I don't mean to be offensive, but OMG, I can't believe that anal is still so mysterious! I was 15 when I had my first serious bf. It progressed from kissing to touching to oral. And when we were finally ready for penetration, we had anal. It just seemed like the logical next step, and I know it is for lots of couples. Does it hurt? Yes! How much depends on the person. For me it felt like king kong in there at first and I was yelping and freaking out.like OMG, OMG! But that sting goes away pretty fast. Then it just makes you feel kinda full, like you want to poop. But it turns into a very good feeling, and it gets better each time you do it. Yea, you might be a little sore after, but that goes away too.
If ne1 out ther thinks anal is still taboo and nobody really does it, ur on a different planet. Oral was prob taboo a long time ago too. Many if not most of the gurls I know eventually have anal with their guys, and tried it at a pretty early age. So relax and try it. It will bring you closer to him and you will engage in something that will be enjoyable always.
Awesome! Perfectly said!
hi friend I am seema, I am call girl...I do every day anal lots time ...there is nothing wrong trying anal, don't be nervous anal pain is better than abortion pain...my experience is very pain full at my first anal, ten inch long big 15 d*** entered in my anal & p**** one by one with horse power 15 to 20 times, I was cried, shout and screamed by lots pain...its hurt me lot but I take it enjoying the fun in pain ...there is no bad effect on you ...don't be scare and enjoy the pain of love...
I've tried it a few times, and if the guy is a bit bigger, it can be uncomfortable. We always used a form of doggy style, definitely a good lube, and go slow! Slow is best. Also, make sure to "clean yourself out" first. You can be a little sore afterward, and it can be messy. But if you guys do this right, and you communicate throughout, making sure he doesn't hurt you, you should be fine.
Like..froggy style? That is the best for a lot of girls.
With lube I used vaseline. First time its rough because you are tense and it hurts. You have got to relax go slow and with plenty of lube its great. I like to be on my side and for him to come behind .
I was sexually inexperienced, well to cut a long story short she wanted to try doggy style but it kept slipping out, she got so mad and ordered mr to stick it in and fuck me hard already, so thats what I did and I was very quick to cum, she was yelping and bucking about and seemed to love it. Then she shouted 'you fucker I dont do anal ehy would u do that it hurts' . Well from that you can guess what had happened, I had put it accidentally in her butthole. Just then her parents barged in and it was a whole shouting match, with my girl crying in the corner. Her dad took a swing at me and I hit back with a right knocking him down. I then ran for the hills with no trousers. Since then she hasn't contacted and won't answer my calls, texts or messages.
My girlfriend and I have anal sex occasionally, always with her kneeling in front of me. We both really love it when we're in the mood. The first time I was paranoid about hurting her, so we did lots of foreplay and I got her anus ready with loads of baby oil(!). As it turned out it didn't really hurt, and she's got used to it. The main advice above all else is use a condom or even two condoms. As for cleaning out your bum first, well it IS a good idea if only because a blockage can be painful .
Be safe, relax and enjoy!
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!i've never had annal but my friend has. I asked her what it was like and she sed it hurt like hell and she's never gonna do it again. but everyone is different probably
He did it wrong. Proly rushed it. No foreplay. Sorry that happened to your friend!
I've been on the receiving end of anal a number of times with guys and (using strap-ons) girls. it does hurt a bit at first, but if you take your time and really relax, it gets to feeling absolutely great. It's also easier if you're on top at first so that you can control the pace. It might take a few tries, but once you get it in, just rest like that for a moment and let yourself get used to it. Then go ahead and get as wild as you want. You can also use smaller toys at first to warm up.
get aroused to start juices flowing, relax and then try, don't go hammer and tongue all of a sudden
I asked her what it was like and she was fine with it. I know that she told me about her past and she didn't like it before because it gave her the feeling that she needed to go to the bathroom.
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