I had sex with my best friends big crush! What do I do now?

[Anonymous]

My friend is an over compulsive crusher. When she sees a guy she likes, she's addicted to them, and will stick to them for a long time. She once liked a guy I despised because he was a "player". Me, my friend, and him work at mc donalds together. Well after talking to him and getting to know him, he's not a bad guy, long story short he genuinely liked me, and I the same. But we couldn't date because of her. Well she slowly begun to get over him when she started liking another guy (lets call him tom) and I was "kinda" friends with him (tom) and we had a party where she ended up messing around with his (tom's) best guy friend (william) while I talked to him(tom) well long story short, we ended up having sex and she doesn't know, if she knew I had sex with her crush(tom) it would ruin everything we have togetherm she's my best friend, and I feel terrible about what I did, and now he's telling me he likes me that he wants us to try to be together, and I think I might be liking him. what do I do?

[bhall20]

ok first off your not a very good friend. drunk or sober why would you ever do that? I don't have much respect for people like you. But anyways the only way to salvage your friendship would be to tell her. Better her hear from you rather than someone else first. and don't lie about anything. that will just make things worse.

[l-hedoniste]

Go for tom. She'll get over it.

If she was messing around with william BEFORE dating tom, she wasn't into him anyway.

[Anonymous]

i did the same. i would say, do what you wanna do. she will understand.

[Anonymous]

I am in the same sort of situation I set my friend up with this guy and he’s interested in me I don’t know what to do because she really likes him