be tempting.. never forget that voice in the back of your mind.. it's always stronger when you let it guide you.
19 years is very young, don't expect that it's a bad thing, you need to surround yourself with friends that are not doing it all the time.. that's probably why you feel like you're long overdue. Keep listening to your instincts and when the right time comes, make sure you won't regret it. Keep it as exclusive as possible. Hope that helps
For me, virgin does not mean something bad. Yeah you've never done it but so what? The only thing that turns me off is the emotional attachment people have with their first. I took a guy's virginity only once and he is quite attached. He will always compare everyone else to me. Also, he follows me. Followed me all across the world actually.
Anyways, it's no biggie if you're emotionally mature :)
That's creepy...
a girls who likes/loves you wouldn`t have a problem with it..she will accept it.
and the one who has a problem is not worth keeping for. its that simple.
if I loved a guy I would accept him even if he was physically challenged.
believe in yourself..and stand for what YOU think is right.
btw your are a sensible man
Some will find it a turnoff. Look at the other question related to this. Some for some reason are unwilling to be a guy's first. I'm not sure why. I'm sure there are plenty that probably wouldn't care or would even find that trait attractive.
Man don't worry! Women who are also virgins will love you saving yourself for them, and those who aren't will be turned on by the idea of teaching you the art of lovin ;-) GOOD LUCK!
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I don't think that's unattractive. All the more fun to experiment!
Not a turn off. I like twists in guys. For example a guy who I think is mean would give money to a homeless person, it makes me feel a little surprised and pleased. If you're a guy with a nice body but a virgin, it's cute.
It's quiet cute,actually.I would love to have a virgin boy friend to show him some really good tricks! ;)
No no no, not at all.
Tell a girl you're a virgin because you're waiting for the right girl, and she'll like you even more.
Enough said. :)
I'm Totally fine with it. Especially since I am waiting for the right guy as well. If I minded I would be a total hypocrate. :)
Your only 19.
On the contrary, I want my future man to be a virgin. ^_^ So, don't worry about it.
ha ha nice man... its a tricky question...
No when I'm out of high school I'm planning to stay a virgin but I don't know about college but I'll be 19 then and if I find an attractive guy I get along with then its a sign(well if he's a virgin like me too)
nope. I prefer a virgin
Nowadays it's very uncommon to find guys like you. So for me, it's a big turn on.
I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 20 and we are both virgins:P
Not at all... Actually, I would like it more that way :) Don't stress.
Depends on how big your d*** is
rude
honest question because it does change the outcome
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