Want to watch him masturbate

i've been dating this guy for about 3 months. we have really great sex but I really want to watch him masturbate. will he think this is weird? and how would I got about asking him this without being really blunt and unsexy?

 

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  • the way I did it is, when you're giving him oral sex, either guide his hand down there or say something like "show me the best way to put my hands" and he'll probably start masturbating to show you the best way to do it. it helps a lot if, while he's doing it, you lick the head or play with his balls in your hands or mouth, it makes him feel more like it's oral sex and less like it's him masturbatinghope this helps!

What Guys Said 9

  • I must agree with most of the guys here, ask but after you have started to turn him on. Like while cuddling, just start rubbin him, then as you get a little further, take some of his items of clothing off. Then some of yours and continue to play with him a bit. He may feel the same as you, sorta weird about doing it for you so my suggestion, once your both naked and your teasing him, just rubbing an stuff, in a sexy voice whisper "can I watch you come" and then just lay back in front of him and stair at him as you start to please yourself a bit, he will not be able to resist. You can't ask him to do something that you can't do yourself in my opinion.

  • Keep your clothes ON. Put the KY on the bed. Tell him to close his eyes and get busy. You keep quiet.

  • I was asked; she just came out and asked "Can I see you masturbate?" The asking part was fine, it seems like natural curiosity (but that may depend on personalities, etc.). It was harder to comply though, it seemed really unnatural to masturbate in front of someone. I asked her to at least kiss me; that really helped to have *some* interaction (even if she stopped often to watch).tmi?

    • The asking thing shouldn't be any problem. As for the execution: try a little foreplay like kissing or helping him a little. Maybe a little help will get him started?

    • Not tmi at all :) i understand about feeling weird about masturbating in front of someone, I don't know that I would be able to do it, that's why it seems weird that I would want to watch him because I don't know that I would want to masturbate in front of him if he asked me I'd feel self conscious and weird.

  • Some guys think it's weird, while others have no problem with it. I would kind of be uncomfortable with someone watching me masturbate.it would just be odd. I think it's because masturbation is really the only thin we do in private, because you don't need to do it when you lover is with you because well.that's just understood.But, who knows, ask him. Just BE blunt. Don't beat around the bush.

  • When you are with him and he is all horny and ready to go, tell him you want to watch him please himself so you know better what he likes. You can also return the favor by masturbating for him as well.

  • sounds like fun to me :)

  • He might, but I would just ask him. Chances are he will be turned on my you letting him know that you are turned on by the thought of him self-pleasuring himself in front of you. He might not be interested since we often get messages from society that masturbation is wrong. It isn't, but doesn't mean he still won't feel that way.

  • When it's getting hot, sexily whisper what you want him do. Or you could take his hand, and bring it over, and move it up and down on him and then remove your hand and say "I wanna watch". Just sort of have it flow from everything else yer doing in the heat of the moment. And then if he's not into it, that's totally fine. Personally . . . I'd LOVE it!

  • I don't think there's any way to ask him without it being blunt, however, it doesn't have to be unsexy. I'm sure if you just came out with it and asked the mood would end up in a sexy atmosphere anyways. If you're both really comfortable with each other, especially sexually, I don't think he'll mind.

What Girls Said 1

  • well if you have never jacked him off then do that and you can watch yourself.and he might perfer to do it himself so you could start to and he would finnish.i love watchin my guy masturbate it turns me on and gets me all excited.i hope they don't think its weird.its all a big tease to me

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