I like a guy, but he wants me to send dirty pictures.. What should I do?

[KillerUnicorn]

I have a guy friend (we aren't dating), and I like him a lot. I think he has feelings for me, but I'm not 100% sure.. He wants dirty pictures, and I'm not sure if I should still talk to him. We do have meaningful conversations, but I don't think it's right for him to pressure me, and I did tell him to stop. He doesn't do it as much now, but when he does, I tell him I won't do anything sexual unless we were in a long-term relationship.. I'm just confused. Advice?

[Anonymous]

Please don't. He shouldn't have asked for them in the first place, much less after you said no. If he asked for dirty pictures, he likely doesn't think of you in a relationship way (sorry). Telling him you won't send pictures unless your in a relationship may give him the wrong idea. He may approach a relationship in a "I want to see her boobs" way rather than "she's really cool, nice, and just my type." Try and get over him- he seems like a massive jerk. Lots of luck :)

[Anonymous]

Don't do it! That can end up in the Internet and ruin your life.

If he likes you he would want to see it live.

but.. If you really want to send them try not to send any with your face. And if you dO want to send some with your face make sure you get him to take some nude pics too just in case he puts them out there you have something to publish too. But honestly, don't do it. A real gentlemen wouldn't ask you for that.

[KillerUnicorn]

I would never send pics, but I really like him and I don't want to stop talking to him just because he is pressuring me

[Opinion Owner]

Don't do anything you don't wanna do. If he is pressuring you then maybe he isn't really worth your time. Now it's just pictures, what comes next? If you give in he will have his way with you whenever he wants and that's gonna end up hurting you. Tell him you don't take pictures like that, he can accept it or not but stand your ground girl you are not a p*rnstar.

[KillerUnicorn]

Thanks :)

[Opinion Owner]

You're welcome :) & thank you for best answer :)

[morngunt]

You're right don't do it unless you are in a relationship and you know he really wants to be with you. You don't wanna share those pictures with just anybody.

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

Always be careful when sending pics so think about it carefully ( I suggest you don't) but if you ever do DON'T PUT YOUR FACE IN THEM

[KillerUnicorn]

I would never send pictures.

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

good girl

[KillerUnicorn]

Haha I'm not a dog

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

I was just worried about you cause I've had bad experiences with pics on the internet

[IAmAnon123]

Don't.

[KillerUnicorn]

Wasn't planning on it

[IAmAnon123]

Then what's the dilemma, exactly?

[KillerUnicorn]

I really like him, and I don't want to stop talking with him, but I don't want hin pressuring me

[IAmAnon123]

Well if you've asked him to stop and he's still doing it, he doesn't sound like a very good friend. Pull him aside and tell him again, once and for all, he needs to stop. If he persists, find a new guy friend.

[KillerUnicorn]

Thanks for the advice

[Anonymous]

Please don't. Think of the future..he might turn out to be a bad guy & use those pictures against you. Don't be naive..some guys are bad.

[KillerUnicorn]

I know, I was never going to send pictures in the first place.