First, always ask questions and talk to your partner during stuff. Communication is a good thing. It gets you in the habit of letting them know what you want and it gets them comfortable to tell you what they want.
As for the finger in your ass (usually when I say that, it's meant as an insult, but it is meant literally this time), she may have been trying to stimulate the prostate. It is actually possible for a man to come just from having his prostate stimulated (farm animals' semen is usually collected via an electric prod that stimulates the prostate) and pretty much the only way to get at it is through your ass. It is also a generally sensitive area and so it's pleasurable for most people when lightly stimulated. In my experience, a BJ accompanied by prostate stimulation is absolutely mind shatteringly amazing, if it is done right. There's a reason the prostate is called the male G spot...
And he should get a Best Answer for this right now. He said almost everything I would have said, except, he's also speaking from experience, whereas I've only read about it. I've never requested it, and my girlfriend has not expressed interest, So I can't speak from experience. Still, most of Quadrophonic84's info is spot on here. Give him a Best Answer.
Thanks. Yeah, most girls seem a little shy to get into that kind of thing, but the ones that aren't, look out. You should ask her what she thinks about it, maybe she wants to do it but is embarrassed to ask.
Definitely best answer. Thanks guys.
Normally a girl will do that just to make it more intense. It stimulates the man in both ways.
I mean, it's probably a fetish as well, something she's been wanting to do. Some girls do it just to see how it is if their curious, or to see if the guy keeps good hygiene ... lmao.
Speaking as a girl who reads a lot of sex tips online and in books and such, I will tell you that it is a very common piece of advice for girls to hear. She probably was feeling really into the moment and wanted to give you an extra boost of pleasure, so definitely take it as a compliment and feel flattered she felt so turned on and into you to want to do that.
I will take it as a compliment. Lol.
You didn't like it? Let her have another go to find you prostate, my guy loves that
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