What Guys Said 1
As a guy I can only answer based on what women have told me, and that would be no, it's not normal to hurt for days afterward. Your first problem is "went too hard/fast and I wasn't wet enough". If someone is dumb or mean enough to jam a penis in your vagina before you're ready or lubricated then he's not the right person for you. He either needs sex education or to be anally raped without lube and see how he likes it.Do not let anyone penetrate you unless you can easily slide a couple fingers in.I think your other symptoms are unrelated.Either way get yourself checked out by a doctor please.
What Girls Said 1
I have the same problems, what was wrong with you?
Let me know ASAP please!!