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Clit piercings are always trashy?

What if a normal, good-looking girl got this done. does that make her more "trashy" or more "sexually attractive"? BOYS answer. girls are too closed minded.
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  • What makes someone abnormal? What makes her good-loooking? What is the definition of trashy.

    There is really only one answer to this and it can only be found inside the person getting the piercing. If you want to pierce your clit, pierce it. Do it for yourself, not for someone else and don't worry about what other people think.

    You need to stay true to yourself. Do so and you'll end up finding like minded individuals that share your same values, philosophies and attitude.

    Now, of course, I do understand that if you got it pierced that you'd want to know how the guy is going to react once he learns about it. The answer to this is situational. If you're going to be shacking up with him the first night you meet him, I certainly doubt he'll care. If it's someone you see something long-term with, you could easily discuss it before he discovers it. All you'd have to do is ask him what type's of piercing he likes. Eventually, this would segue easily and naturally to asking him about pierced labia and clits. If he doesn't like a pierced clit or he freaks when you tell him, he's not the right guy.

  • Personally, I don't think a normal good-looking girl would get this done. But if she did, obviously it'd be for a reason of hers that has to do with her perception of what guys will like, or what her guy will like. I don't think it's something she thinks looks cute or sexy on her when she looks in a mirror like jewellery around her neck or an ear piercing that everyone sees. But the fact that she does it for a specific purpose wouldn't make her any more trashy than a girl that didn't unless it was something she was using for a lot of guys to show how sexy she was But if she did that for a certain guy (or girl!) that said they'd love it on her, then I see nothing that would imply trashiness because it's being done for mutual enjoyment and pleasure. Let's face it. It's just a piercing.

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  • Ok here we go. My hood is pierced and I am not even close to trashy. I am very far from. I got it as a personal choice. I wasn't very sensitive down there and now with one I am. I've had it for 2 years now. It's nothing to show I'm a slut or whatever. Look it up. there are girls who get them because it actually helps them orgasm because some can't until they get one. But one thing, do it for yourself.

    I guarantee there are PLENTY of girls with no piercings but maybe their ears (if that) who are trashier beyond belief. A piercing doesn't state who you are. How you present yourself and hold yourself shows how you are.

    • Yeah that's what I thought it was for. I asked people on the board why people (men)have any opinions about... Its to help a girl do what she does. No stigma... nothing negative about it right??

    • I'm sure some get it because "OMG some porn stars have it!" But my personal reason was because it would help me orgasm. I know there are quite a few guys out there who don't like them because they feel it an insult that a girl needs a piece of metal because sometimes the penis doesn't quite do it.

    • My GF was like you, and she heard of Vertical Clit piercing! My GF wanted to get the vertical piercing, hoping she could feel more!! (Yeah, OK, as the BF, I don't mind, much!!) FCK!! I don't want this, or need it, but she does, so I'm there, supportive, like I 'should be'! It's a Biker-type dude, and she just takes off her pants and panties, showing this 'Stranger' everything!! So I'm really unsure, but this is for HER, and HER thing, so I am just there, holding her hand. WTF? So this guy has gloves, and he's cleaning every part, with alcohol pads, telling her to just relax, and breathe, and this is 'NORMAL!' He does the piercing, and puts the half ring, with the little balls, at both ends, vertical, through her clit!! She cried a bit. No sex, for three days, but she puts on her cottons, expecting her period, and has an orgasm!! No panties for a few days, After everything healed, she's SUPER-sensitive, and tight jeans just make her smile!!

  • girls are too closed minded? is this including yourself? since you are a female. women who pierce themselves there are usually freaky or want to be seen as such. it's as personal choice like many have already said, but do a google serch on that before hand, you can really mess up nerves there, and could permanantly ruin your fun down there. I have a friend who does piercings and tatoo's and he highly recommeds not getting one because the chance of infection is huge and a lot of women suffer loss of feeling and possibly deformation. I'll take my ignorant ass outta here now.

  • considering that you're putting 'labels' on what getting a clit piercing would 'make a girl' makes this question pretty closed-minded.

    the thing is it's not about what the BOYS think about it...unless that's part of the motivation.

    you pretty much answered your own question.

  • I feel like you would lose some sensation, and would you really be okay with that?

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  • First: It should be looked at as an act of self expression and not level of sluttyness

    It depends on the guy... Each one has his own preference.

    Mine.

    <3 piercings.

    Hope this helps

    -zing

  • I'd be delighted to see a normal, good-looking girl get this done. In fact, I've seen it a couple of times, and been delighted each time :)

    It's sensual and sexy -- yes, it's attractive. I really, really hate it when girls are labelled trashy. How can we say feminism has succeeded at anything if this nonsense persists? Sexual expression is a beautiful thing. I find girls who are confident and uninhibited far more interesting than more conservative types.

    Besides, a clit piercing is something you'll only show intimate friends (and yourself), all of whom should respect you. So why not get it done?

    • I agree, great answer.

  • i don't know where or how a clit pierceing got referred to as being trashy but who ever came up with that should be shot. I think its hot. its an opinion based question so ya that's my answer. just because your a "normal girl" doesn't mean you can't do something rebelious.

  • I am not a big fan of piercings on the clit. I don't mind nipples or ears, but I just want that pussy to look like the first one I ever had, lol. Which wasnt pierced.

  • Clit piercing=hot.

  • well, I personally find them unattractive. Some guys like it, some don't. I don't think it's trashy, but it definitley affects my image of people, even though I'm guilty because I shouldn't be judgeing people that way! But it sort of gives off this sexual image, and usually sexual imagery leads to trashiness. But, I'm not attracted to them, some guys are! :D

  • idk not soo attractive a bit trashy. Your choice not ours

  • big Turn off for me.

    • Why? Just wondering why it would matter

  • From a suburban, white, younger guy that goes for classy girls: The truth is, they are conceptually cool if I was looking for a girl to "f***", but if it was a girl I wanted to date and actually had an emotional connection to I would be greatly turned off. The stigma surrounding them is trashy/slutty/dirty.

    • What's the stigma? I thought the got them to help with the Big O. Also I think the ring is for her pleasure not her partners.

  • ouch

  • I think it would be a great sexy surprise. Like the sexy secretary lets down the hair and takes off the glasses and all of a sudden she's a porn star? Kinda the same thing. Normal cool chick on the outside, freaky chick behind closed doors. Its great.

  • looks like girls aren't the only "close minded ones" its a personal choice some chicks like it others don't I wouldn't get it done because I'm not into peric9ings but I have heard some guys say is a huge turn on and other say yuk

  • Clit rings are hot, however, it is the whole package that matters. If you look classy, dress well, carry yourself like a lady, you can pull it off. If you also have a tongue ring and a tramp stamp, well who's gonna be surprised by the clit ring?

  • Trashy isn't the word I'd use for this kind of body decoration.

    Any girl who is prepared to go to this amount of trouble for her partner's pleasure deserves praise.

    OK, I know it can also help with masturbation, but feeling good about yourself is what life is all about, so singles shouldn't feel left out.

    I assume you're actually referring to a hood piercing, not the actual clit, as most piercers won't go there due to the perceived risk of nerve damage.

    I'd start with your nipples and once you're used to the changed sensations, make your own mind up where to go next. Take advice from a reputable piercer - NOT your friends - and remember you can always remove the jewelry if you don't like it - you can't get rid of a tattoo that easily...

  • personally I love clit piercings, wether it means you're trashy or not is irrelavent if you want it done? I wouldn't think I'd either of the above, I'd just think its awesome!

  • i HATE that!i wouldn't want to eat her out!

  • I think that it looks trashy. A girl is supposed to be like- pure- in a way. I think that getting your belly button pierced is hot, but not your clit. that shit is too far. leave the clit to the porn stars if you ask me.

  • My personal opinion is that guys who like them are only after everything else between the legs and not the person that comes with it. I wouldn't go as far as to say it's trashy but it does send a statement. However on the flip side it's your body, you choose what gets done to it.

  • Clit piercings to me are just gross. I mean, wow, it's just, that's your vagina! It also makes me see the woman as more of a sexual deviant.

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