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Would you let your boyfriend/girlfriend pose nude?

Basically to start things off, my girlfriend has always been against the idea of lads mags and girls posing for them. And my view on it is exactly the same, I wouldn't go near a girl who done something like that and I love the privacy we have of sending photos between each other because it's only our opinion that matters surely. But recently she received an email from Loaded asking to come down for a shoot and she is really up for the idea and is saying it's an opportunity that shouldn't be missed and she wants to do it. I'm totally against it and don't know why she'd want to show a whole host of guys her body. How would you feel/react about it if your boyfriend/girlfriend acted the same? How would you feel/react if they were to pose for a magazine? What would you do in this situation?
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I've just seen a few of the pictures that she had to take for a portfolio that she had to send off. It's all starting to feel so real now and I have this horrible feeling in my gut. Finding this incredibly hard to take. Just feel like our relationship is going to take a downward turn because of it and I won't feel comfortable about her body anymore. I just looked at the pictures and could see they weren't for me, which really hurt knowing they were for someone else.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I cimpletely understand where your comming from I would't want my grilfriend to appear in a p*rn magazine or anything like that either. The way I see it is that as she is posing nude you and everybody else knows why people by those magazines...to bust a nut over the women insde of it, plain and simple.

    Its that fact that you love your privacy and that she is yours and any other man seeing her naked might feel like some sort of betrayel or form of adultry am I right? Just sit her down and have a serious talk to her about it, tell her how you feel about this photo shoot and discuss your fears.

    • yeah completely, I've tried talking to her but she's just like 'it's one article' but that's past the point. I'm just so confused cos she's always been against it now she thinks I'm being selfish for not supporting her. Thank you for the reply.

    • Shes being wishy washy but id say the reason for her change of mind is because she sees it as a point to get noticed...but for the wrong reasons. The only thing you can do is explain to her that it doesn't matter if she did it one or a thousand times that you still wouldn't want her to do it.

  • I sure would let my wife pose nude if it were done it tasteful manner I know that it would build her self esteem I love my wife and I am proud of her I am not saying that other guys

    don't love their wives or not proud of their wives for Me it would not change the way I feel about Her in any way then there is the lusting thing guys will lust after women with clothes on or off its just human nature I am like any other guy if a guy messes with my wife I would punch the guy out too so I don't have a problem with Her being seen nude after all She is still going to be with Me

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  • Not for a magazine like that. Maybe if it was something artsy, but I think this is just tasteless...

    Why does she want to even though she's always been against the idea? "an opportunity that shouldn't be missed"... unless she wants to be a p*rn model, she should miss this "opportunity" :P

    • I have no idea why she wants to, I have directly asked her that question, why does she want to get body out for a shoot for other guys to look at and I've had no response as yet. She's never ever thought about doing modelling before, she's a great looking girl and I would be over the moon if she just done a tasteful normal shoot with clothes on for a fashion mag or something. She's actually studying to be a music journalist which isn't even vaguely close to modelling. Thank you for replying.

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  • My girlfriend says she wants to pose in playboy, I don't really want her to, but its better then hustler or something along those lines.

    • Oh right and how do you feel about it? Is it something you're just going to get on with and how do you deal with other guys gawping over her body? I know a lot of people say that it doesn't matter if they pose because they're coming home to you at the end of the day, but that's my point, if they're coming home to me then why do they need to show off or impress anyone else with their body?

    • She more than likely won't she just said she wants to, if it bothers you that much, why don't you tell you gf?

  • Yeah
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  • My husband would be cool with it.

    • did you swinger

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