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My boyfriend's friend took advantage of me...?

My boyfriend and I like having rough sex. I mean the type where he will gag me and hold me down during. Well some of our closer friends know this and his best friend has made many comments about wanting to do that to me. He has never said it to me in a way that I thought he was seriously hitting on me and my boyfriend says he always thinks he is joking because I'm not his friend's type. But I was sleeping at my boyfriend's house and he wasn't home yet. But his roommate (his best friend) was in the living room while I was asleep. I remember the door opening but thinking it was my boyfriend and felt hands rubbing up my legs. I started moaning and said my boyfriends name but then everything got intense and my mouth was cover with a hand and I had a d*** inside me. At this point I was trying hard to say no because I knew it wasn't my boyfriend but his friend is bigger and a lot stronger than me. He held me down long enough to finish and he tried to give me oral sex but I kept kicking him away. When he gave up he held my arms down sat on top of me and handcuffed me to the bed. I was freaked out because I couldn't move and he just had his way with me. After everything I was still handcuffed to the bed and he left the room. I guess I fell asleep after laying there for so long because when I woke up I wasn't handcuffed anymore and my boyfriend had just come home. I'm a little freaked out to tell my boyfriend what happened. How should I tell him? I don't want him to just go beating up his friend and I feel so stupid for letting this happen.
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I'm going to the police as soon as my friend comes to get me. Thank you for most of your answers and support.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I don't know the time line of these happenings. What you should have done, what I would have done if I were you, is eagerly accepted his d*** in my mouth, and he would have never peed while standing up again. In fact, if your hands were available at the time a firm grip of his testicles followed by a sharp jerk away from his d***, and he might just have begged you kill him if and when he was ever able to speak again.

    if this happened hours ago, call the police and they will get you to the hospital for a rape kit to be run. If it was last week, your screwed. The evidence is gone there is nothing that can now be done.

    • It happened last night. I'm just freaking out right now and needed to tell someone other than my boyfriend first.

    • Tell the police, now. NOW call for help immediatly while the evidence is still in you. If need be get out of that house and call from somewhere else but do it right now.

  • police.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Aww that's terrible! I am so sorry you had to go through that! Tell the police, tell your boyfriend, he has the right to know that his roommate is a rapist and had his way with his friends girlfriend. Do everything you can to get it out so he can't do that to anyone else. That is bullsh*t that he went to such lengths to do such a thing. Report him!

  • you need to go to the police and tell your boyfriend. you told your boyfriend that his friend was making inappropriate comments to you and he brushed it off to the side. this is a very serious matter and you need to make sure that douche bag doesn't get away with what he did

  • When did that happen. If you haven't showered since then go to the hospital and tell what happened. They'll take care of things.

    If you did shower. Tell your boyfriend, I'm sure he noticed something is wrong with already. And go to the police

  • why would you feel stupid? he raped you,tell your boyfriend,and call the police

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  • It's not your fault. Don't feel stupid. Tell the police. Remember again, that you shouldn't blame yourself, that guy is a jerk and should be locked up.

  • Tell him and go to the police. I'm sorry :(

  • You were raped. Tell the police.

  • You need to call the police and report him for rape. Don't feel bad or stupid, you just got raped.

  • If your story is true, you have a lot more to worry than how to tell your boyfriend and how he'll react. You should go straight to the police and make sure the rapist is arrested and put to jail for a long time.

    There are couple of things in your story I feel weird about. You said that guy came and raped you and left you there and you went back to sleep, really? How many hours are we talking about here? Like that guy waited patiently that you go back to sleep to uncuff you while your boyfriend could have come home at anytime?

    And shouldn't your boyfriend have noticed the marks on your wrists because I'm sure you fought off like crazy and you had the hand cuffs on for so long.

    Sorry to sound skeptical but there are so many people making up crazy stories these days...

    • The handcuff marks could easily be from when me and my boyfriend using them the night before. Also when he left I was cuffed and I don't know I'm guessing I passed out after a while(Note: I was exhausted before any of this happened). I don't know when I was unhandcuffed but I woke up and they were off and a little while later my boyfriend came home.

    • Look, I have used handcuffs for fun rough sex. And I don't see how marks could be remotely the same, come on now. When one uses them for fun it doesn't last long enough to leave significant marks, why? Because anybody who has used metal cuffs know they start to hurt after like just 10 min of play, and also how one is carefull not to pull on them while playing because the metal can hurt a lot. Fighting off someone with them on and having them on for hours will leave HUGE marks.

    • Their padded or covered so it only leaves a red marks on me. My skin isn't against the metal. That would hurt like hell. You don't have to believe me it really doesn't matter.

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  • Well it seems like you've already got your answers, but yeah it was more than him "taking advantage of you". He raped you and he needs to answer for what he did. I'm jumping on board the "go to the police" bandwagon.

  • Go to the police. That's clear-cut rape.

  • im sorry but he deserves to be killed he raped you :( nate dude is right ! that's terrible I'm really sorry :( oh yeaa defoo tell your boyfriend !

  • first let my say f*** that guy and I'm sorry

    wow f*** his friend tell him I would be pissed and f*** him up if it was my best friend and if he doesn't f*** him up well there is your answer get rid eof your boyufriend because he should care that much for you

  • yesss you should deff tell your boyfriend

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