How To Turn A Guy On

[Anonymous]

I'm a virgin and I'm currently seeing a guy who isn't. I have absolutely no experience other than kissing. What are the best ways to turn a guy on?

[Anonymous]

Don't overthink it! I was so awkward when I first started having sex. I didn't know what to do or when i was supposed to do what. It was so nerve wracking. But once you stop fretting, it's easy. Like everybody else has said, anything can turn a guy on. My boyfriend gets turned on when I walk away, just because he watches my butt.

Some things that are definite turn ons:
Kissing (pretty much anywhere, but especially on the neck, shoulders and chest)
My bf has' curly hair, so putting my hands on the back of his head and massaging/tugging my fingers through his hair is a turn on.
As previously mentioned, BJ's. He's knocked senseless and the only thing he can say are explicit (in a good way) and 'Get on it' (meaning I want sex NOW!)
Teasing! But be careful not to do to much. Move in to kiss, but lean away so he basically has to follow you (it sounds complicated, but it's not!) It'll drive him crazy.
Running your finger tips or fingernails down his back/sides/chest VERY lightly is also a mega turn on.
Wear a low cut shirt, if you sit in his lap or have to bend over he'll be able to see nothing but cleavage.

[Jessaa]

i was just the same with my boyfriend! it may seem stupid, but I know where you are coming from.. like say giving a handjob the placement of your hand and how fast or slow to go, what to do with the other hand. and the same thing with a BJ. but I have learnt that when they are in the mood and so are you and that can occur from just a little bit of kissing they are very sensitive. so no matter what you do every touch, will be a turn on! Giving a bj job is very easy ( that may sound a little slutty) but as long as your mouth is on it and your moving up and down, you have it in the bag! :)

[Asker]

Ahh so nervous of screwing something up somehow :S But thank you so much!

[Anonymous]

anything can turn a guy on believe me xD that the most wonderful thing about guys we don't need to do the hard work at all :D

[shadypridy]

lucky for you, I'm an expert when it comes to virgins, you need to ask your self are you ready to have sex, and is he the right person, how do you feel about blow jobs, sex for the first time hurts the girl the moment you put it in she screams get it out, and the blood doesn't help, but then she enjoys it, look turning a guy on isn't trouble, you have to worry about him being nervous

[Asker]

What about foreplay? What do guys like in that case?

[shadypridy]

what ever pleases the girl, foreplay can make sex soooooooo great, boys like a fiesty girl that doesn't get offended when grabs her a**, or plays with her b**bs or pu**y, and guy's love blowjobs it's something girls even virgins can't get it wrong

[Johnbe]

In all honesty, kissing a new partner was always enough to turn me on :) Don't worry about turning him on - worry about stopping him from getting TOO turned on!

[Asker]

Oh these answers are making me laugh :P thank you so much!

[squareman]

it's called nudity

[Brandan_Cromartie]

The "best way"? Oh lord.

Just whispering "Let's have hot booty sex" will do it. Or whatever you want really, you can whisper "Monkey TaiFu makes me want to undress." and he's with it.

I'm serious.

[Asker]

I don't know... I think I'm really unsure. At first I thought he wasn't attracted to me and it took him a looooong time to prove to me that he was. But I'm scared of doing something wrong and him being completely turned off :(

[Brandan_Cromartie]

I'll say it this way: If you don't know him well enough to know this and you're too afraid to ask him you probably shouldn't bother.

[Asker]

All right, thank you~

[Johnbe]

Here's a guaranteed way to turn him on... Take your top off. Job done. And I say that with confidence, having absolutely no idea what body shape you have. As long as it is biologically lady-type, it'll drive him to (or maybe beyond) distraction.

[Brandan_Cromartie]

Actually undressing can create SEVERE awkwardness, it's not a turn-on so much as it is a shock.

[Asker]

He's gotten under my shirt before but I don't know how it's so easy for him to... for lack of a better expression, turn himself off? I mean, we were in the passenger seat of his car (he put my seat back and was on top of me) but as soon as my phone started ringing, he stopped, jumped to the front seat, said, "Now I feel all hot." But like nothing happened at all he drove me back home and kissed me goodbye. :S

[Asker]

I didn't talk to him for a few days after that because I didn't want to seem needy or clingy or desperate or anything like that but finally he texted me asking me where I've been and asking, "Was it so bad?"

[Brandan_Cromartie]

It sounds like he'll do the job FOR you. Stop worrying.

[Asker]

All right, thanks again. (:

[faraday]

Guy's unlike girls, are like a vacuum cleaner with a switch every where on our body. Literally anything you do turns us on. Sit on our lap --> Turned on. Say something sexy --> Turned on.

[Asker]

Hahaha! Thank you :P

[nberk]

You will know when the time is right, don't force it, if he is THE guy he won't force it either, take your time!

[Asker]

He doesn't... but I'm not too worried about the sex part (as silly as that may sound) its the foreplay I'm not sure how to handle!

[ItalianBro]

Foreplay is what guys do to girls... guys get little enjoyment out of foreplay... we could honestly just receive the p**** and be happy... while girls get off on the intimate, closeness, and playful style of foreplay. When the time comes, he will lead you in the right direction, stop worrying.

[Asker]

All right, thanks. (:

[Anonymous]

Flick his Frenulum