I know you females are conditioned virtually from birth to seek husbands, relationships, and to withhold sex to get the guy to do your bidding, but when a female reaches your age do you still believe all that stuff? Do you really imagine that males go around searching for relationship partners?
Males have different thought processes. ON AVERAGE, we like sex with females. Sex is at the core of any interest a guy shows in you. If you do not withhold it too long the guy will go along with your long drawn out boring conversations, take you to all the social places, and generally engage in all manner of behaviors he has no interest in. If the sex is forthcoming in time, and is good, and of sufficient frequency, then he may stick with you long enough to form an attachment for you.
In short, if a guy asks you out, sex is at the root of it, really.0 0 0 0lmaooooooooooooooooooooooooo.
i just read this again, the way you said it is just hillarious
Im Glad you enjoyed it. :)
It's hard to answer your question accurately, I would say there are a couple of answers: one of them has to be correct:
1. He doesn't place as much importance on sex as you do, and for him it's a recreational activity that should be enjoyed by consenting adults.
2. He is just after sex.
Either way, I think he feels rejected at this point. If you like him, I woould strongly suggest you let him know ASAP. Tell him you can't wait to sleep with him and that you think about it a lot. If you want to take it slow then tell him, at least he will know you do actually want him. men are just as insecure about that as women.
FYI - I've always looked upon sex as a recreational activity. Whether a woman slept with me early or not makes absolutely no difference to the way I view her.0 0 0 0
Most Helpful Girl
He is a F***ING JERK!
If I were you I'd f***ing kick him in the balls if I ever heard of him again! Honey, he IS in it for sex, it's obvious, this was your second date and sex was on his mind... what do you think will happen if you see each other again?! He's going to make you feel like you have issues when he's the one who's going bonkers thinking he can 'buy you' with apetizers and seafood!
Not good. If I were you, I'd never talk to him again, and I'd cancel the date and never text him back again.1 1 0 1
Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions
What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Related Questions
What Girls & Guys Said
0 3Just because a guy wants sex DOESN'T mean he doesn't like you. In fact, it's usually the opposite. When a guy likes a girl, his sexual desire for her skyrockets.
So yeah, he probably wants to bang the crap out of you. However, talking for hours and then wanting that to lead to sex means he also probably really likes you, so his sexual attraction to you means he likes you.0 0 0 0no he isn't he even said that. He said he would like some sex but that is not all. This is why guys are so hesitant to make move. I have never made it past two dates with out getting some, and not that I was pushing for it.
0 0 0 0Sounds to me like you made it clear during the dates that you enjoyed his company, then let him know that you were bothered by the impression that he was trying to have sex with you (since you are not moving there that quickly). He got upset that you did not want sex and applied pressure by saying you must not be attracted to him. Sounds like he is definitely after sex. If you are not in tune with that - split.
0 0 0 0
Most Helpful Guys