Yeah I really don't think he's serious about you, he just wants to get in your pants. He's confused because you're sending positive signals while at the same time rejecting him and he doesn't know what to make of you. Let him know you're looking for a committed relationship, if he runs for the hills you have your answer and you're better off for it. But it's pretty obvious he just wants to get in your pants.
1 0 0 0hmm.. so according to you... since I said I did not want sex with him anymore and he hasn't contacted me since then... I should still let him know that I'm looking for a committed relationship but it doesn't have to be him...?
because we have mutual friends tho we two usually don't hangout w them at the same time and they don't know about us?
reading your other responses, if you want to be subtle you can tell him you aren't interested in being a booty call. If you want to be really subtle you can bring it up semi-jokingly, something like "I don't do booty calls, but how about we " But if he's asking you over for nights, he thinks you're easy. It's also possible he has no idea how to have a relationship with a girl, and has no idea about the rate at which things progress. Like he asked you to go on vacation
Wait, back up a second: what do you want from this guy, if anything?1 0 0 0I'm looking for a relationship: it could be serious, or not , but I know that I do not want anything like FWB, as I‘m not sure whether I could be as cool and casual all the way thru. My problem right now is that I am confused: they sound like booty calls, but what was the vacation/uncle/friends/beach? also he seems to like talking about his dreams, hobbies, etc when we are together... Atm, he hasn't contact me since the status on his fb wall. Did I hurt him w constant rejections? leave him be?
First, at a minimum, explain to him what you just explained to me. He ought to know what he's getting into with you. Also, FWB *is* a relationship, just of a particular type--"cool and casual" as you say. That doesn't, however, mean you're strangers, but friends.
oh my.. explaining.. sounds like alright to me, but when it comes to thinking how I should start the convo and guide it without it becoming awkward.. a 'hey' after all that.. won't it hurt his ego? annoys him? we do hv mutual frds shall I just be straight forward and text something like: sorry abt earlier .. are you cool w jus hanging out cos I will b attached if we do sleep, also the reason I said I'm not looking for playing around (including FWB) like I told you at the very very beginning..
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0 1You my friend...experienced your first booty call. Congrats!
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