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Do guys only like me for my body?

Okay, so when first looking at me. Everyone notices that I have huge "tits" as guys like to call them. I'm called hooters and sexy all the time by some of my perv guy friends. I'm also a skinny girl with some curve, but see I'm also a very funny fun loving girl. I have a brain and I like to do just about anything. I'm not a virgin and have dated a few . Baseball players at my school. One of them told the whole team about the night we had sex and how sexy my body is naked. Then after we broke up I had like half the team all over me, asking me if I wanted to f*** and shit. Why in the hell do they think its that easy? I haven't ever done or said anything that would let them think that. Just because I have a "nice rack" and a somewhat "sexy" body , as my ex put it, that doesn't mean I'm easy. He was my boyfriend and we had been dating for like a month before we even took another step. Anyway my real questions are. Why do these asshole think I'll give it up. && do guys only like me for my body? Please, Some help would be nice. =] Thanks.
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I'm sorry, but please I don't want anymore answerz to this question anymore.I'm in a good relationship now.It's been a long 4 months in about 3 days,and this happen my freshmen year, I just been thinking about it and stuff.Thanks,Bye.
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oh, and please don't call me a slut or anything. I have changed a lot since then. I've learned from my mistakes.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • First off.some guys are just scum. They think that they can determine what kind of person a girl is by her breasts size. The lack the true respect that women deserve. But sometimes part of this is the fault of women. They flaunt their breasts or sexy legs in the face of men. If you show a man too much, his assumptions take off. I'm not saying it is right, but it is how some men are. Personally, I can appreciate the beauty of a woman, even if she is flashing a lot of skin, and still not assume that she is a slut.

    I hope you will be happy with who you are, but think about message you are sending out when you dress. Now please don't get me wrong, I am not implying that you dress indescently.you may be a very conservative dresser. Be who you are though, and forget what someone else thinks about you. And as for the creeps.sexual harassment is a crime.report any thing that is done to you that crosses a line. I guarantee someone will put an end to it. It is not tolerated any longer.

    As a man, I will admit that I love looking at a sexy body just as much as the next guy. And if you have a sexy body, I would probably be just as guity and sneaking a few lingering stares. But at the same time, No man has a right to treat you the way you are suggesting. Some of those guys are just "assholes". I truly am sorry that you get treated like that.

    • I'm just gonna put this out there because some guys don't understand this. I can't always keep my clothes on me the right way. I'm top heavy as some call it and I wear a size 0 and I am a very skinny girl. It can be hard finding shirts that fit my waiste and my chest. I don't mean to "flaunt" or "show off" what I have. I don't mean to come across like that. I can't help that they're there. But thank you for respecting women. That's all I can say.

    • I can understand what you are saying. I have some sisters that were rather large chested. It seemed no matter what they wore, they still seemed to have thier boobs exposed a little. they couldn't help it. For what it is worth, don't get mad at men for just finding you sexy. We can't help ourselves, but that doesn't give men a right to be jerks about it.

  • To simply answer your question, guys don`t always like you for your body. No matter how hot a woman may be, nobody will want her if she`s a bitch.

    Think about where you are: high school. Where secrets can never be held. Boys that age want sex and sex only. I was one of the horniest sex-crazed idiot of them all at that stage. But high school is still high school. Once boys find out a particular girl puts out: WATCHOUT! While you will never know peace, the girls who will clearly not put out will never have bf`s until who knows when. Rather a crappy Catch-22 isn`t it?

    Think of it this way: Be thankful you are so very beautiful. Billions of ugly women would murder to have your blessings.

    Ever thought of dating those average looking boys who are nice? You just might be surprised at how these "Nice-Guy-But-Not-My-Type" dudes will treat you

    • I have dated that type before. But they seem to scared with me =/ lyk to scared to move to the next step. My last by kyle was even to scared to kiss me and be my boyfriend because he thought I was too good for him and that's what he told me to my face before he broke up with me =[

    • YOU may go back to him and assure him that he is good enough for you. If not, then find someone else who has confident to jump you, yet stable enough not to be a horse`s ass about it. Because you are underaged, I cannot and will not touch you. `Nuf said. Remember: plenty of fish in the ocean. You are still very very very young

    • I'm 17. lol I'm not that young. && I wouldn't want you touching me..Not to sound rude but yeah you are very old. haha

Most Helpful Girls

  • 1. Guys figure that it doesn't hurt to ask. What they don't realize is that sometimes it does, and sometimes it gets really, really old.

    2. Try dressing more conservatively. I'm not talking frumpy, but it's totally possible to cover up while still being attractive, especially since it sounds like you have the figure for it. Think about some of the shows on tv now, where the girls run around in dresses that tend to conceal the chest area while showcasing their legs. This is a great way to change your image and start being taken more seriously.

    • I'm just gonna say this one more time. I don't dress skimpy and I cover up. lol

    • Sorry, I didn't read all of the answers before I posted.

  • THANK YOU!

    i have felt this way for a long time, but for me it was the football team :/

    as for guys- f*** em.

    the athletic crowd is always going to be full of douchebags that just want to fit in so they'll treat you like an object

    my advice would be ignore their comments and look for guys from other cliques, or better yet- other schools.

    don't let em getcha down girl, I'm sure you're way more than just a "hot" body!

    • Lol Thank you chica. My skool doesn't have a football team so I thank god don't have to deal with the football players. But I'm more into the skinny tall guys with abs that's why I go for the baseball team (just between us gurlz) lol

    • Haha ahh! i was that way too I actually just went to homecoming with one :] but it didn't really work out he was just way too shy, haha

    • You gotta love the shy ones though. They're just so cute you wanna kiss them. But that's the problem with the shy ones, they're to scared 2 make a move. But you can always help them. =] haha

  • well though you wrote that you don't want any more answers I'll still remind you to wear modest clothing i.e. shirts that cover your chest and aren't that tight. of course you could already be doing that I'm just saying in case you aren't.

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  • Well first off, it sounds to me like the boyfriend that told the whole team about making love to you was a very bad choice for a boyfriend. I have a hunch that you not only had sex with him too soon in your relationship because you didn't know him good enough, and also because to him you were more of challenge to get into your pants than you were a girlfriend. Some guys can't keep anything private just like some girls. So the next guy you start going with, make sure you trust the guy first and make it a vow to not be having sex until you also love him and are willing to commit yourself to him. and he to you. Other than that, you're likely to have a repeat performance. I've noticed that some girls that have particularly sexy curves dress as daring as they can so that they're noticed, while other with the same assets know how to dress to look very attractive yet keep some of their curves to themselves. Guys have a tendency to judge the girl by how she dresses, the same as you judge how good a movie is by the pictures on the postures and advertising rather than reading reviews from people that have already seen the movie or from critic reviews. .

    • Like I said. I don't dress like I want them to think bad thought about me. I button my shirts correctly at school and when I do wear skirts there at an ok length. =/ I don't know what your trying to do. But your making me feel worse about my situation. =[ but thanks for the try of helping me.

    • I was just telling you how guys sometimes judge girls by how the dress when they have more than ample curves. I wasn't talking about you directly You sound to me like you dress great. When it comes to boobs, way too many guys think a girl is a shank just because she has big beautiful boobs even if she does dress prefect. The problem in your case is because your ex told his buddies stuff he should have kept to himself, and what he did say was rude and disrespectful. .

    • Gawsh. I don't get that. lol It's not lyk I asked god to give me them. I just woke up one day, and they were kinda there. haha I don't get a guys mind sometimes, but they do use the wrong head sometimes. No offense to you, you seem to respect women. lol

  • Maybe they think your ex was a turd who like "got you on accident" and if HE could get you then surely THEY could. in fact I have a lot of belief in that being what it is. so because of this turd, they think it's that easy. they just must not think much of your past guys. looking like you look could be making them think that "she'd NEVER go out with me, but if only I could FUCK her!" don't get discouraged, you're probably just hanging around with the wrong type of guys if that stuff is bothering you. try a different crowd that would be more respectful, if that's what you're after.

    • I know. I have a boyfriend now. Hes a jock. Just a different sport. But the baseball player I dated was a sweetheart up utill we broke up, when he went and told some stuff I didn't want everyone to know =/ But I guess that's life. Being f***ed in the ass when you hate anal. lol (not literally)

  • At your age most guys can only look so naturally they focus on girl's assets. Don't worry about it.

    But the more mature guys are the ones who WON'T go in for this sort of thing.

    But if you're going to sleep with guys after a month, a guy you really barely know, the guys are going to ask 'why not me.?' Especially guys on sports teams. That's their family in a way.

    Once you have a repuation you have a problem that will probably last until you graduate, I'm afrraid.

  • Men are men, they can't help but look, especially if your showing it off. I know it can be an unfair stereotype, but if your showing it off like it's on sale there will be those looking to buy. No offense intended, but without actually knowing you it's the best information I can give you.

    • Thanks 4 the try. But I'm gonna say it one more time. I don't show anything off. I wear clothing god damnit. lol

  • Why does a boy think a girl with a hot body is easy? Two reasons come to mind:

    1. They're young and stupid. They'll grow out of it.

    2. Some unfortunate girls confuse sex with affection, beauty, attractiveness, or other stuff, and these boys would happily add to the confusion. Note: this is a bad thing.

    Take note of the guys who are with you to enjoy the time they spend with you, rather than the time they spend with your tits. These are your winners.

    • I know the difference between them loving me and loving my body. =] Thank you very much. lol

  • there trying to take advantage of you but only if you give in or let them, yes you have a nice body/figure so be proud of that. yea it sux that your getting hit on left and right what ever you do don't sleep with anyone unless it a relationship your in, or things can get ugly, like the rumor of you slept with the team.

    any help I hope so

    • There are allready stupid rumors like that going around. I told jimmy, My ex, that I thought we were a mistake because since I f***ed one guy... "SHE HAD TO FUCK THEM ALL!!!!" I hate it =[ But I'm defaintly not that kind of girl. It's just highschool shit and I hate it. But I don't think I can trust a guy that I really would want to date. I wouldn't know If I could trust if he really wanted me or just heard rumors and thought I was easy or something :/

  • Not all guys would only like you for your body, but to be honest, as a guy, to see a body like you described yours, sex is the first and usually only thing we could think of looking at a body like yours. If it is that sexy and that womanly, than it's like hypnotizing. I bet you WOULD look amazing naked.

    • Thanks =/ But keep it in your pants buddy.

  • i just wanted to note that ur perv guy friends are NOT friends, friends don't do that shit in secret they think about doing you and talk shit about ur back. how do I know cause I know people like that and I hate it

    • I call them my friends because we hangout alot. lol I know the difference between real friends and just people you hangout with.

    • Ok as long as you know that : ) but I personally wouldn't even hangout with such ppl

    • It's highschool. Most guys at my school our jocks and have there moments. It just kind of happens that way... If I wanna hang with my girl friends...They date these guys too so I'm kinda forced to. =/ But I now know who to trust.

  • just be glad that your wanted so much without even trying

    • It's not always wanted in a good way.

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