if your just casually hugging her, that could be a little strange. but if you guys were getting hot and heavy, that's usually a turn-on and the sign that she's doing good and usually boosts her confidence.
I would have to say it really just depends. For instance, If I were just hugging on a guy and we were not dating (like just friends or just met and didn't really know each other a whole lot) I would totally be creeped out. Granted I wouldn't like scream and make a scene, but I definitely wouldn't be hugging him again. On the other hand, If it were like my guy or someone I really liked I would be completely turned on. I love it when I have my hand on my guys leg and then I brush against him and I feel that he's hard. Its like the fact that I know that it will give me sooo much pleasure. It makes me want to just jump on top of him.
It's hot if it's someone I like. I can only remember feeling it once when it was someone I didn't like. That was just creepy. Immediately I thought about how he was getting off on this, and it grossed me out.
If I'm making out with my boyfriend and I feel that he's hard, it's a huge turn-on. I'll usually lean against him or grope him to let him know I like it. I guess I like it because for one, it means we're gonna have sex, and two, it's always nice to be subtly reassured that he's attracted to me and I turn him on.
If I was just snuggling with him or hugging him and I felt he was hard.I'd be just as turned on. =)
To be honest I feel a great deal of satisfaction knowing that he thinks I'm hot and got hard however younger non sexually active girls if its just a normal hug might feel a bit nervous and unsure afterwards as they may not know how to act or deal with the situation. just tell her that you find her attractive but understand that it does not mean she has to do anything she's not ready for.
My boyfriend and I just talked about this today! I don't care what we're doing. I love it when I can feel him get hard against me. Whether it's making out, lying beside each other or just hugging I love it and get so turned on by it!
If I'm a girl hugging my boyfriend - I'm amped that he has a boner from hugging. Maybe if she's young or inexperienced the she'll feel awkward about it, in which case avoid pushing it against her. She'll grow to love it! Ha. Don't worry about your boner!
Well, if I like him it doesn't bother me too much (sometimes, I even like it a little. I know, that's wierd, but I do). But, if I don't like him it's a little akward but I know he can't help it so I ignore it best I can.