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Blowjobs - Why do women enjoy giving them?

I am just wondering what women get out of orally pleasing a guy. Honest mature answers please.

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I ask because on occasion after talking to either a friend OR a woman I just met, they will offer me a blowjob and of course I am like "sure" but I can't keep my analytical mind in check, I always wonder what they get out of it. I feel selfish getting 1.

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  • When I give a blow job, even I am amazed at how wet I become. It is such an intimate experience for both of us. I enjoy it because to be quite honest I like the taste and feel of a man's penis in my mouth. And to hear him moan and breathe harder because of what I am doing to him.wow what a turn on. At least for me.Now other chicks may have different reasons to want to pleasure a man orally, such as acceptance from him. May sound odd, but immature women who have not "found" themselves just yet may offer a blow jo so a guy will like them and maybe they can 'be" together. Unfortuantely this usually backfires and doesn't end so happily! But I personally love the feeling of it and knowing that I am giving this guy pleasure eyond belief. Hope I made sense~

    • I didn't know there were women like you!

    • We are few and far between Cardioman!!

    • Very interesting

What Girls Said 13

  • If you have read some of my past comments on this site you know I pretty much tell like it is! First off here I don't believe for one F**kin minute that girls just walk up to you and ask to suck your cock. It just doesn't happen except in porn movies.However to answer your question as to why girls like giving bj's: Most popular reason is that you are doing it on someone you really care about and just want to pleasure him! Some females, me included like doing it and are very liberal about who we do it too. I have been known to make an aquantance and after getting to know him have pleasured him with a bj. I am not going to walk up to a complete stranger and ask him if I can blow him, not even it was Bill Clinton! That is just a fantasy of yours!

    • Welp, it has happened to me on occasion. But thanks for your feedback.

    • I've had it a bunch of times after spending less than an hour with a girl.. I don't see what's so far-fetched.

  • The pleasure of knowing that we pleased a man. :)I have a feeling that most of your answers are going to say something semi-related to this.

  • i enjoy giving bj's because it gives me such a kick the way my boyfriend looks turns me on even more and his reaction makes me wet. I also enjoy it because it means that when we get to sex later that night he will last longer. to be honest I just get my biggest kick though because I know that I have satisfied him.

  • A girl is in control of the pleasure, and can make a guy respond by just simple touch. Also, if you like the person (not good for randoms) you are making your boyfriend happy.I also have a huge oral fixation and love putting things in my mouth :)

  • Thier facial expresions, especially the huge smile that they can't hold back as you swallow. The control aspect is also nice, knowing that you have that type of power.

  • i love it, I love the feeling of it in my mouth, and when he cums it's so.. yummy. :]

  • For me, it's knowing I can give pleasure, and a lot of it from what I've heard, without having to actually 'put out'. Also, it's pregnancy proof and it still makes the guy happy. I don't do it to make him feeling guilty, I just want to let him know his happiness matters to me. Hope that helps.

  • I absolutely love giving a guy head. Just the fact that your making them feel so good and you have most of the control. Although I don't always like being in complete control. I like it when the guy helps me along a little. (:One time comes to mind when I was with my bestfriend, who happens to be a guy, and we were just talking about it joking around telling each other what we liked and what we would do to each other if we ever did do something. Well need less to say we turned each other a little too much, and the next thing ya know, we're both half naked. He always joked around with me because I have only been with one other person before. so he assumed I didn't know what I was doing. So I decided to throw him for a loop and wispered in his ear " let me suck it". did he go crazy. I kissed/licked my way down and when I was almost there he grabbed my necklace I had on which happened to be a thick chain, and pulled me the rest of the way to his d*ck. He loved it when I licked it and sucked on his balls. but I would only take it in half way. It's my little trick. I love it when he takes a little control. when I start to go down the shaft and he pushes the back of my head so that I take him in the rest of the way. It makes me go insane. need less to say, it was one of the best he has ever had. and he still asks me at least once a week when we are going to be alone again. It drives me crazy knowing that he wants it again.

  • What kind of self respecting woman would offer up a blow job to a total f***ing stranger? Unbelievable. Anyway, I enjoy giving blowjobs because I love satisfying my man and because it makes me incredibly wet. I know that I'll get mine, whether he bends me over the table or chases me down the hall to the bedroom. ;)

  • I know very few girls that are so sexually liberated/careless that they will approach a guy and offer a sex act without knowing the basics about his lifestyle and health. There are health dangers. Chances are, you're meeting these women at parties/ bars, and they're intoxicated. They see you as a cute and decent guy, so they figure in their minds that what they're doing is okay. They're acting like men. Be unattached, and just have fun. But the act of oral sex is so intimate, it seems a lot of women are looking for approval and self-worth. They want to hear how good they are, yada yada yada. I enjoy pleasuring men, but only ones that I know are worthy. I.E. He has my number, we're going out on a proper date, and he would return the favor at some point. Women do these acts as ways of showing they care. Don't get me wrong, it can be a great experience, but it's not a lollipop! Keep that in mind next time she's down there.

    • Too bad I can't mark this as second best. I still wonder at the psychology behind the random blowjobs though. You are right about the parties/wild parties.

    • Ask me about it sometime. I am a psych major after all!

  • i don't like giving them.

  • I guess I agree with the previous answers. It's nice to pleasure a guy you like. It's awesome to be able to have that kind of control over them and to feel like you've done something for them.

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