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My boyfriend gives me head a lot and says he loves doing it, but he's never been able 2 make me cum! help!
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My boyfriend gives head about two times a week and when he begins kissing me slowly down there it turns me on a lot, but then he just goes 4r it! he just licks me right away or puts his tongue in my vagina, but the thing is that after awhile I get turned off or it's not exiting. HELP! he goes down on me 4 about 2 min and then he stops. I keep reading all about how girls have crazy orgasms, but I've never had one and we've been dating 4 a whole year!
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1 2Good lord girl! It takes me about 10 minutes to have an orgasm. Two minutes isn't even enough time to break out into a sweat.
I wonder, do you direct him while he's down there? Do you tell him if it feels good or when it doesn't? You have to give him a little help - licking it like a lollipop will only overstimulate the very sensitive nerves down there. He needs to be a little more creative and patient. Two minutes isn't going to do anything.
Hopefully you haven't given up on the elusive orgasm, because a clitoral orgasm is one sweet thing. If communication doesn't work or if he's just too tired (or lazy) of licking away with no results - try a vibrator. Let him use it on you, hopefully you will get the results you want. Good luck!
I agree with Simple-Simonette. I could down down on my ex for hours. one time she stopped me and asked how many times I was gonna make her come, apparently she's stopped counting after a while. Talk to him, tell him what works and what doesn't for you. Guys cannot read minds or just assume, help him out.
firstly,this wouldn't be classified in the relationship section I think.more for sexuality section
anyway to answer this.i need to know what on earth is "4r" haha.some girls are more sensitive in the pussy area whereas some girls are less sensitive.my guess is that you ARE sensitive there but not to the extent that 2mins would make you orgasm quickly.i suggest you hint to him how exactly to do it to maximise the sensations because guys dun really know how to hit the G-spot and every girls has different G-spots too
You're probably going to have to experiment, and he's going to have to spend more time down there.
Some things to ask: How do you like your clit handled? Soft? Rough? Do you like tickling? Sucking? Nibbling? How much attention should he pay? Should he move around or sit on the clit?
You're need to give him LOTS of guidance; he only knows what you tell him.