I was curious about cervical stimulation, and deep pelvic orgasm. Any ideas on stimulating this area?

I've been with my partner/lover for 8 months now. our sex life is really wonderful, and I really like exploring and trying new things. As of late I've been reading and studying the ideas of Karezza and Tantra, but I'm really curious about cervical orgasm or stimulation, and was wondering if there were any great lovers out there, familiar with this kind of stimulation. I've been with women who've had orgasm with me, simply through penetration alone, but with my current love, 8 hours of love making, as enjoyable as it is, can't bring her to orgasm.it generally takes manual and oral stimulation to bring her to orgasm, though she's had at least 5 orgasms with me during intercourse (not much considering all the times we've been together.) Any ideas?
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also wanted to add.My girlfriend has never had an orgasm during intercourse prior to being with me.she doesn't even look for orgasm during intercourse. When its happened, it was sort of like.woa.what just happened.We just like to take our time.
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  • WTF? Are you serious with the 8 hour thing? That's just silly. If a woman isn't cumming after one hour, seven more isn't going to help. And who wants to put in a full shift every time they f***? Look, some girls just don't come from sex. It doesn't mean you have a small penis or are a lousy lover, it just doesn't happen for some girls. I should know. I'm one of them. And if she wasn't faking and can do it occasionally, that's probably the best you're going to get. Look, talk to her, ask her what she wants, and give it to her. That's all you can do.

    • AHAHAHA. So true!

    • You may find this hard to believe, but some women just like to make love for A LONG time. We're not talking jack-hammer style, but slow and sweet. So yeah, I get ya, but your not all alike. A good thing to, because things would get mighty boring. And its also not just about the orgasm... Its a lot more profound, or sacred. At least for me, and the people I tend to be with. So...go figure.

    • Well okay. I mean I've spent the day in bed before, but that was having sex a bunch of different times and talking in between. I guess that's the ADD version of what you're talking about. You're right though, I do find continual sex for 8 hours a bit hard to believe.

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  • Uhm, try rubbing her clitoris whilst penetrating her. Ask her what she wants and what feels good for her.

    • Em...done that

    • Listen to gravy girl.

  • For cervical stimulation (or getting the c-spot) your penis must have a minimum length to at least reach the cervix in the cowgirl or her knees over chest position. Having a too long penis might result in pain for her as the cervix is very delicate toward impact (exactly as the testicles). Women height and Phisonomy might determine how deep in is her cervix, so long guys may have a better experience with taller stretched girls in cervix stimulation. In cowgirl position, the female movement must be done slipping forward and backward over the guy's penis, allowing it to swing inside the vagina trying to aim the cervix at the top (kind of hitting a bell with a bat), direct impact to the cervix through in and out movements of the penis might result in pain if the length/depth of the couple isn't matched. In knees over chest, the guy must slip toward and downward the girl trying to feel the cervix with the tip of the penis, grabbing the girls thighs and repeatedly pushing them down to the bed might increase the movement and chance to get the c-spot. Remember the cervix moves it might get in or out a little or even hide towards the front or back of the girls vagina, she must relax her abdomen to better allow her innermost spot to be found and stimulated. For you I might add that the best position to hit the G-spot would be the inverse missionary, in which the girl is face down to the bed with her legs spread and you penetrate her from behind... the trick is your d*** must angled towards the front wall of the vagina and the penetration can get intense, repeatedly pounding its head to that wall. Orgasms may not come easy if any of both partners doesn't give him o herself completely to the other, foreplay helps a lot in setting that mood and never get your penis into your girl if she ain't wet up to her outer labia unless she want's it that much, I she ain't lubricated there will be no pleasure to it for her, though it might be fixed with lubricants she might want to see her doctor or reconsider her partner/relationship if she ain't lubricating.