I know a lot of christian girls who are promiscuous and some who are virgins, and a lot who are experienced but not promiscuous. its all good in my opinion, but I'm an atheist so I don't have to deal with a book telling me its wrong. some girls I've met struggle with that. most christians don't seem to take the no sex before marriage, or even the no adultery thing, too seriously. I grew up in christian schools and yeah...ive seen and heard things. lol
SOME Christian girls don't fool around. One of the girls at my school is really religious and she doesn't even like makeout with her boyfriend too much because she doesn't want to do anything beyond kissing before marriage. she's serious about it.
im 21, an atheist, and I'm a virgin with guys. I'm definitely not waiting for marriage because I don't believe in saving oneself for anyone, and I don't even know if I will get married. and even if I do, it won't be until I'm at least 30. lol I don't know why I haven't done it yet, I just havent. I don't want to get pregnant (im on birth control though lol) and I'm skeptical about how honest people are about stds I guess. plus being with girls and using sex toys, I don't actually feel like a virgin. I've had amazing sex with penetration, just not with something that can impregnate me and ruin my life. I'm not at all opposed to abortion, but its not a situation I want to be in. I'm on the pill just to be prepared, but I don't know I'm cautious about that sh*t. lol
what have I done...ive done a lot. I just haven't had a real d*** inside me, basically. well, other than my mouth. I've done oral sex with both girls and guys, and I've had strap on sex, or used sex toys with girls. fingering as well. some other random stuff like I've tied a girl up before and spanked her, or used one of those little whips you get from the sex shops lol I've been the one tied up as well. cute stuff like that. oh I've done lap dances, dry humping, etc.
funny story about dry humping. I dated a christian guy once and he was always horny. he didn't want to lose his virginity though and I've already explained my weirdness about this. he spent the night at my place and he's like "i can't sleep in your bed...i cant" he was like too turned on by me or something and he was afraid of temptation. I guess this wouldn't work if you're a by the book christian and you avoid lustful thoughts and actions outside of marriage all together, no masturbation or anything. he wasn't though, he was just trying to remain a virgin. at the time he wasn't comfortable with oral sex (which KILLED me!). he thought there was no way out but solitary suffering. I said, "you know what the cure is for this?" he was like, "no, what?" and I introduced him to dry sex/ dry humping. I'm pretty sure I kicked it up a bit high (different positions, hard grinding, hip action, etc. kind of making it as nasty as possible basically) but hey, at least he wasn't having sex right?
lol this is why I stay away from little christian boys.i corrupt the innocent :)
Great reply and very amusing story about the reluctant christian guy! Many thanks for posting.
"... this is why I stay away from little christian boys. i corrupt the innocent..." Wow. That's great. Imagine you love taking guy's virginities. Just like some guys like to take women's virginities. They'd love to be a Christian woman's first, the first to push deep into their innocent Christian pussies, and fill them with their hard nonChristian cocks.
Virgin, 17.
I used to consider messing around with a guy but recently have had a change in heart. Messing around and even kissing is all selfish reasons to be dating (or flirting). God made sex for a man and a woman joined as one to enjoy and we have no place messing with it, sometimes it comes with consequences (STD, pregnancy...)
If you are having trouble with going too far or anything, read this book: I Kissed Dating Goodbye by Joshua Harris. It's pretty stinking amazing and it's not only for girls, in fact, it's in a guys perspective, if that gives you more motivation to read it.
Hi thanks for the answer, and no I'm not having trouble with messing around, I've never messed around or anything like that, I'm saving myself for marriage and I'm proud that you sound like you are the same, message me if you ever wanna talk :)
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!well I'm christian, and I had sex for the first time at 15 and I'm not a slut iv only been with a few guys. I'm got married at 18 I'm now 22 and still married. iv only had sex with the others but when I got married I gave my husband head, swallowed, and done anal all amazing.
"... when I got married I gave my husband head, swallowed, and done anal all amazing. ..." Amazing because many "good Christian girls" will do all that to the men they date, but stop them from penetrating them. They find they enjoy their men's taste and love to swallow, even engaging in "simulated sex," where they let their boyfriends move their penises up and down against their wet c*nts (but make them promise not to enter). This "almost sex" helps save their "Christian innocence," even as they swallow their men's nonchristian cum and let them eat their p*ssies, enjoying the orgasm after orgasm their men give them.
You shouldn't lump all christian females into one category. People's beliefs about sex vary from one person to another. I am a Christ follower and I want to wait to have sex if I decide to get married, which I may or may not do. However, not everyone believes the same thing. Plus there are always going to be lapses in judgement, but it doesn't mean that they can't be forgiven and continue being Christian.
oh no, I'm not judging anyone or anything, I'm waiting to hv sex till I'm married as well, I just want to know if girls are open to messing around or if that is something that they see as leading to sex so they don't do it, I completely agree about religion, people have different beliefs and I'm not saying anything about religion, just wanting to know what fellow christians think about the topic :)
I def will wait until marriage for sex. I just don't know is martubation a sin?
No it isn't
@Otter92 thankyou!
I'm Christian and I'm almost 22
The most I've done with a guy, though I've regretted it is kissed and he touched me (up top, never below) I regret that, I was trying to save everything till I was married.
Online, I've been a lot worse, talking sexually and I've sent some pictures and have received some as well. I know it was wrong, but thankfully God has forgiven me and granted me Mercy and Grace and I can only do my best to never do it again.
I'm still a Virgin, but I've sure seen and said too much :(
Im not Christian but I do follow a religion. Im also 20 years old and have been nowhere sexually with a guy.
I was riased to wait, but I didn't make it. it's harder than people think.
I went all teh way. I hd sex when I was 25.
As a Christian girl, what was it like waiting until 25 to experience your first penetration? What went through your mind as he pushed in and out of your innocent Christian womanhood and filled it with his godless nonChristian cum? I always wonder what goes through Christian girls' minds as they give themselves to the nonChristian men they see.
I went all the way when I was 17.
Christian girls are no different than any other girls in this regard, unless you're talking about someone who drank the cool-aid. Having sex after you've been boyfriend/girlfriend for at least month or three is about the longest anyone waits.
20. This is embarassing, but with my coisin (same age)..we dry humped...BIG MISTAKE...
We were 9
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