Girlfriend raped me, I feel so powerless, Should I dump her?

[Anonymous]

when I got home from work she hugged me and kissed me, but I just pushed her away cause I was too exhausted. she got angry and told me she was very horny and wanted to f***. I told her to cook something, maybe then I'd be less tired/in the mood. after dinner I went to bed. she was mad at me and told me I was a coward/not a man/wimp and so on. she kept insulting/provoking me but I couldn't care less. once she calmed down, I felt asleep quickly. unfortunately she woke me up shortly afterward. I was handcuffed to the bed and she started sucking my cock. once my d*** was hard she put a **** ring on it (to prevent it from going limp). she then raped me. I felt totally helpless and weak. it was horrible. after she was done f***ing me, she released me and quickly left the house because I was in a rage. I don't know what to do right now. a few minutes ago she called me and told me she'll sleep at a friend's house tonight. she begged me to forgive her. I am still pissed at her and I don't know what to do. nobody will believe me if I tell them what happened. I still love her but I think I should break up with her. opinions?

[Anonymous]

1. Where did the handcuffs come from?

2. Where did the d*** ring come from?

3. Most guys would let a girl get off like this if she was really horny.

4. Did you say no during it?

5. Did you secretly enjoy her over powering you but you don't want to admit it to yourself?

I'm wondering if you see the little slips in your story here. Unless she was planning on raping you (which I doubt), then those things wouldn't be just sitting around your house. If they were her doing this wouldn't be that weird would it?

So I'm pretty sure I can say this is all bullsh*t :)

[38rakia38]

Holy sh*t, and I thought I was crazy...

but damn, but that takes the freakin cake.

I guess they aren't bull sh*tting on soap operas when they rape guys...

Um, call the police. That seems fairly obvious.

Maybe find your next girlfriend somewhere other than at the nut house...

Unless you're trollin...

in which case...successful troll is successful

[flipflopsnsnow]

That is so horrible... I don't even know what to tell you except I'm so sorry and feel better! ): DUMP HER, and call someone. Like a counsoler. or police.

[Ferruccio77]

Haha haha I was doing a search to see if a question I'm about to ask have been asked before. Came across this and this is freaking hilarious. Lol

[kriskiss]

Can I have her phone number if you guys break up?

[peace-love-couture]

Break up with her and report her to the police?

Although if you've already showered and rinsed away evidence AND you didn't say "Stop" or "I don't want sex" chances are you have no case.

[Brandan_Cromartie]

Most rapes, male and female, do not have situations in which a person says "Stop" or "No" otherwise drug-related rapes would not be legally persecuted. Further restraint was used so your knowledge of law is terrible.

[peace-love-couture]

If there's no proof that you did not consent, they won't give a damn. I'm sure you're mister know it all and falling for this troll questions, but it is what it is.

[Brandan_Cromartie]

You don't know rape law. Hush.

[peace-love-couture]

And clearly you don't either. So shut the f*** up?

[Brandan_Cromartie]

How do you think what you just said ( Burden of Proof is on the Victim ) makes sense? Because it doesn't. You're retarded.

[peace-love-couture]

You're calling me that word when you actually believed this troll post? Pot calling the kettle black huh? And if he did not fight back or attempt to, with words or physically, then YES, his case will get thrown out. There are millions of women who get screwed over because of this. Because somehow rape is justified if you didn't say "stop" or "no" or make it known verbally that you did not give consent.

[Shaun]

obvious troll brandan

[Brandan_Cromartie]

Do I really believe this? No. Does that matter when people are spreading misinformation? No. Does that matter when I address the scenario as it were real? No. The odds that people are coming on here and admitting anything this serious are low, doesn't mean it never happens, but people exaggerate here. I treat you all equally.

[Brandan_Cromartie]

As to "fighting back or attempting to resist" again what happens to drug-rapes? They can't fight back OR resist? What happens to incestuous relationships where the abused is basically told it's "okay" and convinced to obey. Or abusive relationships where rape is common because of inability due to psychological trauma? You never answered the "Burden of Proof" question either which means you don't know the Victimology of the situation since a lot of rape victims feel it was there fault too.

[Brandan_Cromartie]

To break it down in a sentence: In court you prove consent, not lack thereof.

[peace-love-couture]

Clearly you're a f***tard who can't use common sense. It clearly doesn't apply to such situations Einstein. I don't know why you think you know any more than anyone else on here. Clearly you've never been close to someone who was raped and had their case thrown out because of that. Until you have, you can shut the f*** up on what you think you know and what you think applies to every single court case. By the way, using "Victomology" burden of proof doesn't make you seem any more knowledgeable

[peace-love-couture]

Again, until you've known someone who that's happened to, you can shut the f*** up on what you think you know because you don't know sh*t

[Brandan_Cromartie]

So essentially it doesn't apply to over 70% of rape cases. Do you want to stick your foot in your mouth further?

[Brandan_Cromartie]

And to make it worse this is both an Appeal to Emotion and ad Hominem. I study Law, Logic, and Ethics. I'm honestly not going to be swayed by empty arguments.

[peace-love-couture]

Neither what you've said nor what I have said apply. So could you take the foot outta your ass and stop trynna play lawyer? You're simply looking to argue with my for no damn reason. Boohoo

[dontknowwhattodo2]

i don't know..people seldom take raped guy's story seriously...as can be seen in the comments below...so if what you say is true then I say just let it go. she was just a girl man! just ignore it...unless you have substantial proof of rape.

[GrandpaSimpson]

this sounds like a troll! what guy wouldn't want this? you made this story up, shame on you, also, if you don't want your girlfriend to rape you anymore, SEND HER MY WAY WHOO HAAA

[MachineMan]

Hahahahaha hilarious sounds like that scene from wedding crashers! Ye bro don't bother going to the police, no one will take you seriously hahahahahaha.

[MyNameIsJonas]

Really?

[tyt_2012]

LOL!

[slipslender]

call the police. she's a f***ing tool.

[SocietysBomb]

i was just about to post a question about female rape!

[Brandan_Cromartie]

Police. Don't shower. Don't treat any incurred wounds. Show any texts that act as evidence. If you can, get her to confess via text.

It's a serious issue.

[Shaun]

Sorry Brandan, but I disagree. The burden of proof is on the accuser.

[Brandan_Cromartie]

Fortunately whether you disagree or not that isn't how the law works. This isn't "opinion". That also doesn't make sense; if it did an alibi wouldn't be necessary for any court case because that's proof that you did NOT do something. The law used to work this way, but that's why it doesn't anymore, because too many "He said, She said" cases came up; in relation to any crime if you have to prove that your attacker attacked you then you may as well quit. I'll give you a scenario:

[Brandan_Cromartie]

Farmer Joe accuses Farmer Bob of hitting him in his own household. Farmer Joe has a bruise. This however is a sign that he has been hit, it doesn't prove that Bob hit him, so how does Farmer Joe w/o video evidence prove Bob hit him? "Dust the object for fingerprints!", tons of fingerprints are on the object and Bob / Joe are friends, they share the stuff all the time, inadmissable. "Witnesses!", None. "Alibis!", you don't use alibis in proving a positive. "You can't!", that's right, you can't.

[tzdc21]

Not only should you dump her, you should report her.

[EngineeringStudent]

Lol.

[juice1]

thats my type of girl...

[drc930]

Send that girl to my place!

And man up!

[Shaun]

I knew this guy who used to try and tell his friends that his baby sitter took his virginity when he was 11.

[Jesterface195]

I smell bull sh*t...

[soggytoast]

ahahahhahhahahahhahhh

[_taylor_]

call the police... and break up with her.. what kind of girl does that.. hope I helped :)

[Anonymous]

You're bitching about having a girl like this? lol

Don't worry, the cops will share in the laughter.

[Anonymous]

Take your badly written ill-conceived p*rn scenarios over to literotica.com or somewhere more appropriate.

And maybe try having sex, before you try writing about it again.

[GrandpaSimpson]

LMFAO, this guy made a bet to see how many comments he could get, QUESTION FAIL

[Anonymous]

yet again with the twisted fantasies humiliated by girls. When will you quit this addiction of yours?