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Do guys not like it when girls moan?

Me and my boyfriend were having sex last night and it was good so I started moaning. No fake moans at all, they were all real and they weren't anything loud or dramatic. Just "mmm" and gasping for air, he started making a joke out of my moans by moaning them even louder, laughing and then he put his hand over my mouth. No one was home and he doesn't have neighbours so it wasn't like he needed me to be quiet (I wasn't being loud anyway). I asked if he wanted me to stop moaning and he said I could if I wanted to, I tried to stop moaning but because it felt so good I started moaning again. Then he said I could moan as loud as I wanted. This really confused me. He was moaning too during sex and when I was giving him a blow job. what's going on?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Undoubtably, 100% he thinks you're 'complimenting' him and him trying to stop you is him saying 'stop it', damaging to his pride. He'd rather you moan because he's making you moan, not because you're doing it to boost his ego. The guy obviously doubts his talents, better than being overconfident in some ways. I think you should be clever and stay quiet... you're in for some 'decent sh*t' ;) if he thinks he isn't doing as well as he should, starts to put his heart and soul into making you moan!?!?! Hahahaha

    As for moaning itself I'm not a fan unless they're low pitched 'anal moans/groans', f***ing arousing is the term used to describe them. The noise the girl makes is the same as noise going through your head, glorious!

  • Usually moaning is a great turn on, maybe he is not used to the sound of it

    He's shy and doesn't like it being too noisy (even if there is no one around)

    • Well he was a virgin until we had sex two weeks ago so maybe that could be it?

Most Helpful Girls

  • i think he enjoyed your moaning, my boyfriend pisses himself laughing that I moan on practically every thrust - but that's because he hits something inside me that expels the breath which makes me moan!

    "he said I could if I wanted to, I tried to stop moaning but because it felt so good I started moaning again. Then he said I could moan as loud as I wanted"

    - reckon he likes it, in effect he's causing it.

  • well it sounds like he was either bothered or he wanted to be aggressive during sex.you know in complete control.anyways if you didn't like how it made you feel next time you are giving him a blow job and he starts moaning reach up and put your hand on his mouth and see how he reacts.

  • Couldn't possibly think that a guy wouldn't enjoy true moans coming from the girl he is presently sticking with his penis. Pretty good indication that he is doing a great job.

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  • Moaning is sexy to an extent... Anything extremely loud or annoying is not fun and actually is a turn off.

  • What's going on? Your boyfriend is an idiot, that's what's going on, sorry to say. Anyone who makes fun of a girl moaning during sex has serious mental health issues and needs immediate care.

    • i didn't read it that way. it sounded more like he was surprised he was causing it then quite liked the idea as he told her to carry on. DonMichelle got it right "...obviously doubts his talents..." that's really sweet, surely.

  • next time you are giving him a blowjob and he starts moaning reach up and put your hand over his mouth and see how he reacts or just simply ask him why he did that.

  • He's too playful for you. Way too fun. You need a stonefaced man.

    • So do you think he was just kidding and being playful? I just wanted to be sure.

    • The only thing that makes me sad is you're asking a complete stranger about your man, when your man has the actual answer, and I never professed to be psychic.

  • I love it when a girl moans, espcially if she is moaning my name :)

  • I have never heard any man that said no to that lol. One of the woman I was with was louder than normal, and I thought she was just " faking it", but she told me she wasn't and that she was very vocal.. IT"S A HUGE TURN ON

  • moaning is fire, he probably thought you were faking it originally until you started again

  • I love to moan

  • I love when girls moan

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