Is it normal for a guy to want to be fingered?

Me and my husband were playing around cause I am on my period and we don't have sex durring all of that. So I was giving him head. He had me finger his ass. And we have been together for 2 years and that has never happened. What does this mean and is I normal?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • He's looking for you to massage his prostate. It can be very stimulating. Those using the proper technique can actually make a guy orgasm from just massaging the prostate. It's not weird or uncommon.

    About an inch inside the anus you will feel a pea size gland; that's the prostate. Use some lube and give it a try, he'll love you for it.

  • It means he felt anal play would add to his pleasure. It certainly can.

    Read this post: "Describe the perfect blowjob?" for some tips.

    Normal? It's completely harmless, so of course it is.

    Gay fear? Forget it. We all have the same nerve endings.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Normal as, my husband loves his prostate being played with as well. Get a vibrating toy if you don't like using fingers, that's what I did. That combined with a blow job, he cums so much. Or gloves if you like using fingers but like to be cleaner. I even did my husband with a strapon. That was kinky, but fun for both of us. Have you tried again?

  • Men have a prostate. Which is basically a G-spot and can cause an orgasmic type pleasure in their anus. It's like if you were to finger a girl's vagina, then they would feel good about it. So, yeah, it's like, TOTES normal.

  • Yes and no. Most men shy away from such a thing figuring it will make them gay, or something to that extent. But its also not like its not that unheard of at the same time.

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  • Any kind of sexual thing is normal if both you and your partner agree to it. Recently I gave my girlfriend a rim job and she had never before had one before and she said she didn't like the idea of it but once I gave it to her she said she liked it. She said the same thing about me eatiner her out because no guy has done that to her before and she liked that as well.

  • Lol :\

    Some guys like it, some don't.

    If a guy's checked for prostate cancer before, they'll know if they like it or not.

    I don't. Ick.

  • Means he likes it. Normal and unimportant.

  • you most notice on his face if he enjoy it more ore admit with that you should doubt and if that was only for fun or because of that you can't have sex and he must reach orgasm on anyway it means normal

  • Well, it's considered taboo. But, it CAN be normal depending on how open the man is sexually. The anus is LOADED with nerves and can be very pleasurable if stimulated.

  • Normal. Stimulating the prostate can be really great.